posted Thu, 09/12/2013 - 07:35
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Ok so everybody tells me i'm too picky blah, blah, blah. I obviously do not see it that way I see it as i'm looking for specific things and i'm usually willing to give most men that i'm attracted to a chance...having said that I met a guy on POF yest (keep in mind the yest part as you read on) he gave me his # I text him last night at 9, he CALLS me back at 7:30 this morning...I don't answer because i'm still sleeping...he texts me a half hour later...I text back and tell him i'm getting ready for work and that i'll text him later...he then proceeds to call me again at 10 AM, which I work in an office (as per my pic) with 10 other ppl in the same office, so I can't talk, btw I already told him I can't talk at work, so he says he understands...then he proceeds to call me again at 11 AM, this time I accidently answer the phone bec I was in the middle of texting HIM back, at which time I begin to get really weirded out...
ugh so is it me? or is he fucking nuts!!! am I just tooo picky? or is this behavior too aggressive?
he also works for the DEA, and we all know how I just looooove the government and their 3 letter agencies.
Advice please
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No problem. I'll send you an FR. Message me if you need any future translations or possible hidden agendas/truths revealed.
I see you beat me to it.
Lol tks
ehhh maybe he's been out of the game for a long time. Looking at your pictures....I can see how a girl like yourself may cause a guy to seem to "eager"
Unspoken rules from men - 1. first contact via phone is text before call
2. wait more than a day
3. One text or call with no answer should not be contacted a second time untill a reply comes
lol maybe those unspoken rules should be spoken or posted in the "man rules for dating 101" book..
Rules and guidelines change from man to man. It also depends on the quality of the woman we're dealing with. I've found consistency followed by short replies, then a little silence, and back to consistency works best. Sprinkle an apology in there; you were busy, helping someone move, etc.
Anonhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-QToIzw7Fk
AnonI finally got to try a feature on my trapcall.com This chic drug her feet too long and if I dont get what I want pretty quickly I seem to lose interest, so I black listed her. She called me and it tells her that my phone number has been disconnected, so she starts texting me asking why it says my phone has been disconnected. Hey if my phone has been disconnected I'm not getting her texts either huh?
I'm meeting another one here in just a bit, she is cute and petite but she goes to church... automatically I'm seeing a red flag. I don't know why it seems appropriate for someone to start telling me, I'm going to hell for not... blah blah blah.
I've seen some church going girls to some crazy shit. They'll be forgiven so its all good. lol
AnonYou have got to see a movie called Searching for the wrong eyed jesus
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5kjm9IuIMc
amen
lmfao! but you are goin to hell and not for not bein saved! but we'll all see ya there! hmmmm better convince her that jesus used gear too :0)
Anon"“When lip service to some mysterious deity permits bestiality on Wednesday and absolution on Sunday, cash me out.”
Frank Sinatra.
I'm cool with a chic going to church but it seems they are NOT cool with me not going
well ya know if you go to church with her a least one time yr guaranteed some action! so you may wanna google "the our father" prayer
AnonI learned to kiss at church camp! I was only 12 years old! This chic was really hot (girl) and there was this gravel alley type thing at the back of the church camp, I'll never forget her name it was Sonya. We was all strolling back there and she grabbed me and stuck her tongue in my mouth and it scared the hell out of me, other people were laughing because I was shaking. That love affair lasted 3 days and then there was this cute little blonde and she smoked cigarettes, how she got them in a church camp I'll never know. I learned how to french kiss (not very good) and smoke (I didnt inhale). I got into trouble all the time there. I always got into trouble anywhere I went after that, maybe it was because of church camp. Talk about girls maturing quicker than boys... jeez.
Edit: I was 11 at that church camp, by the time I was 13 I was into all kinds of trouble and got sent somewhere else to live, lol.
so its been a few decades since church camp (that almost souds like an oxymoron)
hows the french kissin these days....how many more sonya's stuck their tongues in yr mouth?
AnonNow I have got more picky. I didn't think about dental hygiene when I was a kid. I can take a woman with some junk in the trunk as long as she flosses. Which everyone should do. I always ask a woman on the first date if she has flossed because I don't want to be sticking my tongue in there if there is rotting decomposing animal flesh in between her teeth. I always carry dog biscuits with me just in case and tell them its a new protein thing they are selling at the gym.
ARRRF!!!
Lmao! I can only imagine going on a first date with you and you asking me if I flossed? and then handing me a dog biscuit! have you ever dated an Italian women?? what they say about our passionate firey personalities is not a stero type or a myth ;)
AnonAre you Italian? You do floss right?
Just tell him you have legions of silverbacks prepared to come stomp his ass out and rip his arms off if he don't make like a tree and split! ;)
lol ok maybe that'll scare him!! ok so i'm gonna be brave and just say he scared me!!
I TOLD YOU TO CHANGE YO NUMBER!!
Lol
Anontrapcall is cheaper, it will tell him your number has been disconnected
ugh I can't really change my number I've had it for 12 years....I seriously NEVER thought I wld hear from him again...he prob thinks I died lol
Yeah I really was kidding with the number change. Ignoring the sumbitch is a lot easier. Just let him keep thinking you died ;)
Ugh idk if anyone is gonna see this bec the thread slowed down but he just called it's been a week and I haven't contacted him....ugh if a guy didn't contact me in a week or even less I wld never contact him again...I don't understand!
LOL... get an app for you phone and block his ass...
GRRL I've taken your advice and have not responded... so far so good
well i did take yr advice and he hasnt contacted me since thurs......i couldnt even imagine at this point contacting me...i mean hes got to have some dignity?!
he may pop up here and there looking for a response but he WILL go away at some point for ever.. whatever you don't respond as any response will result in a barrage of more texts/calls
BigBmajYou haven't responded to me in a good two years and I still text you.
shush... lol.. but I talk to you here so you have hope that maybe one day I'll text you back...
BigBmajAnd there you go, stringing me along again.
That's pretty cool. I wonder if the app is capable of blocking all private numbers??
My mom has a stalker and she gets several blocked number calls a day. I'll be in jail for killing a sumbitch before all is said and done
Anontrapcall.com $37.00 a year and it will unmask blocked calls
THANK YOU!!!
One time when I first learned how to send pics I sent a sexy pic to a guy I was dating and I accidentally sent it to the wrong number but i didn't know that yet and the guy called me and was like I got this pic blah blah blah and I was like omg i'm so sorry it wasn't meant for you and he was cool and hung up but then for a year after I got calls from a blocked number all hours of the night and day...finally I went to the police but they couldn't do anything but they told me to answer the phone and just say "i went to the police and your number is being traced" it worked bec they never called back.....so maybe your mom could try to that too...i know its such an awful feeling getting those calls...
Girl we've been through all kind of shit with this and even been to court over it. He's got a two year probation on him so if he fucks up and gets caught again he'll spend some time in jail rather than the typical over night stays he's gotten in the past. We've had her number changed and apparently he knows someone who works at AT&T because he's had someone hack into my acct to get her number and of course they say they can't track who looked into my acct. He owns his own business, makes real good money and he's got a bunch of thugs that wrk for him that'll do anything for cash. He thinks he's untouchable and he also thinks he's smarter than everyone else and that's gonna be his downfall. His days are numbered
wow that's terrible! i'm sure you wanna beat the fuck outta him! idk why ppl just can't move past someone its crazy! ya know when it's over its over, why wld you wanna be with someone who doesn't wanna be with you ugh sorry for your mom and you too...I hate that the police can't do more in situations like this.
AnonThere are sites all over google that will give you someones family members, unlisted phone numbers, every place you have lived, you name it for a price. What i dont understand is where they get all their information and why its legal.
http://www.peoplefinders.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campa...
http://www.intelius.com/people-search.html?searchform=name&gclid=CP_H4Lf...
http://www.wikihow.com/Find-a-Person-With-an-Unlisted-Phone-Number
Facebook and classmates.com is selling our info but so is anyone else that knows all our info. Credit cards do it too. There's big money in information. Talk about doing something about it all you want but the horse is already out of the barn and he is at full gallop
The thing about it is this sob is married! I think his wife is too scared to leave for fear of her life..
If I catch him on my property again he's a dead man. I've already caught him once on surveillance cameras and got a trespassing charge on him. I have absolutely no problems killing a sonofabitch like that. I would've already done it if I knew I wouldn't go to jail. I want to see my kids grow up ya know...
The tragic thing in a lot of cases like this is the cops can't do much until a crime is committed even with all the warning signs and most of the time it's too late
I know yet we're spied on all the time! the cops however, seem to be able to cross all kinds of lines, when they deem suitable, but stalking seems to have a very broad allowance.
Yelp. It's fucked up
I don't have that kind of phone my phone is from 2008 lol....ugh and he sent me email too I just found out asking "what happened" what should I say?
AnonAlayna, Why not go ahead and step into the new iphone 5s? I know you dont like new technology that spies on you but I think its too late now anyway. Everything anyone wants to know about us is already available.
lol this is true but i'm 6 years without a raise and I actually bring home less money than I did 4 years ago due to increases in deductions in my paycheck so I have to make concessions and my phone works well so I just keep it...I pay for my sons new iphone which he got today.
absolutely positively DO NOT respond.. he will eventually go away ...
ok
tell destructos to protect you
haha he doesn't lust me anymore!
AnonTell him you got a new number, then give him grrrl's phone number. I guarantee you he will move on then, lol.