posted Mon, 05/26/2014 - 14:59
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Telling a loved one... Any advice?
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Hey
I've been dating my gf for 4.5yrs now and we've even talked about getting married and are actually planning it. I want to tell her about my use if gear but I'm just wondering if any one has pointers?
We're going away on vacation for 2 weeks in the summer and I was thinking of telling her at the end of the vacation.
Any advice other than being 100% honest?
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Your stepping on dangerous ground. You have been lying to her for over four years. Will she marry someone she can not trust? Keep living the lie you both will be happier. Good Luck Bro.
AnonMine knows..every time we have argument she brings my aas use into it..other than that shes fine..just be prepared in knowing you are giving her some more ammunition for her bitch gun!
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ugta has you covered down below. This is going to be your "first" cycle
Sure, be honest. But if she asks you to stop? Will you continue to lie and do it anyway? If that is the answer, and you'll only continue to lie if she asks this of you, then why tell her in the first place?
Don't tell her. Shit happens all the time. Y give her ammo? Only way I'd tell a woman is if we had kids together or she was using aas as well.
Why are you asking like if you already know she wont like it?
I told my girlfriend and at first she didnt like the idea but i told her how informed i was, explained her everything and... Now she pins me and she is the one who enjoys it lol she loves when i come back pumped from the gym.
Wait til your married; that way anything she says against you is protected. Women are far from stupid; my wife knew I was upping my trt doses within 2 months. Protect yourself is all I am saying; if shit goes down it would really suck to have to flush thousands in gear. If you made it this long without telling her then you can wait a little longer; otherwise up your AI so the extra estro won't make you all sappy and feel like you should. I'm just saying. Even to this day my wife is glad I told her I was upping the doses sometimes; but she still isn't completely happy about it. Never underestimate a woman; she might freak out about it; and also make sure your stash is VERY WELL hidden because if she stumbles on it that is also VERY bad.
Has it ever came up? IMO as a woman all I would hear is you have his this from me for almost 5 years. I think you should tell her you're thinking about doing it then go from there. No need to tell her what you have already done.
No it's never come up because she's rather clueless to that type of thing like she didn't even realize I gained 10lbs in less than two months. It took her 5 days to realized I shaved my beard
I haven't been using for 5 years. Only 2 and the first cycles I used to help get me out of a rut (lost job, failed in school getting very sick)
I consider myself to be a pretty awesome chick, not your "normal girl" and even I get caught up on things like this. Any secret is bad, it's not even your fault, not everything has to be discussed as a couple. But to save yourself some drama, and maybe some trust issues, leave the past use out (at least while living together). I would sit her down show her everything and tell you you plan to run a cycle, and wanted her to know. Not asking permission, just informing her. If she flips out, IDK what to tell you. I would think she would just ask some questions and be ok with it.
My husband has tried lots of real drugs, lol I never cared he was always safe. The only time I got pissed was over pot. Pot lol but it was because he was hiding it. Good luck
Bingo. Exactly what I said, but you said it better. Lol.
What I did before I decided to take the dip was, I informed myself on everything I could. I had a flash drive loaded with all my "research" im talkin about cycles lengths, pct protocol, different compounds what they do , what are their sides/benefits. Then I just laid it all out one day and asked for her serious undivided attention and I got it the wifey was cool with it as long as I "didnt get out of control" her words. Honesty is always best brotha I mean how long you think you can actually hide it for?
Now on the other hand you have already been hiding it so in my opinion its best to keep that a secret (can you live with it though?) Now that your being upfront if she agrees to it? And what if she's a no go then what to you do continue to hide it as she might get suspicious from here on out.....lot to think about my man hope this helps
I remember there was a post a while back saying his ex uses his steroids use against him in court and was forced to take drug test. Better make sure you know your gf won't do this to you before telling her the truth.
Tell her you're going to start using aas soon. Ease her into it. You've been thinking about it and learning about how to do it safely and now you're ready to start and you want her support in reaching your goals. Telling her you've been hiding it for however many years is a one way ticket to trouble town.
hunteron20sBro be honest .If you are suppose to be honest in marriage dont hide it .just lay it out there and let her know about the non reckless way you go about it ..That you make sure you are healthy and get blood work done ..educate if you have too ..
My not be exactly what you're looking for but this was my experience
http://www.eroids.com/forum/general/off-topic/relationships-steroids-hon...