posted Sun, 01/18/2026 - 02:15
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Ok brethren and sisters of Eroids
There seems to have been some confusion amongst the community on what we define as gay. I’ve seen a variety of claims stating it’s only gay if you make eye contact, cross swords or even align in a particular political party, enjoy a certain food or movie genre. These recent polls have somewhat created some confusion amongst the community and I feel it’s best to decide right here and now what we even mean by gay. Let us look at the actual definition and history briefly:
Gay" describes people who are physically, romantically, and/or emotionally attracted to people of the same sex or gender, most commonly referring to men attracted to men
What if I told you that this term only came up in the late 17th century.
”Male homosexuality as we now know it is an 18th-century invention, but nonexclusive same-sex sexual behavior has a long evolutionary history. According to the alliance-formation hypothesis, same-sex sexuality evolved by natural selection because it created or strengthened male-male alliances and allowed low-status males to reposition themselves in the group hierarchy and thereby increase their reproductive success.”
So it seems it was an evolutionary strategy but the point is it’s been a common method of practice amongst our species since the dawn of our existence. We often spend time on here frequently viewing our same sex physiques and giving props probably more often than looking at people of the opposite sex. Throughout my time here, I’ve also seen more transsexual porn stars than female porn stars and anyone would be lying if they haven’t been click baited in watching a scene or two but does this make one gay? They’re altered to trick our senses into mimicking the traits of a suitable mate. If you arrive to the conclusion of what the persons gender is but your senses have been tricked into thinking female, are you gay? If you’re on Tren and allow your animal instincts to gain total control and go all the way, is this indeed gay?
The very schools or religious institutions that have defined and condemn these actions have more sexual scandals on them that epitomizes hypocrisy. So any stance that is contracting, I tend to disclaim their validity.
Another stance from French philosopher
“Michel Foucault argued that "homosexuality" as a specific identity didn't exist until the 19th century; it was a medical/psychiatric construct (the "homosexual") created through discourse, power, and classification, rather than a natural category, making sexuality fluid and socially constructed, not simply repressed, with "coming out" itself a form of confession that solidifies identity. He proposed a "homosexual askésis" or "care of the self" as a way of life, emphasizing intense friendship, pleasure, and self-mastery, challenging norms rather than just lifting prohibitions. “
Finally, my stance is I believe instinctually we are all “Gay” but through our habits, routines, food consumption, literature, mental constructs and traditions form our perceptions on sexuality or anything for that matter. My stance is there’s a fine line of hedonistic behavior which I believe leads to a path of self destructive nihilism so I hone my desires and try to take an Asceticism approach which is the denial of earthly pleasures. Not too far but reading some of Schopenhauers quotes really stuck with me. Especially when he has said “Man faces an endless cycle of desire and discontentment.”
I myself, would never want to be sexually dominated, nor dominate others for the mere sake of pleasure. I pursue love based pleasure as i feel “perhaps imagine even” its everlasting state of gratifying euphoria. I need an emotional bond or entanglement prior to the pursuit of pleasure. Are we not an evolved species ? If we pursue for the mere sake of sexual gratification, what separates us from animal or beast? It is part of our nature to be bestial, yes. But are the bonds we share as human beings that stem from love, part of a transitional stage of evolving into a higher form?
Perhaps time will tell, perhaps altering our Tren dose will reveal more about ourselves than we’ve been led to believe. Perhaps how we lick our ice creams or toppings we choose are meaningless. It’s a great time to be alive!!!
Love you all
Simon
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This post is so gay, the balls touched
Simon… my brother in Trenbolone Christ… this post started as a town hall meeting and ended as a TED Talk sponsored by Planet Fitness and Pornhub.
First of all, the fact that we’ve reached the stage where we need a constitutional convention to define “gay” like we’re drafting the Magna Carta of Gym Bros is already elite comedy.
“Is it only gay if you make eye contact?”
My guy, by that logic half the dudes spotting each other on bench press are in a legally binding relationship.
You really went:
Evolutionary biology
French philosophy
Religious hypocrisy
Tren-induced instinct theory
Ice cream licking analysis
All in one sermon.
At one point I genuinely forgot we were talking about sexuality and thought you were about to launch a startup called “Ascetic Gains™ — Lift Heavy, Renounce Pleasure.”
Also the casual:
“We’ve all been clickbaited by a scene or two.”
The honesty. The bravery. The browser history trembling.
And the philosophical mic drop:
“Perhaps altering our Tren dose will reveal more about ourselves…”
Brother, Tren doesn’t reveal your inner truth. It reveals your WiFi search history at 3:17am.
I respect the commitment though. You started with “What is gay?” and ended with “Are we evolving into higher beings through love?”
Meanwhile the rest of Eroids just wanted to know if complimenting another dude’s delts means they need to hand in their heterosexual membership card.
Final verdict:
If admiring a physique is gay, every bodybuilding competition is just a very aggressive Pride parade with worse lighting.
Love you too, Simon. Please hydrate.
Bodybuilding is kind of gay.
This f*cking got me right in the funny bone haha
I'm in it for the bros
This post is gay
I feel like some of the things you mentioned that we refer to as “gay” are actually gayer than being actually gay. Like if you’re gay because you’re into men and wangs, like you’re still ok with me bro i support you. But if you’re gayer than actually being gay cuz you do things like vote for kamala or hate the second amendment, that makes you extra not cool gay. Those are just a couple examples. Sorry that i made it political, i just needed a couple examples on the fly.
Lmfao, I feel many have this logic.
Wanting to Bang a Tranny (someone born a man) in the arsehole and receive a good shagging off one in return absolutely does NOT make you Gay.
Agreed, deep into the ancient chronicles of Eroids back in 2012/2013 we’ve already made this distinction that pounding trannys are completely excluded from being gay.
I think we do have to admit though mate - that banging one out to Tranny porn IS half way to being Gay, when there is a cock and butthole involved there is clearly gay tendencies present LMAO Then again, wanting to improve ones own male body and admiring other male physiques of complete strangers and telling them they look Great/Thick/Lean/Ripped and so on is kinda Homosexual in itself. Times are clearly changing too - People want to experiment much more during Sex and are way more open to things like Bisexual threesomes etc so in all honesty I don't think people care what others think of them like they did 20 to 30 years ago. I think as you get Older you care much less what others think, you want to experience more in the time that you have here because you realise the number of years you realistically have left of your life (especially if you run gear seriously lol). Being care free but still responsible is the best way to live life
Amen press. I couldn’t have said it better myself.
This is such a relief. Pins more tren
I think it comes down to:
Straight
Gay
Straight romantically, but bisexual
Gay romantically, but bisexual
Bi romantically and sexually
(Tranny porn isn’t gay imo)
Social constructs. Lots of people are blind to those. That being said…
Am I gay or not?
I know the answer but it's impolite to kiss and tell.
The point of it was I believe everyone is gay until external ideas and influences/constructs convince them otherwise.
Definitely gay, you forgot to wear socks when you were over last night.
In all seriousness man I do not care if someone is gay bi or straight. If another dude turns you on and he is in it as well, go fuck.
Right before I clicked this I thought “I bet Simon posted this”. Yep, checks out lmao love you buddy
I’m totally overqualified to post this..
Nothing wrong if someone likes their corn on the cob the long way !
Brother, I get where you’re coming from, and I agree with parts of what you wrote …up to the point where it turns into “we’re all gay by default.”
Here’s where I draw the line.
If someone can’t separate sexual attraction from analyzing physiques … especially in bodybuilding, where judging bodies is literally the point … that’s not philosophy, that’s confusion. Appreciating structure, conditioning, or symmetry doesn’t equal sexual desire.
Now, if hormones are so out of whack that Tren has you sexually fixated on things you wouldn’t normally be into, that’s not some deep evolutionary awakening … that’s neurochemistry and impulse control taking a hit. At that point, yeah, call it what you want, but let’s not pretend it’s some higher truth about humanity.
That said, I’m old-school, probably stubborn, maybe even “sexist” by modern standards … but I take personal freedom seriously. I respect individual choices even when I don’t agree with them. What I don’t respect is pretending there are no lines anymore.
Society didn’t lose the plot overnight. Decades of media(books, radio, magazines, TV, Theatre and so on…), culture, and ideology reshaped belief systems so deeply that today the hardest thing in the world is raising kids who understand that 2 + 2 is still 4, not 5 … Orwell nailed that one.
Your post may have a joking tone, but the analysis itself is interesting, and honestly, it reflects the world we’re living in right now: blurred lines, constant reinterpretation, and zero anchors.
At the end of the day, people can live however they want … as long as it’s consensual and doesn’t involve me. Freedom cuts both ways.
Meaning … You can have sex using your excretory organ, use butt plugs, obsessively watch tranny porn, behave like a man, and even have a wife … but in my view, that still doesn’t make someone a man. Those practices simply don’t align IMHO.
And yes… maybe Tren reveals more about people than they’re comfortable admitting. Or maybe it just shows who had shaky boundaries to begin with.
Either way, much love and respect to my gay friends … even when they swear they’re “one of the guys” lol Interesting post, brother!
Constant reinterpretation is a post modernist technique. I also think if this behavior wasn’t so heavily condemned and accepted, it would’ve been minimal and accepted instead of seen as a taboo inflating curiosity. I think it’s strange how the percentage has risen exponentially within a span of 10 or so years. But again, behavioral expressions are also mimetic and replicate as trends. There are arguments for being born a certain way and then choosing but to say the least, had it not been so negatively viewed, I believe the percentage wouldn’t have risen at such a substantial rate. As Plato said, just let things be.
100%. Well said, brother man !
Sorry to put this here you fags, I'll delete it in a min.
@Greg @BFG @m4ssm0nst3r @BiggerThenAny1OnThisSite @HugeAsFuck are utilizing each other to inflate review karma. One of them is an hour old acct with 20 review karma. Not saying they are the same guy, but something weird.
Been waiting for an opportunity to use this meme and there it was. Thank you!
On a serious note, ya, fuck that. You will also see peeps use steroid reviews to bump up their karma so they can get promos and what not. Shitbags
Hahaha I get a check in the mail for every tard I rat out around here, like @m4ssm0nst3r and all his friends.
Be careful.
Are you being compensated for all the meat riding you do? Get off the internet and go outside for a little while, little bitch boy.
Better luck next time scrub
Haha where did your karma go?!?!? HAHAHAHAHAHA
20 to ZERO in a HURRY.
No promos for you!
Ohhh man this one is gonna get good today.
I'll get my response ready once I get @Petecastiglione outta my bed and wake up @randomdude.
Jkjk, in all honesty I think most guys here are more than likely straight and align with the normal percentages you see everywhere else. I just think a lot of us are here to get and give gear advice, find sources and read and write funny shit. And make fun of people. It's literally like a highschool locker room in here.
This is one of my favorite places, gay or not.
@Janefonda, your opine?
Oh wow. Mabey ive had too many drinks getting ready for the game today or something. What brought about this post. I feel like im listening to 90s Oprah or mabey a springer here. Lol. Obviously everyone here who has any kind of humor about them laughs at all the gay talk. I stay away from others preferences. You do you and I'll do me. Heck im actually married with grown children. Doesn't mean I ain't a freak and dont get off to 80s aerobics girls. Lol. And of course occasionally tranny porn.
Iconic please never change Jane
Dkoon211Shocking.
Whats that? Expound
Dkoon211What's expound? I was just quoting will Farrell. U do what makes u happy
Didn't figure you for a morning boozer. That's fuckin awesome. Anymore if I start smashing in the am I fall asleep by 2-3 in the afternoon. Not like years ago when I could drink for 24 hrs straight
No Sunday is my day. Get to relax and chill and do what I want. Wife has transplanted to a new city waiting on me to get the house ready to sell to come down so im taking advantage. Hopefully gonna see my boy Maye represent NC. Not a Patriots fan but pulling for Maye
Yeah definitely like high school. This is the only place we can escape our work and family for a bit and make fun of eachother, help eachother and get advice for ourselves. Thats why i don't understand when im stirring the pot people get so offended. We are just busting balls, its never personal
Dirtyred2Man Eroids has become obsessive with all this gay stuff
I liked it better when this was a taboo topic
I understand a joke now & then, everyone has 1
You are right. There are way more homosexuals here now than heterosexuals in the past 3 years. Times are changing or the site is changing. Just look at @Petecastiglione poll. Its 60/40. Way higher than years ago
I think most of it is a joke. I voted penisbutt. I'm straight. I also voted gay on @UncleYoked poll, and I was straight then too.
Male social lubrication. Penises and butts are funny no matter if you're gay or not.
I’ve seen more dicks in the last month here than anywhere else.
Actual dicks (cock and Balls) or dickheads?