cycle rage
Hi all im new to all this, my hubby got me hooked hrs my partner in crime..but i have a question you can all relate to, and this family is the best to ask...my hubby is on current cycle, and with,his cycles ( n matter what he says)he always gets angry, aggitated, pulls himself away from me and says i use the cycle as excuse...we have been getting,along soooo well and loving each other and our kids the way we should have been doing all of our 10 yrs together....everytime a cycle starts its he same thing the same pattern, and he promised this time would be diff, last 3 days i see the start of the downhill battle, yelling at me calling me names starting fights,etc...you know the drill....he says im blaming gear etc etc, but im,not i help him inject i support him only ask,him,to be safe and not turn,into the"other" guy:( well its starying and we had a huge STUPID FIGHT....how do we over come this, where i can still support him how does he beat the rage and not end up,hating,his wife during,the cycle, and how do i cope when he acts up what can,i do to not make it worse.....heeeeelllp, is there a magic pill for roid rage:( love him and always support him even now when,im incredibly sad and dissapointed, any. Advice out there???
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sounds like tren
EXACTLY!!!!!! How did u guess
Darron614It seems like Tren is the only compound to actually cause legit "roid rage". My only cycle was Test and I never once had any kind of aggression like that.
Does he have an eroids acct? If not, get his ass on here and they're are plenty of people that'll talk to him and share their negative tren experiences with him. There are plenty of people that can handle tren and many that cannot
Yelp, its definitely the tren if he's usually fine when he's not on it. Just try to get him off that shit. Life is too short to live pissed off and when it starts having a negative impact on your family, it's time to throw the tren in the fucking trash or give it to someone else. Roid gave great advice about either telling him he can run anything else but tren or just asking him to run it only once a year. Good luck with him and I hope y'all can get it worked out!
well those are tren sides dear, they do it to the vast majority of people, take the tren out of the cycle and he wont be like that. make a deal with him that he can only run it once a year or something like that. I always say tren will make you break out in handcuffs and divorce court.....it is possible to limit tren sides by dropping dosage and also by dropping TESTosterone dose really low to what we call TRT dose or 100-200mg/w. prami has been known to help as well. im currently running tren-e at 400mg/w with minimal sides and a TRT dose of test, where as every other time I ran tren I had HORRIBLE sides.
And dnt get me wrong, i would fight to the end of the earth for this man, im here all day everyday for him, hes a great person, husband, and dad!!! I just dnt think he handles this stuff well at all, infact i know he doesnt :( but this is just a speed bump, but i feel lost sometimes bc nooook one to talk to u dnt tell fam and friends bout roid probs, so thank you all dearly for ALL YOUR GREAT ADVICE:) im learning so much and im learning how to really let some of it go bc it will pass when he clean, then ill just dread next one oooo hmmm:(
Yesss bg talk tonight, things are mending but im never going to win this battle:( we dnt see ourselves the way loved ones see us, i watch the change i know, never have had a good experience on any of the cycles and when he is clean,he finally says simething like " never doin that again, " i just cant convince him once cycle is kicking in, this is my last go around if he cant be nice and gear up then i need another plan, thats ALL I ASK, BE CAREFULL AND BE NICE, thats it!!!! He broke his promise, but we talked and im going to back,off blaming gear play it cool, keep calm and give him the chance to prove me wrong, AND I HOPE HE DOES, and as far as cooking, din on table every night :)and i pack all left overs for him bc of swing shift:) but i just wish he pick us over gear bc its the same story everytime and i dread it:(
I get stressed out on cycle too. I've found the culprit to be my ocd and the need for diet, training and everyday life to be perfect while "on" to get the most out of it. Not that he deserves this by any means but ask him if that's part of it and see if you can help. Like maybe helping him with preparing meals ect. Or he's just a dick.
Yes, we had huge talk tonight he is stressed but still in denial of gear, we dont see ourselves the way ur lived ones do, i dont think i can ever convince him its the gear :( but i will work with him if he gets bad off this os last cycle for me, there had been a lot and all have been,bad experiences
I'm really sorry to hear that :( some guys just handle it weird. Good luck!
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Have you tried to talking to him about how it's making you feel? I can be a little "cold" sometimes on gear, (not so tactile etc), but I NEVER start shouting or name calling. You deserve better than that.
If my cycles ever push my wife or daughter away, I'd stop now.
AnonWeed will relax his tense ass
truer words have never been spoken
Lol...i wish he awesome high:) best big kid ever, however his job randoms :( and he works all the time...but strongly agreed someone get him high:) thats exactly what it is he so,tense on gear.... anyone else who knows maybe how he feeling out there!!!! How did u balance out cycle brain ( my new nursing diagnosis..lol) and family mode...
I agree with what every one else is saying but let me ask you.. Does he sleep differently? Some cycles I have trouble sleeping or just wake up too early and if I don't get enough sleep I can get very snappy and mean to every one around me without any reason needed
Yes and he works swing which never mixes well w his cycle bc he already tired and grumpy, on top of that he picked up another job construction on his days off, ive thought of that also, but we are all good about letting him rest, but thats probably plays a huge role hun, then im just the one in,the way :(
have him get a blood test to get his estrogen and testosterone levels checked. It's possible his estrogen is too high or too low and that could be causing issues.
Yea i agree
Yea i agree
Yeah he has something else bottled up.. I had the same problem the last 6 months I got addicted to loratabs and getting ready for my first contest on top of school was way to much for someone to handle by their self. It literally drove me crazy and once I ended with my competition I realized I needed help and ended up finding a psychiatrist to talk about problems I've held onto since I was maybe 13. Me fucking up also lost an amazing gf I was gonna marry. So best thing to do is get him to see someone to talk his problems out
Agree, and thx for sharing im glad im not the only one out there going through it, and sorry u lost ur gf but we can only give so much and when nothing changes its time, but guess what the split always harder on us:( we carry ur heart and ours on our sleeve!!!! Well atleast i do, love hubby he and kids are my world but i just dnt know how to balance cycle life its soooo hard :(
Obama BlowsI gotta say I agree with revenge85! There's something at the bottom of all this...something he suppresses, but with all the extra test in his system his emotions come out 10 fold.
hmmm, I know exactly what your saying, and sorry to tell you but I don't think its to do with the roids, there is a relationship issue of some description!! its just being amplifies by having higher test ie more aggression!! something in the background is making him that way, it may not neccesarily be sex realted, but it is something! the key is to try and find what it is, and fix it. if not tell him to get of the juice if he cant handle it!!!
Yes everyone. Has issues but we been,together 10yrs we talk about everything argue bicker laugh and love A lot!!!! I,watch him change with the cycles. Strongly believe everyrhing we put in,our bodies has side effect and dealing with the kinds of things he uses hormones change everything, being a nurse. And his wife i know him on and off gear, ansmd we are just ur fun loving, crazy ,always bickerng , always laughing couple and sex has nevet
Never been issue yet, although on gear he well ya
but pount is how fo we get through this side, i kbow there has to b some others who kbow what im talking avout
Sorry typo's my phone is broke keyboard cracked trying my best looking like a retard:) thx for input everyone, im still searching for a happy middle, and i strongly agree gear related...love him support him through it all for better or worse, but,man,i hate cycles:(
Completely agreed. Test amplifies, but does not create problems..
We are not really fighting over a situation, he gets weird and spacy and grumpy, cant really explain it but i justkow he not him self:( and ends upalways agruvated at me maybe bc he grumpy mentally and im just the obe there???
AnonThat's a tough one. My first suggestion would be to see a psychiatrist and seek their opinion...bc of confidentiality they should be able to help without risk of getting in trouble. I don't wanna say use a drug to mask another drug and you would have to do more research but Valium and the like can suppress anxiety and agitation. There are also some herb mixes at vitamin shoppe that are supposed to improve mood...l-the anyone helps calm and put u to sleep. Lastly if he is taking Tren is he taking Prami? That can effect or in this case curb some of the rage
Wow... I am so so sorry, you're amazing for being so supportive. On the other hand, he needs to learn to control himself, or he needs to get off the gear. I don't get angry or anything when I'm on, in fact I get happy and positive!
There is no magic pill, but he needs to check his BP as well as his diet. He should also have bloodwork done to see if anything is wrong, because there is really no such thing as roid rage apart from high blood pressure which is an irritant and can cause anger.
Again, I am so sorry..
Thx for support, yes something has to give bc its the same pattern everytime, dnt get me wrong he is wonderful husband and father we get along so well, but on gear he changes he goes into that blank stare nothing to say i can,never do or say the right thing, and always mad at me :( makes me sad but i try bc its his hobby but weve never had a positive gear experience ( emotionally) plus he has natural high test and is a hot headed Italian sooo gear =no good:) he built amazing with out,it tgats the funny part