Feeling like a fool (got cheated on)
Edit - thanks for the reply bros, I really needed some wise words of advice, I feel stupid as fuck, I'm lost, feeling really crappy, I just don't understand why someone asks for your heart just crush it like that.. as far as violence goes, I'm not gonna fight my boss, hoes will be hoes, I'm mostly mad at myself for letting my guard down. Unfortunately replacing a chick with another chick with this state of mind will be a disaster I rather be alone. My only question is that, how can I get her back? Nothing better than revenge.. I wanna destroy her heart and out her in the gutter just like she did me..
Thanks bros stay jacked!
Hey guys, since im too proud to tell any of my boys this story, i figure i would share with my gym bros..
So i've been hooking up with this girl for almost a year now, everything was going well... i thought i found a gem, that she was all about me, loved me, treated me like i was "special" all the cliche bullshit.. i bought it. i really started to develop feelings for her and gave her my heart.. She went on vacation all of the sudden a week into, this 2 week vacation, she is not communicating with me on the daily basis, not even a call a day or nothing. So i was getting a liltle suspicious like WTF i can't get a call or nothing, i went on FB found a pic of her with some dude at the beach having a jolly time, now it makes sense, no wonder she has been "unavailable" she is too busy banging someone else. to make matters worse i found out from a co-worker she banged my boss.. Fuck my life its been a bad day.. whatever just needed to vet that shit out..
i feel like a fool for believing all the bullshit she told me. i cant believe i got punked like that , all i know is that when she comes back, i hope i can break it off clean and not act like a fuckin sore looser. it will be hard to keep my shit together when i feel so angry and disappointed. i guess you cant turn a hoe into a house wife :(
Im take all this negative, hurtful, angry feelings and put it towards something productive, hit the gym harder than before, focus on my gains.. thank god i've the house of gains as my temple. (and no im not on tren)
thoughts?
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On the bright(ish) side, at least you know the truth now. It would be much worse if this would have progressed.
You've got nothing to hang your head for. She's the one who is a dishonest shit-stain. Keep your head up and be strong. Be grateful you don't have to deal with this in the future and you'll be wiser for it. Best of luck.
Facts the sooner the bette r
Believe me karma's a bitch!
So is/was his girlfriend.
I dunno bro that's why if you find a good one keep her and treat her good but I know you will never find a good one if your stuck in a relationship with a bad one.
Don't let her think she got you just cut her out of the picture completely. Sometimes you can work it out but sounds like betrayal and deception is in her nature
Most def gonna cut her off, just want to make her suffer first
Bro the fact that you can share your story says you are on a good path, bottom line is she ain't worth it.
Hang in there, not easy I know, but she don't care about you, you shouldn't give a shit about her.
I wish, I could say I don't care about her cuz, in fact I do, I'm just gonna have to learn not to care in order to move on
Fuck her sister or best friend and yeah train your ass off youbwill feel a million times better
Screw her, not worth wasting time talking about her any longer, move on. It happens to us all mate.
Your boss however is another matter, did he know she was your bird?
Yeah he did, apparently they screwed more than once
Bro all I can say is delete her number and move on like she never happened. Don't look at Facebook Snapchat or any of that shit that she is on. Cut her completely out of your life. Social media can drag shit like this out. She'll be back and want to work it out, sty the hell away from her. Once a hoe, always a hoe! Hit the gym, hang with the guys and find you a nice chick to talk to and not rush into anything. It sucks bro. Not to sound like a woman hater but I only trust one woman entirely and thats my mama! Haha! Best of luck bro!
Facts exactly how I am feeling now
man.... thats one shitty ass feeling bro.... i have been in that exact state of mind that you are now in. the good news is after all that suffering i found the gal of my dreams which made all the bullshit i went through worth it. you def cant turn a hoe into a housewife. i remember going thru that same shit man and you just have to channel all that hate and disgust into your training. its sucks man it really does but believe me when i say it gets better. just wanted to comment since i can relate but keep your head up mate. when she comes back just act as happy as you've ever been and that will fuck wit her more than anything else. hope all goes well my brother and its all gonna workout
I know, it will get better, been there before. What can I say I'm a lover.. I just hate the fact that she's out there at the beach chillin, getting banged while I'm here sleepless in the cold ass weather..