posted Thu, 09/12/2013 - 07:35
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Ok so everybody tells me i'm too picky blah, blah, blah. I obviously do not see it that way I see it as i'm looking for specific things and i'm usually willing to give most men that i'm attracted to a chance...having said that I met a guy on POF yest (keep in mind the yest part as you read on) he gave me his # I text him last night at 9, he CALLS me back at 7:30 this morning...I don't answer because i'm still sleeping...he texts me a half hour later...I text back and tell him i'm getting ready for work and that i'll text him later...he then proceeds to call me again at 10 AM, which I work in an office (as per my pic) with 10 other ppl in the same office, so I can't talk, btw I already told him I can't talk at work, so he says he understands...then he proceeds to call me again at 11 AM, this time I accidently answer the phone bec I was in the middle of texting HIM back, at which time I begin to get really weirded out...
ugh so is it me? or is he fucking nuts!!! am I just tooo picky? or is this behavior too aggressive?
he also works for the DEA, and we all know how I just looooove the government and their 3 letter agencies.
Advice please
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hmmm I like that i'm gonna copy and paste it to my text :o) good work Z!
Anytime....
BigBmajGet rid of him immediately. A needy bitch is bad enough but DEA. Run girl.
Stay away! he's too needy.. you dont want a guy obsessing 24/7 blame it on your profile pic lol
He's crazy. When people show you they have issues, believe them. A real man wouldnt have called you 730am either. Then calls way too many times, girl run.
AnonTell him the things he is doing are not acceptable. Nothin wrong with being honest.
Run... Change your phone number. Move... In all seriousness you know the answer to your question. If you feel like there is something off: There Is! It's pretty obvious. Only date people that are worthy of you and the type of person you are. Don't make time for those who aren't.
STAGE 5 Clinger! Also yes that makes him fucking nuts
Mike1982I think he just created stage 6 seeing as he has never seen you in person. Definitely get away from that any way you can.
P.s. I found my wife on that site lol
Crazy dude stay away! Lol 4real tho sounds like a psycho chick
so r you telling me there's hope on that site and i should unblock my profile? lol
JuiceFreaknevermind i answered my question no dea in canada lol
JuiceFreakit will only get worse the longer your with him if you enjoy your freedom he is not the guy for you
you should just tell him you and your ex are back together and it was just bad timing
He told me
RUN!!! Change your number. Seriously. I am all for giving people a chance but when the alarm bells and red flags start going off BEFORE the first date. No fking way. There's no need to check it out to see if he really is creepy and desperate. It's already been clearly confirmed.
RUN!
Exactly
X2. Sounds like a stalker in the making. WAY TOO KEEN!
Dea? Think about it. He's calling you while he's on the clock. You are his job. Gonna bust your ass. Run Alayna run.
omg Ed i hope as im running i just dont trip ..im really clumsy
AnonArent you part of the FDA ??? LOLOL
That many calls is a bit much, but I think you should cut him some slack till he gets to know better.
BTW what is POF ??
Haha we could only hope i worked for the FDA...it stands for plenty of fish its a dating site
No chance. IMO POF is one of the sketchiest of all "legit" dating sites. 99.324% of those people are single for a reason or not single at all. Good luck finding one of the .676% of decent people!
i know a few ppl who met ppl on that site so i figured id give it a shot ya know but ugh lol have you been on pof?
Yeah, I only found it useful as hookup site. I met my beautiful girlfriend of a year and a half on datehookup.com. It just seemed like the people on DH were more genuine.
He sounds desperate to me! Geez that many calls dam... Put him on ignore....
he sounds fucking nuts lol but hot girls make guys do stupid shit
UGH so do I give him a chance?
Nope......
might as well try a date at least...couldn't hurt and you'll really find out if he's nuts lol...dont forget to share the dating experience haha
lol if you guys want stories i got a shit load of them....as of now its 7:30 pm i haven't heard from him....i think he heard the sound of terror in my voice when he called the third time....so maybe he learned something at DEA 101
Hey...so what happened? did you go out? His response showed some over anxiousness no doubt, probably immature and a red flag. Most peoples natural reaction is gonna be back off of that kind of over zealousness. Most guys that have been around the block with hot chicks know you have to play it cool. If you don't they figure you cant be worth having. As far as being too picky...I have been thinking about this lately...after giving some advice to a girl friend of mine that is single. She is very picky on just about everything. I realized that's how I have been all of my life especially when it came to looks. If it looked good, I figured I could make the rest all work out. Unfortunately that eliminates a lot possibilities. And when you zero in on looks...or a few other traits you can or cant live without...youre starting out with a flawed approach that does not at all necessarily lend the best result; ie...a successful long term relationship. At least in my experience. Peace! BTW...I think its very cool that you stepped out of your el-natural zone and rolled the dice with some var...did the same thing recently. Your abs, legs arms, ass..eyes are all rockin!