Feeling like a fool (got cheated on)
Edit - thanks for the reply bros, I really needed some wise words of advice, I feel stupid as fuck, I'm lost, feeling really crappy, I just don't understand why someone asks for your heart just crush it like that.. as far as violence goes, I'm not gonna fight my boss, hoes will be hoes, I'm mostly mad at myself for letting my guard down. Unfortunately replacing a chick with another chick with this state of mind will be a disaster I rather be alone. My only question is that, how can I get her back? Nothing better than revenge.. I wanna destroy her heart and out her in the gutter just like she did me..
Thanks bros stay jacked!
Hey guys, since im too proud to tell any of my boys this story, i figure i would share with my gym bros..
So i've been hooking up with this girl for almost a year now, everything was going well... i thought i found a gem, that she was all about me, loved me, treated me like i was "special" all the cliche bullshit.. i bought it. i really started to develop feelings for her and gave her my heart.. She went on vacation all of the sudden a week into, this 2 week vacation, she is not communicating with me on the daily basis, not even a call a day or nothing. So i was getting a liltle suspicious like WTF i can't get a call or nothing, i went on FB found a pic of her with some dude at the beach having a jolly time, now it makes sense, no wonder she has been "unavailable" she is too busy banging someone else. to make matters worse i found out from a co-worker she banged my boss.. Fuck my life its been a bad day.. whatever just needed to vet that shit out..
i feel like a fool for believing all the bullshit she told me. i cant believe i got punked like that , all i know is that when she comes back, i hope i can break it off clean and not act like a fuckin sore looser. it will be hard to keep my shit together when i feel so angry and disappointed. i guess you cant turn a hoe into a house wife :(
Im take all this negative, hurtful, angry feelings and put it towards something productive, hit the gym harder than before, focus on my gains.. thank god i've the house of gains as my temple. (and no im not on tren)
thoughts?
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If your boss is married,.......... his wife needs to be made aware. So she can get an aids test also.
Just sayin.
Nice
Lmfao bro!
Take half of everything. Sue the fuck outta her. Get one of ya mates to knee cap him, wait till he leaves hospital in his way out then break his arms aswell. Problem solved. Wont even know its you. I tell ya if it happened to me it would be worse id have different mates every week at his house. Beatings, shootings everything id even send them after his family. Fuck him. Just dont get caught and dont be stupid and organise on ph or internet. No paper trail.
Damn you are violent,, I like it!
That aint violent, the truth of what would really happen i wont type on forums. I will add this- anything that is frozen will not expel liquid.
I would get shredded for the summer and make her jealous af and blow her off when she tries to contact you or talk to you! Don't be down and depressed be glad you weren't with her sorry ass any longer and didn't waste anymore of your time! Everything always looks up a little bit afterwards...
That's the plan be mad shredded and tan!! Nothing will make me feel more confident.
Take your boss aside. Tell him you broke up with your gf. Tell him you found out she'd been fucking some guy with AIDS. Then tell him, "thank God I haven't touched that bitch in 6 months.
Then wait two weeks and accidentally set his car on fire.
I don't go to jail man.. then I'll really hate myself
If you happen to have company email, send him a link and promo code for private med labs. Tell him he can get a discreet AIDS test. Then accidentally hit send all.
That's not a bad idea
10 minutes of enjoyment beating his head on,............. or a couple of months of watching the bastard squirm, with the option to beat his head in after the squirming stops.
Vengeance is a dish best served cold.
Same shit I would say but I would always say herpes lol... aids is even better because it takes forever to be detetcted lol
That was truly entertaining.
Justifiable mental torture. The asshole will be getting tested every few months, lol.
Dude if ya got any other single buddies go on a vacation. Get the hell out of dodge for a week or so with some friends. Have few drinks and get away. Hopefully getting away can help clear your head.
Seriously bro I'm might have to go to Vegas get destroyed for a week then come back to reality,,
Move on brother. She's not worth any more of your time or effort. I've been through it with my kids mother. Absolutely crushed me as a man. Took me a long time to rebuild my self emotionally. I built walls and would not let people in. What's worse is I held on to that the anger and treated a few really good women very poorly because I could not expose myself to them fully for the fear of being hurt again. I became the very thing my x was, a cold hearted asshole. Pick yourself up, rub the dirt off your knees and find a girl that is worth your time and effort!
Exactly I feel like a part of me died but, I'll be better day by day
Get her back !!!!!!!
Be the man you are and walk away
Cut of ties. Dont answer her call, Dont text her back
Take your anger and hurt out in the gym
Beat up the iron.
Be the dude that you seem to be. Dont drop to her level. Feel the feelings. Realize her actions have nothing to do with u. She got some low self esteem going on and thats how we all act when we try to fill the void on a defect instead of a priniple. Forgive her from a distance cause karma comes without revenge.
You edited your post, so now you want to try and win her back so you can break her heart and you are letting your boss slide. Wow. Do you hear yourself think?
fuck her. get her back (like make her suffer) not be with her fuck that shit bro.. shes a hoe its obvious
When I got cheated on I dropped her like a rock, started doing me and minding mine and then boom a badass girl came into my life and two months into that my ex starts to tell me how she messed up this and that I said your right you did bye! Move on brother
Move the fuck on seriously. Go get a hooker if you have to. Go bang a heavy hottie. Stop putting your hands on a hot stove.
Facts you guys are right.. fuck bitches get jacked
Might I suggest,........... get jacked, fuck bitches, ............. repeat.
A lot of guys are commenting about getting even with your boss. Forget it - keep in mind that he couldn't have boned your GF if she didn't spread her legs - so the whole issue is your GF. I have been where you are - it totally sucks, destroys your self esteem, destroys your sense of self worth and your trust in women. Take comfort in the fact that there are good women out there and you will find one that values you....be angry, upset and disillusioned...for a while...then start to evaluate yourself - who you are and what you have to offer...then you will see that you have qualities that the right woman will appreciate...Jerry Seinfeld said it well: The best revenge is to do better.
My wife said the best thing to me, she said that taking aas and training will not make you any more manly then you already are and it wont make you a man if you are already a bitch, you will still have a pussy. The other true judge of a man is how he deals with stress and lifes every day curve ball. I am not un sympathetic, but to hear shit like "just lay down and take it" has got to be the most beta touchy feely thing you can do. A man would deal with it. A better man would deal with it in an epic way. BUT what do I know?
You say: 'A man would deal with it. A better man would deal with it in an epic way.' - but no details on what this epic manly action should be...except you tell the OP: 'Move the fuck on seriously.' Is moving on the epic manly behaviour you had in mind?
Going out epicly could be a multitude of things, banging her mom and videoing it, taking the boss out for drinks and having a blanket party, taking the girl on a vacation and leaving her there, so many wicked things one can do.......but the OP will not do any of them so its a moot point.
Fair enough....I see your point.
The best thing you can do is look at her and say I wanted something real. You're apparently on some bullshit. So good luck. Cut the cord. Don't answer her texts or calls. Ignore her. It'll drive her crazy after awhile. Let it go. Let her back in your life in any way, and she'll only value you as much as you value yourself, and that would be telling her you're ok with this. That she is the upgrade and you'll accept bulkshit to be with her. Don't. Don't lose your cool. Don't shed a tear in front of her. Simple and cold.
The boss, I'd have to confront it. Did he know you were an item? If so, he smacked you in the face. Let him know his position doesn't make him immune to bring treated like any man on the street. Then shake his hand, tell him he did you a favor, and that you'll gladly return the favor if you get the chance. Then go over his head and report that he's seducing the girlfriends of employees and probably not the best person to be in an upper management position. I know I couldn't work with him every day. It wouldn't end well. Don't let this be a situation that fucks you up more.
True. Let her cheating slide the first time and she will continue to let the occasional dick slide in her. Toss her.
Thats some serious disrespect right there, need to slap the shit out of that guy. Fuck the bitch, your problem is w dude. People won't admit it but I guarantee u will feel better after.
Bang as many of her friends as possible!
I'm discussed with the whole situation by doing that I feel like I will only place myself in the gutter with her
Bro. First you need to handle shit with your boss. Beat his ass to a pulp and the take a hot knife and disembowel that prick.
Then you need to take your woman out and drown her in a really cold lake. That will make you feel a lot better.
Ahhh if I only could get away with it.. if I get caught I'll just lie and say I was on tren lol
That really sucks bro and I definitely feel your pain. Everyone's been there in one way or another whether we like it or not. Just keep your head up because you will find loyalty at some point.
Amen
Man I've been there worst feeling in the world don't no if you coming or going, but look at it this way do you really want a girl that wants another guy maybe several ? Could be a blessing in disguise that you found out now maybe that guy doesn't know about you either and he's being played too,sucks. Now is far as the boss If he knew about you and her he could use broken jaw good luck man hold your head high and move on.
Facts I'm move on broski.. nothing like weight therapy
Your boss is a real piece of shit as well, if he knew that was your girlfriend and banged her anyways he basicallly spat in your face. Its fair to say the bitch would be out, and my boss would have had a bad accident. Not fighting because of banging your girl, but because he disrespected you. Find a new job, find a new girl, and smash your boss in the fkn mouth.
But dont smash your boss in the mouth.
Fuck this job anyways,, I really feel like disappearing wish I could hop on a plane and just clear my head
The very best thing you can do is play it cool. Just say "You know you really didn't need to sneak around, I knew already you had issues with fidelity and was just about having a good time with you. Good luck, and good bye".
Then go find the next one.
I'm confrontational, I almost feel obligated to tell a her how I feel.. tell her how she made me feel and why ill never speak to her again
best reply... vertual +3
Change the locks.