posted Sat, 03/31/2018 - 12:07
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Separation and got all my gear thrown out
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I haven’t been active due to the fact my wife and are separating and she threatened to use me using gear against me. She threw all my gear away, which I had over 3k of gear. With GH and others combined. Not looking for a handout. Just be careful bros. Females are nuts.
I never threatened her or touched her, but mag try to use my use against me. Stressful as fuck especially when all I’m trying to do is do right. She wants to make the matter worse. Much love my eroids fam!
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damn bro thats rough. in my experience girls love dating a guy on juice when everything is ok. they love dating a guy that has an 8 pack, and they love the sex drive. but when things go sour, the juice is the first thing that gets brought up and held against you
“Bitches ain’t shit but hos and tricks”
-Confucius
Calling myself paranoid is an understatement. That being said, I always kept a pile of bottles set aside with nothing but water in them. So she always felt like she knew where everything was. So worst-case scenario if something like your situation were to arise, I wouldn’t really lose anything.
Lol! Good idea PPG!
Do you have children together?
Dam sorry to hear that brother. Keep ur head up stay positive things will get better positive vibes!!!
There is a solid path to follow in these incidences: Deny everything and make counter-accusations.
Anonlol, works everytime
AnonUnless you're injecting it into your delt while standing in the courtroom, it's just hearsay. She can say whatever she wants, have pictures, voice recordings, whatever. If it's not in your hands, it's just a vindictive woman saying stuff.
If you don’t have kids, simply walk away and start over. Done.
I’ve started from scratch somemany times in life it doesn’t even bother me. All I need is my wallet and car keys and poof, im gone.
If you do have kids, good luck!
Sorry to hear bro. Best thing to do is walk away. Don't give her any ammo. If its over its over. Chin up move forward.
Try to enjoy your Easter.
Thats a serious headspace problem she has. If she wont fix it, youre better off moving on. Just be the bigger man and play the game the right way till its done. Then youre free.
M8ne went doolally for a bit, they all do eventually, but I managed to get her to see she needed to get herself sorted or it was done, which she did. If they wont do that, its only a matter of how much time you want to spend feeling shit before it ends anyway.
Best wishes.
April fools? I hope so
Look ahead bro, that shit must stay away from you! And he can not try a dick, it's just his allegations !!
Hang in there dude.....life can have a way of turning things inside out but one day down the road you may find that it was all for the best. And don't let her think she has an upper hand on anything!! Just smile with a big 'GoF*yourself' look and walk away
My heart goes out to you bro. Stay sane and stay safe, whatever she does, don’t let it get to you. Soon you’ll be free!
Sorry to hear the sad news. I don't know how it works in the US (if that's where you are), but since she has trashed your gear, then there's nothing to find even if the court was interested in issuing a warrant. Also, it's highly unlikely that a court is going to order you to undergo a blood test. So it seems to me that you are safe. If you are on cycle and want to continue - keep some gear with a mate you can trust.
Good luck with the separation...if there are kids involved, you are going to need it.
On a personal note - my ex was as fucked up as they come - a real cunt. I paid child support for 18 years - seemed like it would never end. But over the years I managed to save, retire early and now have a wonderful partner - so life will get better - even if you don't see it at the moment.
To quote my grandson,........ "those bitches be trippin"
Sorry man, good luck.
Been there done that! Tell her get fucked and tell whoever she wants! Unless there is something more that your worried about. Separation and divorce is a poker game gotta Know when to hold them and when to fold them. When I went through all that shit had an ex bring up a lot of things in court judge looked her dead in the eyes and said this is divorce court not criminal court, so how is he as a father? Boom! Put your foot down and tell her to kick rocks! Just as quick as they let the claws come out you gotta be just as quick to throw down the fucking gauntlet! Good luck brother!
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My old bag has said this 100 times while we argue. I tell her go fn tell everyone. Idgaf. And she just leaves it alone. You can't let any female hold one thing above your head period. Like pale said. Either your king or pussy. Pick which one you are and own that shit
Have you done anything that could be used against you other than used performance enhancing drugs? Any psychological issues she could say was caused by them? If the answer is no on both counts don't even try to deny it. Just own it and say yes I am into bodybuilding and used testosterone to enhance myself, it was wrong but I harmed no one, including her.
I feel you there bro. The ex and I are going through a divorce right now. She can’t prove anything but she brings it up every chance. Everything is my fault and I’m a dick. But she moved my kids out of state and now I really only hear from her on payday. You will get through just keep your head up
I hope you win a lottery jackpot so you can take that money rub it in her face and hire 10 lawyer's and make her ass pay child support
Damn your not alone. I'm also struggling with estrogen problems with my wife. In her period she is a fucking savage. Just another great day. Buddy hang in there. I keep saying to myself tomorrow will be better lol...got a ear beating all day like you wouldn't believe...over nothing. I don't put dishes correctly. Laundry my folding is atrocious to her. If i clean she tells me I will do it because I don't clean correctly up to her standards. Just want to scream. I feel your pain man. Your post helped me realize they are crazy. When they are angry they will try to stab you with a fork when asleep. They have no limits to their craziness. The prettier the worse. Half of females need a jail cell timeout when angry!!
Hey buddy I sent you a FR please accept it you've been a great friend and I would love to chat.
No wonder you punched her in your sleep - I'm guessing self-defence.
Lmao!!!!
I cannot help but think many of you in this thread have completely abandoned your roles as kings of your castles. I doubt you did it intentionally but it is obvious that has happened. I have cannot remember the last time my wife acted like that, 15 years ago maybe? And even then I never accepted that kind of behavior. I don't know what you guys need to do to fix it now but I recommend utilizing the silent treatment along with the "you know you can leave bitch if you ain't happy". And mean it. This is not way for you guys to live and letting them run roughshod over you is only make them miserable too.
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Absolutely true. Makes both miserable. Happy Easter everyone!
Women's happiness has been steadily in decline since WWII. They've gained a ton of rights in this amount of time too. It's pretty easy to interpret from these statistics that women prefer to be with a man who acts the way men used to act, because the moral equal the relationship becomes nowadays, they unhappier they become. To those, who've completely given up women here, I'd honestly recommend travelling to a country that still holds traditional values closely.
Something else I've noticed when thinking about who I've seen for doctors and specialists in medicine and the STEM industry, is many of them have been women from East Asian or India, which doesn't reflect the overall cities population. Besides being born smart, I figure this is because back home they have fewer rights because they're girls, probably get pushed into education and restricted from having an active social life with boys, that shit's haram. They can only focus on school, they grow up and be doctors in the West, whereas in the West we try to actively get more Western girls into STEM but they choose a Gender Studies degree instead and end up protesting for more women in STEM. My conclusion from all of this is, women are happier and succeed more when given a shorter leash,
I am not quite ready to sign off on American women,lol. But there is a power dynamic in every relationship and from my own life experience it seems to me the ones dominated by the women seem far less stable or happy. That said I want my wife to be her own person and be happy in her own skin so striking a happy balance is also important. Women are all different levels of crazy tho so good luck lol
Well said man! Something is happening to the American household that is very disturbing.
Amen I'm at that point right now it's a little different with women at 30 they are brutal but I have my wife 6 months or I'm out giving her everything and just start over from scratch
Holly shit bro!
I feel like I could have wrote this, I’m so glad I’m not the only that lives in fear of my wife! LOL
Damn bud, I feel for you! I’ve always wondered about stuff like this, I don’t think you got anything to worry about.
The amount of stuff you had was a nice personal stash but not enough to say you were dealing. Yes.... women are friggin nuts!!!
My buddy’s wife told a judge that during there divorce. Nothing came of it. She took tons of shit herself...
RustyhookerChat with your lawyer. She can claim whatever but needs rock proof. Went thru similar long ago. She couldn't prove a thing, judge booted her out.
My wife is the same way I pray for the day I win the lotto so I can give her half and we can split ways that's the only way she would split up without making it a huge war
Love the one your with brother. It’s cheaper to keep her.
That’s no shit
Man sorry to hear. I had the same thing happen to me during my separation bout 2 yrs ago. Threw all my gear away(2k worth) and made threats too. Yes women are crazy:/ It will get better my man. Keep your head up!
I’m over this shit bro. Just want to get my life right. Thanks man! I appreciate the positive vibes man
I'm sure most women would do the same thing. They're all fucking crazy and will do anything to hurt you if they think you've hurt them. They are all crazy. Lesson learned bud. Sorry
You’re absolutely right, you make a vow and they burn that shit. Without even thinking about it. It’s all about them...
Holy shit, if my wife would do something like that I'd throw her out of my house within 0,0001 seconds!
All the best , forget her and try to find a new one!
Lol thanks brother
That’s why I tell no one, told my brother I had a burner one day and he told the police when we got into a family brawl. Never forget.
Never tell your secrets people turn in an instant. Good luck with it all bro.
Three can keep a secret if two are dead. Ha.
But you are right. You can't trust a soul. They will hold that secret till it benefits them. Sad but true