+ 1 Wife found my stash
Well it finally happened. The wife found my stash and flipped her lid and insisted on trashing all of it. Before she had the chance I asked her to give me a chance to educate her about it. She just had no idea I had been on gear or even wanted to be on gear. She was, of course, scared for my health and had the impression that everyone on roids beats their wives. Well, I straightened her out and told her everything and tried to educate her. I ensured her that because of the people and help on this forum I can do this stuff with as little risk as possible. Then, I sat her down and showed her the movie Bigger, Faster, Stronger. She went into that movie saying she would never change her mind. But, by the end I had nudged her into a place where she was still not 100% ok with it, but would be ok with me still using as long as she doesn't see me pin. I'm an ex addict so she thinks of me doing drugs when she thinks of steroids. I think she was more hurt that I hid it from her, which was a dumb move on my part. I feel so much better not having to hide it from her anymore and she is definitely enjoying the libido boost. So, what does everyone else out there do? Tell their better half or hide it?
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I have to hide my stash from my wife so she doesn't steal my prop or var.
I feel your pain my HGH orders have doubled.
Which is why i dont want my girl to try hgh haha
AnonMy wife sees my gear the way I do , As medicine ! For many of us it is indeed simply that. I dont know you or if you are just in to vanity, or have a " little mans" complex so I cant fully condemn your wife for being upset, plus you hid the truth from her . But if you are a reasobaly balanced individual who is concerned with staying fit or counteracting an illness, then you should have no prob getting her to understand that this is medicine to us.
Great Answer....exactly how I see the whole idea.
I just recently "swapped" girlfiends and literally stressed out about the new one not knowing after the old one had been cool with it. I just told her upfront and used your description because I fall into that category and she was like cool.....go with it.
Feel so much better now.
Bro I just pulled it out in front of my girl and said watch this. I actually convinced her to help me with my lats. So ya I tell them. But man you said you are an ex addict so I hope it doesn't carry over with the roids. I know how that sounds and I'm sorry bro. My opinion is that dont do anything that your ashamed of so when my girl asked "umm why did you just do that in front of me...gross." I tell her I'm not ashamed so I'm not gonna hide it.
I'm not ashamed of it. I just have to be super discreet due to my line of work. I have been clean for over 6 years and my wife never saw me messed up on drugs, she just worries.
I am glad it all worked out for you that is a good ending. One other thing that will come up later is when her mind gets going she will wonder what else you are keeping from her that she hasn't discovered. So if you see tensions arising and you don't know why, that is why.
I was planning on hiding it from my wife but the more I thought about it the more I wanted to tell her. So i did and it was the best choice I could have made. I talk to her on a daily basis on how I feel, she loves my physical changes lol. So much nicer not having to worry day after day. It would only be a matter of time before she found out.
imo, if you are with someone you think you may spend the rest of your life with, dont hide it from them. Me and my gf were 6 years in when I took the plunge into AAS. I told her, im not going to lie, it sucked, didnt go over well at first, but after educating her on the subject she came around, pretty sure the sky high libido while on is what seals the deal for most of us lol.
Relationships are a lot less stressful with no secrets, helps keep that bp down on cycle ;)
I worried about my wife catching me too! I hid it from her for about 7 months and then I fucked up and left a receipt for syringes in her car. I think she was so worried that I might be doing heroin the when I fessed up and told her I was taking testosterone shots she was actually relieved. I'm not sure she knows that testosterone is considered steroids though. This was at the end of October and she never really made a big deal out of it.
I don't hide it but I don't put it in the open
shoxingbiceps17never cool to hide stuff from the one you claim you love. honesty bro.
im with kilinit. i told mrs EL in the beginning all the shit i did that she might not like and speak now or forever hold your peace. I realize that my lifestyle will never change. I had to find a girl that was ok with whatever. Cant lie to them, they will find out eventually. Relationships are much better when you have no secrets... (well except that when youre on cycle you can have sex twice a day and youre still going to jerk off. Cant tell them that, itd kill em.)
Best bet, find a girl thats cool enough at least that you can say "honey, there are some medical things that are very private to me. I keep my medicine in this particular spot, i take me medicine in the bathroom every morning with the door locked and please dont go through my medicine pouch or bother me when im taking my medicine." At least then you can tell if she is honest or trustworthy.
My girl,soon to be fiance,gets more mad at me for being on eroids all the fckn time.haha...Eroids is addicting!!
I get pissed at ny wife for being on fb all the fucking time
My wife and I discussed it before I got into it. I have educated her. We watched Bigger Faster Stronger too. She still has concerns but hopefully those will go away as she sees how a cycle goes. I would have a hard time hiding needles and gear and shit so I'm glad she's behind me.
try "science of steroids" on national geographic. WAY BETTER and more scientific and they dont necessarily say roids are bad when used correctly, they make great points.
If they know.. EVERYTIME an arguement starts and she knows your running gear, it will always be your fault because YOUR HAVING ROID RAGES!!! Hahh best to just keep it too yourself! Lol
Isn't it ALWAYS your fault anyway???
nope! it became 50/50 when you got together with me! if you dont like your 50 then youll need to leave.
Agreed!!!!
I hide it from my girl because I know she would flip out and then posibly tell other people about what I do. I want to tell her so I don't have to hide it and so that she can be a part of what I do but I know 100% for sure that rite now is not the rite time.
That was a concern of mine as well. I have not told anybody else due to it not being allowed in my line of work (soldier)
I tell a chick right when i start dating them, IDGAF if you are not ok with it then move on. I use year round, i will always be on a form of something. This is MY goal MY lifestyle, she has to be ok with everything or it wont anyways.
Well that's good that she is being open minded. It must have been shocking for her.
I know that AAS have helped me improve physically, mentally and as a person. I have more goals now and I'm not willing to allow stuff like going out and drinking, dating, wasting time watching tv get in the way of my goals. So in that since AAS have really helped me all around as I'm sure most it has for most educated users.
She was definitely shocked to find 30+ vials staring her in the face. Her only other concern was the chance of sterility. But, good thing we just did Invetro Fertilazation and we still have 6 fertilized eggs frozen. So that's not a concern anymore. I can agree that I have had a healthier lifestyle since I started cycling.
I wouldn't conceal it from my wife. It is best not to hide anything I believe. I my self just got a new girl and let her know before we go any further that I cycle a few times a year and Im not changing my ways for anyone. They either accept you or don't.
AnonI'd hide it from a girlfriend. But I'd tell my wife.
Just be on your best behavior and she'll move on.
it really depends. shes your wife so you shouldnt hide anything from her. if you just started dating or something gradually ask her what she thinks about people that use roids and all that shit if shes against it hide it.