posted Thu, 09/12/2013 - 07:35
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Ok so everybody tells me i'm too picky blah, blah, blah. I obviously do not see it that way I see it as i'm looking for specific things and i'm usually willing to give most men that i'm attracted to a chance...having said that I met a guy on POF yest (keep in mind the yest part as you read on) he gave me his # I text him last night at 9, he CALLS me back at 7:30 this morning...I don't answer because i'm still sleeping...he texts me a half hour later...I text back and tell him i'm getting ready for work and that i'll text him later...he then proceeds to call me again at 10 AM, which I work in an office (as per my pic) with 10 other ppl in the same office, so I can't talk, btw I already told him I can't talk at work, so he says he understands...then he proceeds to call me again at 11 AM, this time I accidently answer the phone bec I was in the middle of texting HIM back, at which time I begin to get really weirded out...
ugh so is it me? or is he fucking nuts!!! am I just tooo picky? or is this behavior too aggressive?
he also works for the DEA, and we all know how I just looooove the government and their 3 letter agencies.
Advice please
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HaHa good idea!
I'm guessing you don't like a guy that is super clingy.... Well this guy, yea he is gonna be VERY clingy.
No I do not....but I got rid of him after reading all the posts like yours
My guess is you're probably old enough to know that you can't change anyone. So the chances are that you'll find this ideal man may never materialize. The hope is that we find someone with enough desirable qualities that the other stuff can be overlooked even considered annoying but cute. Relationships are made up of compromises. You seem very nice and I hope you find someone that meets most of your needs and wants. Relationships are so volatile and must be worked on by both sides. I've been married 23 years now and we've grown apart and together like a never ending cycle. I can say we've had a lot more ups than downs but we still work on it 1 day at a time sometimes even 1 hour 1 minute at a time. Funny thing is we don't have much in common. We enjoy each others company and have the same goals. So I think having everything in common is overrated. She occasionally does things that I like to do and vise versa but this is more for the time that's being spent with one another than anything else. I live by a few simple rules and everything else seems to work itself out. Only 1 person is allowed to be crazy at a time. Never call names (there nothing more damaging) and choose your battles because if you fight them over everything than when you REALLY mean it, it goes unnoticed.
AnonOkay, Alayna. Here is today's report on being single. this cowgirl that I brought home a couple of times busted her head open and got 5 staples. She texted me and is trying to get me to come over and baby sit her and I'm not going to do it. I haven't seen her in a couple of months
Another one that has this really chunky ass is wanting to come over and have sex but I told her I was old and beat up and had to go to bed early.
I met a jewish girl days ago and never heard from her so I deleted her number. She texted me tonight and I didnt know who she was and when i asked who she was she just said "nevermind" (She waited too long)
I'm talking to another one that is cute as hell but she talks to much. everything from god to demons and all the shit I dont believe in. I finally told her I had to use the rest room to get her off the phone. I really want to have sex with her, so maybe I can handle it until the time comes. then maybe she will like me enough that I can ask her to not talk so much.
AnonLOLOL this is not the only batshit crazy chic youve gone after just for sex. The question is can you get her to stay quiet after sex ? If not you may have to throw her in the pit
AnonOh, I know... I always seem to meet the batshit crazy ones for some reason.
She knows EVERYTHING and if you don't believe me you can ask her. I was talking to her on the phone last night and thought about punching myself in the face. I watched a documentary the other night that stated that we only use language for 7% of our communication, the other 93% is body language. A lot of women want to talk all the time, what the hell is up with that?
Edit: We had talked about meeting today but I texted her and told her I wasnt going to be available. This is one of those days that I just cant listen to her, lol.
Oh women talk all the time!! just women!! right! try living a day or night in the life of Alayna! men are fuckin nuts hence my post!! lol for every sterotype you can claim about women i have at least 100 examples to discount which prove men are exactly the same, no different, in fact worse! Conversely for every sterotype women claim about men i have thousands of examples and experiences to prove they are untrue...i.e. all men are cheaters, men don't listen, men don't notice anything, men are clueless, men only think of sex, men just wanna have sex then go to sleep blah
blah blah the list is endless...i've met a lot of men who break the sterotypes and i've met a lot of men who are whinny ass bitches ugh lol
AnonI never said all women were the same and I wont type out anything. I have friends who are married to some wonderful women. I'm close to my mother and I have 4 sisters. Only one of my sisters talks a lot, So i think i have a good grip on the actions of women. i have seen videos of women having sex with horses on the internet, being gang banged and marrying old men for their money and if you think I put my family into the same basket as those women, you are sadly mistaken.
To prove something to you but not to the rest of us.
;-)
Edit: poor qualities has nothing to do with gender i.e. being rude, calling to much, talking to much, lying, cheating, ect. both sexes do it. my posts have had nothing to do with gender, only annoyances.
I think you misunderstood what i said or im misunderstanding you either way we agree annoying ppl come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and genders
AnonI love having a convo but its got to be a two way convo, dont talk "at me" . I have no patience for yapy women hot ass or not
Lmao you sound like the male version of me are you copying my life...lol
a tip for future...if you delete someone then they delete u and yr clueless who they r just say yr sorry you lost all yr contacts...it works for me every time s
AnonEveryone says that!
damn i thought i was unique
wow. you 2 are a perfect match ;)
are you tryin to play match maker lol btw i use MSM everyday i take a half a tsp and mix in with buffered vitamin C in water
ahh okay ty
Anonim scared to even comment because he's probably already monitoring you here :o
Lol well hopefully someone is monitoring his crazy ass shakin their head saying this guys got no game!
He actually sounds intimidated and doesn't want to fuck it up! This being said it sounds like he's trying too hard and is going to end up fucking it up..... Lol don't think to much into it! He's scared to death he's going to lose you before he's even got you. I say what the hell givem' a chance!!!
Its too late i cut him loose! but on another note New Chapter is my favorite maker of supplements :0)
Crazy. Probably controlling too.
Now dont get me wrong, Ive always been one to NOT play it cool. If you like a woman there is no waiting period, no purposeful blowoffs to show her how cool you are or busy, etc. But not listening, not respecting a womans space or time sounds like what this fucker is up to.
Gotta set him straight before he chloroforms you and you wake up tied to the bed in the shrine he made for you. You know the pictures he took of you brushing your teeth, the hair doll he made out of your hair pieces hes collected, drawings of mutilated genitals, all the instruments needed for making a skin suit, all that stuff.
AnonIT RUBS THE LOTION ON ITS SKIN.
nailed it.
Or it gets the HOSE
AnonI had the picture up of buffalo bob or what ever his name was and I think a mod took it down, lol.
AnonHey? A mod must have taken the pic off?
for some reason some links don't work
http://www.tickld.com/images/content/148913.jpg
Anonbahahaha thats great !!!
Perfect!!!
Waaat??
AnonSilence of the lambs.
i do t get it everyone else does but i dont! :(
AnonDont worry Alayna the victims were all "big gals" so he had extra skin to work with.
tks Novice thats very comforting!
AnonIt was a movie called "Silence of the lambs" the guy kidnaps women and makes a suit out of their skin.
i saw that movie too i dont remember that part...that movie was twisted im still creeped out by it ewww
Anonhahaha you are really pouring on the charm now D !! Whats next the Jason mask for Laney ?
Anonis that you?
AnonYou didnt know D spent his summers at camp crystal lake ?
lol lol he looks so sexy in that mask and he knows how much i love a man in a mask!
O mi god roflmao! i just spit out my tea!
Cocopuffthis belongs on facebook, serious shit.
Everything in "Off Topic" belongs on facebook...how fuckin much can you talk about juice seriously!!
AnonIts right where it needs to be... "Off Topic" There are no rules broken here.
;0)
I had this girl who wouldnt stop calling/txting me. no matter what i did to get her to stop, she wouldnt. keep in mind i never has sex w/ her or w/e. I just got her number once because she was a friend of a friend and i called her once before i found out she was crazy. i only talked to her once, so one day after 6 missed calls, i get this text. and it was a nude photo of her. I was thinking like wtf do u do in these situations. i think she gave up after leaving me a bunch of missed calls for like 3 days.
Thats bec yr XBeast and totally drive women nuts!! hehe
Thank u for yr advice too
man what kind of guy is this. usually my girl is happy i bless her with a call, this dude is calling u how many times a day.. god damn.. that some security or stalking issues.. and if i just picked up ur number and i call and u dont answer, i wont even call back until u either return my call or text me... if it doesnt start good, it wont progress in the right way, move on, im sure u wont have a hard time getting another guy to come up to u.