posted Tue, 03/19/2013 - 19:16
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Taking this way to hard
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Taking this break up too hard been drinking heavily and I don't know how to stop I hate it .. Fuck me
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Thanks to all of you I stopped being such a huge douche and beasted at the gym the motivation was unreal ! Thanks for the support guys! This will never happen again I have goals and I will achieve them !
Blasting heavy metal music while furiously beating down a heavy bag got me through some of the worst of times, maybe it will work for you... Try Marilyn Manson - The Reflecting God. Shout, cuss, head-bang while you're at it, srs works like a charm!
I've been there recently minus all the booze, and basically your mind is preoccupied w/ this woman... Now you have to shift gears, and get ur mind off of her... Clearly the alcohol isn't helping... Generally it only compounds a situation making it worse...
This works for me... Start talking to one of her friends... Go to her work, or dial her up out of the blue... I'd say I have a couple questions about ur ex and you were hoping she could shed a lil light on the situation... Ask like 2 questions about your ex, then shift the conversation about her... Telling her you wish your ex was more like her, tell her she's prettier than your ex, funnier, smarter, you didn't know how to tell her these things until now... It'll get back to ur ex in time trust this... You bang her friend, then you can go on Jerry springer and get it all worked out?
breakingfacehaha- " ask like 2 questions... then shift the conversation about her"
Sorry to hear you're struggling. Best way to get over it....
Find another girl to shag ASAP.
Best piece of advice.... Put down the booze!
go out and Do that one thing you wanted to do when you were with your chick and couldn't. Whatever it was, buying something for yourself, go on a trip with your boys, etc.
Instead of crying about this bitch get the fuck up and go to the gym. turn those tears in to sweat. Turn the sweat into muscle. Turn the muscle into a bunch of sloots hanging from your cock. Do not start tomorrow start now. Either the bitch will come begging you back or several new ones will take her place. Stop calling and looking desperate. Make her beg not you. What are you doing reading this? GO TO THE FUCKING GYM< Do not even get me started on drinking. WTF GO TO THE FUCKING GYM!
x2 my buddy told me the same god damn thing when this happened to me two months ago. i spent about a month getting retarded and once i realized what i was doing i ignored that bitch and you know what happens? she starts trying to talk to me all the fuckin time. When youre in the position of the OP at first youre like thatll never work but it DOES. Hang in there bud itll all workout if its meant to but like fina said let HER come back to you! good advice fina
breakingfaceDrinking will interfere with your natural coping mechanisms. Once you quit drinking you'll be able to process whats going on much more effectively and feel better about it.
Understand that your brains has become accustom to all sorts of pleasure hormones designed to encourage pair bonding. Once your partner is absent your brain begins to go into withdraw. So there is a physiological element to consider.
Perception determines happiness, not circumstances.
Is it for good, or maybe a little separation? First and foremost, you must correct yourself. Take the time away to build yourself back up. Maybe if she sees your motivation without her she might be impressed. She probably wants to see you weak, and dependent on her, but you aren't. You have been moping for long enough and it only makes you feel more like shit, so get back up and do what is right. Good things will start happening to you if you think positively, but they wont if you continue drinking and dwelling on negativity.
listen to lil wayne - im single
f that shit brutha! when the one comes around that stays no matter what.. thats the one down ass bitch ! and youll feel the same way too man this one didnt work out then it wasnt the one.
LASTLY PUT THE ALCOHOL DOWN AND SWEAT IT OUT AND LIFT HARD AS FUCCC!
this is mandatory post pictures of your bicep all pumped from lifting within 48hrs or a hell of a flame is coming your way!
I won't forget either; ill be back here to get on ya!
I'm kidding bud ^ message below says it all
Time heals all! Stay strong
Everyman has been there my distant and unknown brother in iron , I had a terrible hard breakup around 2009/2010 spent three years just dating wondering if I'd ever find the "one" again like my past relationship; you know the feeling of connection!
Well it took many long cold nights and I wish I had focus on building myself up earlier than I did, because sure enough once I focused on growing up and being a good man and build my body!
i am laying next to a beautiful Italian girl whom treats me ten times better then I even ever knew a women would; things happen for a reason and things hurt so when they are good again you treat it with the value and respect the "love" needs to succeed!
hang in there hang strong and keep your chin up looking forward because if you look behind you; you will miss what's in front of you!
gatorgear
Btw go fuck any girl you can! Trust me you will feel so much better afterwords!
Obama BlowsDamn dude...i know alll about that shit bro..it's all bad. And I too started drinking and popping oxycontins...I died..literally...bitches ain't worth it bro! Pick up some nice tight young thang from the gym ;)
Made me laugh and smile thanks man
Obama Blowsget some
Thanks guys means a lot not looking for attention but I feel like I've Made more friends here since I've joined than real life an it's sad as fuck. I vowed tonight I would stop drinking an focus primarily on the gym . Just hard when you think someone is the one and it turns out she wasn't after 9 years
I feel ya bro. Try to focus on yourself and the easiest way to get over a chick is to get on top of a new chick. Its a short term fix, but it does the trick. Love yourself above all else bro!
Obama BlowsI second that
Thank you !
Anytime mofo!
Hit the gym. Drinking is a path to no where, weights are a path to anywhere. No Bitch is worth ur future.
I feel ya brother