There has been a lot of people injure me in this life's journey. I used to carry all that garbage around with me in till I really took a good look at my part in life. Turns out 95 percent of that garbage wasn't even mine. The 5 percent that was left was simple to deal with not easy just simple. Move on with your life and give thanks for the events (even the ones that hurt you) that have made you who you are today. And that's a better man than you used to be. Keep your head up. Your fingers our of dark places. And don't let this get you down. And fuck them they sound like a great pair for each other...

Totally sucks, and it’s hard to see past it in the moment. There’s better shit out there waiting, and it’s better to find out now rather than years from now.
Keep your nose clean so you don’t end up in similar situations and stuck in and out of the system. It is hard to take care of things on the home front locked in a cell. The last thing you need is other charges holding you back.
Drop them both, act like you don’t give half a fuck and don’t look back. Push for momentum and self betterment. You’ll attract better things and a better type of woman. But don’t give either of them the gratification of destroying you. Be cold and close the door. Don’t even acknowledge they exist. One “ fuck you” and move on.
Best of luck

Fact you were so eager to keep digging shows how poor the relationship was in the first place, for both sides it seems. That might become clear to you in time. A horrible betrayal for sure.

The old me would have said to you wait 6 months, stick on the balaclava and smash the two of those filthy sluts up real nice, from the neck down.
New me says fuckit ur already in trouble with the law somewhat, so you may not be able to avoid being caught, so take care of your headspace and leave the sluts to it.

But if either look sideways at you again or gloat in the future get the bally out and do it real smart, boilersuit under new clothes, bally, touch nothing without gloves, burn properly after in a remote pre-prepared way. Gotta avoid jail, although there is an obvious better way to do so, of course.

Ugh pair of knackers.

Man that sucks but let’s be honest here it sounds like they weren’t worth the love or friendship anyway. Chin up bro stay strong and don’t bother getting yourself locked up for people that ain’t worth your time!

Sluts are easy to replace so don't stress over her. Sucks your friend wasn't loyal (so not a real friend). He's a cunt and should be treated like one. Good loyal friends are hard to find so that always sucks finding out the hard way.

Man that sucks & I’m sorry you’re going through this! I preach perception bro.... perception has everything to do with every outcome. You have a choice & no one can make it for you & no one can take that choice away from you. I was in the Marines & dealt with this the first time in my life while at boot camp. I had plans of marrying that girl, but she was partying with my friends & they were supposedly taking care of my girl for me. Well 2 of them took better care than I would’ve liked & of course homies let me know what was up. I wanted to slap them all & with my new found skills & anger I would’ve probably killed one of them. I started evaluating the situation & decided that I was better off without someone like that & I deserve better. Years down the road she gets married & has 3 kids & then dies of cancer. I hate that for her & her family, but man I’m thankful I didn’t have to go through that & I see my wife now who I’ve been married to for 21 years, my 2 boys, my grandson & a granddaughter on the way & I thank God for unanswered prayers!!
Do your best not to sweat it & accept it as a promotion brother!!

Damn brother, that sucks. Couple ways to look at this. One, you are finding out she is not a ride or die and second if you had not gotten yourself locked up she wouldn't have been alone and separated from the pack..

Slap him. Bros before hos...

30 months I get. 30 Days? She’s no good. Do not give second chance or even let her try to reason.

Hello Sir,

I will express my opinion, hope you will not take it personally but hope you will actually stop and think about this for a second.

Successful people will always take all responsibility for the situation occured and it is a position of a strong minded people. So when situation occurs, instead of thinking what other person has done wrong, think what could have you done to prevent this from happening. Always start from judging yourself and think what you have done wrong.
Nothing personal, just an example: maybe if you were strong minded, dominant, successful man, this situation would have never happened.

Weak people on the other side will blame everyone and everything around apart from themselves. This way people feel good because they place a responsibility on someone else - it is not my fault, it's his/her fault. (Example: because I was born in a poor country, poor family, had no close, successful friends, I can not succeed. Can't be rich because of the government, taxes and so on, hundreds other excuses)

Now I am not defending your girlfriend or her actions. That's different story.
All I am suggesting is always take a full responsibility for the situation and start from judging yourself. Never blame anyone else. This is going to be a mindset of a strong person and I am sure it will help you to succeed in life.

Hope this Helps Sir.

Regards

People are assholes, no doubt. And pussies to boot. Its a shit feeling to be cheated on. Especially when you're not around. Many years ago I was in the service. Was deployed for 6 mo and when I got back. I got a similar welcome home as you. Now all this time later I know bitch wasnt worth it but at the time I couldn't see that all I saw was red and I probably shouldn't have ran into a Golden Corral with a bat trying to bring dude out. But lesson learned. Life goes on. Take that anger out on the weights my friend. There are PLENTY of other women out there that are honest and loving and only turn into sluts when you want them to be.

Sad to hear, nowadays is seems to be "normal" that girls r cheating. But the biggest shit she did was that she lied. An absolutely no-go and every woman which lies is a slut(excuse these phrase). One lie and I'd throw her out of my house without any doubts.