Feeling like a fool (got cheated on)
Edit - thanks for the reply bros, I really needed some wise words of advice, I feel stupid as fuck, I'm lost, feeling really crappy, I just don't understand why someone asks for your heart just crush it like that.. as far as violence goes, I'm not gonna fight my boss, hoes will be hoes, I'm mostly mad at myself for letting my guard down. Unfortunately replacing a chick with another chick with this state of mind will be a disaster I rather be alone. My only question is that, how can I get her back? Nothing better than revenge.. I wanna destroy her heart and out her in the gutter just like she did me..
Thanks bros stay jacked!
Hey guys, since im too proud to tell any of my boys this story, i figure i would share with my gym bros..
So i've been hooking up with this girl for almost a year now, everything was going well... i thought i found a gem, that she was all about me, loved me, treated me like i was "special" all the cliche bullshit.. i bought it. i really started to develop feelings for her and gave her my heart.. She went on vacation all of the sudden a week into, this 2 week vacation, she is not communicating with me on the daily basis, not even a call a day or nothing. So i was getting a liltle suspicious like WTF i can't get a call or nothing, i went on FB found a pic of her with some dude at the beach having a jolly time, now it makes sense, no wonder she has been "unavailable" she is too busy banging someone else. to make matters worse i found out from a co-worker she banged my boss.. Fuck my life its been a bad day.. whatever just needed to vet that shit out..
i feel like a fool for believing all the bullshit she told me. i cant believe i got punked like that , all i know is that when she comes back, i hope i can break it off clean and not act like a fuckin sore looser. it will be hard to keep my shit together when i feel so angry and disappointed. i guess you cant turn a hoe into a house wife :(
Im take all this negative, hurtful, angry feelings and put it towards something productive, hit the gym harder than before, focus on my gains.. thank god i've the house of gains as my temple. (and no im not on tren)
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Ditch the bitch, ride her ma and sister
Did that once, it helps, while you are in a funk
my friend ,
im 51 years old , done half my life in a cage , over ,, well we know that already ... my 1st wife cgeated. , ended up with a ,ASSHOLE THAT AINT HERE ANYMORE BECAUSE HE , WANTED ALL MY GIRLS BABIES TO ..(HES DEAD)
my second live in girl cheated , and my 2nd wife. ,
one man to another DO YOU , YOUR BETTER THAN THAT ... i gave up. i went home with someone anytime i went out. ..
now im married 4 years with her for 6 (portarican moma ) and you know what she thought the grass was greener. lol. she came home quick :(
your young (comoared to me ) take your time and enjoy life my friend. wtf your lucky. .. then the right one will come. .. unfortunately. lol at myself. ,, but. if i need to worry about a woman ,, IM OUT. ,, no chains on noones ass around here. .. she has a roof. , a debit card i load. (thank gods she into dollor store and not meterial) shes not a fool. .. she fucked up and left 1x over my buss ...
what im saying is , dont make the same mistake , give yourself some respect ... and go get it in. , someone brings a tooth brush or a pad to your house tell them bounce. .... shake it off lifes to short enjoy your freedom. ... the rightnone will come. and then your gonna be pissed. lol.
Words of wisdom right here, pege.
Respect, bro!
Brother im so sorry. Tears you up inside. Been married 38 years and wife and I (because I thought it would be "cool") exposed all ( well...) 2 years ago. I told her something, she got mad and told me something. Stood my world on end for 2 years with raging, attempted separation etc. We reconciled and love her more today than i did when we married at Justice of Peace. Women are supposed to be like Mom. Perfect. Lololol. Man this macho BS culture gets inside of you and its just not real. John Wayne was physically abused by wife number 2 and he called police in terror. After he finally moved out of Moms house. Man i hope you are doing good 5 months later. Yea...wife aint going on vacation to islands without my ass....lol.
Does he taste ok??
Sorry had too.
Lol
peekyblinderi found the easist thing to do was to hate ,blame my self and foolishly try and get into a relationship again straight away,the hardest thing is not to forgive but to switch her off like a light switch ,like many i lost money my heart and my soul i felt at times .then you look in the mirror see what you have achieved at the gym and no one can take that away from you say i give you that ,the worst thing in the world is to be lonely but to be with another that i cant trust is worse,i trust my self and the iron that is my therapy my anger channeled in to my sessions ,the next one will find you .i havent but i wont go looking either ,i hope you find peace mate ,god bless
I think it's a fact that gains are better when pissed off Its good you can make something positive out of a negative The thing the younger guys need to realize is this lifestyle is far from normal for most folks We carry food around that most people don't eat We have traing schedules eating and pinning schedules we have blood work routinely If your not involved in the sport it's probably not a lot of fun to be around That's why I think it's important to give our spouses space and encourage them to do the things they want I'd be surprised if they don't get back together after her cruise If he really cares about her he should listen to her side of the story
peekyblindercouldnt agree more mate
Look the guy in the picture could have been long ago or maybe a gay friend Maybe she banged your boss before you knew her or maybe the friend is lieing One things for sure if your going through her stuff you have some issues of your own Even if it is true it doesn't give you the right to go through her stuff Sometimes things aren't as they appear Good luck
Its easier said than done, I know, but you have to take it as a hard lesson learned, grow from it, and move on.
AnonHey man, atleast she didnt take $40k, 3 motorcycles, house and need medical insurance for a year after your breakup/divorce then tell you on the day the divorce was signed off by a judge tell you she banged a bunch of dudes while you were overseas in the suck, spend all your monies on vacations with randos while you were shitting MRes and eating cardboard for breakfast. Even though that sounds bad, its still the best thing thats ever happened to me. The best way to get back at her is to not let it bother you and act like she was just a fart in the wind to you.
That's insane, makes me feel better about my situation. Sorry to hear that story brother
Yer bro it's happened to me and it makes you feel like shit,but karma will come around and bite that bitch in the Arse,move on brother I know it's hard to get out of your head you have been deceived but trust me there are women out there that are not just interested in cheating on you things happen for a reason better you know now before you married the whore,My ex wife was the same dropping them knickers to everyone there dirty bastads my friend and to make matters worse when you find out the bloke is a total skinny dweeb you think to yourself what the hell is going on,women are attention seeking fuckers who don't give a shit who sticks it in em,forget about them for a while find yourself again and the right one will come along when you least expect it.good luck brother.ps you asked how to get her back with revenge,don't waste another minute of your time on her it will chew u up even more.
Hey man, just wanted to share my history because ive felt like a fool too.
I just woke up at my ex's house and decided to break up with her for reasons that dont matter now.
She has a cousin in her eastern europe home country, i even met him when we traveled there. Some hours after the breakup i discover that he is no family at all, actually a guy he met on the internet some time before i met her, who traveled here to meet her but he didnt like her enough to have relationship, so it was some kind of unrequited love for her.
2 years ive lived this lie, having the guy visiting us at home and visiting his, thinking he is from her family.
The person who told me also said that my ex didnt cheat on me, but the lie itself is enough for me to run away and never look back!! I feel better now that i know!
damn bro, I'm sorry to hear that story. at least you had the balls to cut her off, you better off without a women thats going to disrespect you like that. That is one of my main fear, when you start dating a chick and she has a bunch of guy "friends" or a friend with benefits that she no longer bangs. all that sounds like bull crap to me. its hard to trust a girl now days.
the reason to cut her off didnt have anything to do with cheating or other persons, but this has saved me a lot of grieving time
and yes, i trust no woman right now
Sorry to burst an already sorry bubble - but 'didn't cheat on you'? Reality check - he's not visiting for his health. The story you told is so very common where I live. Girls go online - chat a guy, meet him, fuck him and sometimes it works - sometimes not. For some, the sex is good and that's enough. Others are looking for a relationship. I met lots of girls who introduced some lay-about as their brother or cousin...in reality it was a boyfriend or husband encouraging the girl to fuck guys for money...you see, those guys don't really care about their women - if the girl can earn some money on her back - well that's fine by those guys - an old saying:" a slice off a cut loaf is never missed." You have been suckered by that girl....dump her and move on.
Ive never heard that saying but it a great one!!!!
It's not copyright - feel free to use it :-)
Nah i can assure you she wasnt with me because of the money, she has a good job (she lives in a aparthotel for free, plus very good salary), we both have enough.
She just had an "unhealed" crush for him
According to her close friend who told me all this, she did not ever cheat.
Emotionally cheating is cheating. I think it's just as bad. Not sure why you're selling yourself a lift. Find a girl that's all there and go from there. Don't settle for less.
I already said i broke up with her, and found about this AFTER.
Theres no turning back.
Glad to hear it. Just kind of sounded like you were making excuses for her. Glad you moved on.
Best of luck
Bro, this may be the best thing that ever happened to you. I recently met a drop dead gorgeous girl who is really cool. If I put this together then I'm sending my ex a thank you card.
Best of luck to you.. I hope I can turn things around here
Whore!
You damn right!! These hoes ain't loyal, they all silicone, fake gains lmfao
The best revenge is when she comes crawling back, and you've already got a new girl. Turn your emotions into energy at the gym....
Easier said than done, working on becoming a cold hearted mofo
That's life bro. It's happened to just about everyone... move on.. after about a week or two of no contact you should start to feel better. It sucks bro but life goes on.
Take this new extra time you have to spend time with the people that really matter in your life (family and friends).
Thank God or whatever you believe in that you found out now before marrying bitch.
That's true there is always a positive way of looking at it.. yeah some women are just not meant to be, it just gonna be hard to trust again
My wife cheated with some cocksucker from her work. Then he stalked and sexual harassed her after it ended. Karma is a bitch!
Lmfao I'm it feels good to come on top of it all
Just remember what Dr Dre said, "bitches ain't shit"
I'm not rich like dr dre lmfao
two things
revenge is best served cold
the best revenge is living a successful life
I know but, please enlighten me,,, how can a women that is saying she loves you one day, goes and bangs someone that same day?
Simple. For some people love and sex are two entirely different concepts. As Westerners we grow up believing that if you love someone you will be faithful (not fuck anyone else) and s/he will do the same. That's our cultural programming. Some people just don't accept that and can genuinely care for some one else - but still enjoy having sex with other people...eg: swingers, bi-sexuals, group sex, threesomes...the list goes on. Some of those people may have genuine feelings for their partner - but need/desire sex with other people. I'm not saying that I condone those behaviours - just saying that they exist.
I wish I knew that before we got serious then I would've ran away
Humans are complex,she may love you and want to bang someone else.It happen all the time.The hard part is understanding it doesn't define you,its really all about her.Ive known a lot of men that cheat all the time,especially when on gear,but would kill themselves if their wives caught them.They love their wives very much but are really just a bundle of passions and compulsions and chemical reactions.Keep your head up and for gods sake don't stalk her.... They hate that shit!
"she may love you and want to bang someone else."
What is this shit? Fkn Jerry Springer and Dr. Phil had a baby?
I wasn't saying it was right but "right"and reality are two different things.I was only saying don't let being cheated on define you or leave you jaded.Its not worth it.Also body builders are notorious cheaters but always seem surprised when they get cheated on!
I'd say any bodybuilders that cheat are just manshit.
Actually Manshit is not a cheater but I see what you're saying!
Lol! Amen.
I love the "there is no wrong" crowd. Whatever I feel and do is right. Morals, values? What he hell are those? That kind of thinking will lead to a crap-fest life. Best of luck with that!
That's what's wrong with this world. Fkn Dr. Spok I'm ok, your ok bullshit. Gonna all link up in a giant circle, forming a worldwide daisy chain wrapped in a rainbow flag.
Gone to hell in a $500 handbag. Made in china.
She's a liar. There are plenty of them out there. We all fall prey now and again to them, in one way or another. Karma is a bitch though. What comes around goes around. Hang in there. Time will. S your friend.
??? I heard that somewhere.
Fuck all her friends or her mom will hurt her more than she hurt u just saying! How we did it back n the day! Even better video it and send it to her n say how's it feel bitch! lol also post some FB pics at the bar with her friends after u fuck them! Hits real deep!