posted Sun, 02/09/2014 - 19:07
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+ 4 what is wrong with my body type I just don't get men
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what what's wrong with my body,someone please point out to me what the hell I'm missing....because I just Don't understand: ( not happyfeeling really down and disappointed and those I love the most anyone else feel that way
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Nothing is wrong with your bod girl!
You need to get that fire going again in your relationship - need to get back in that mode like it was when you were dating!
I know Im not the first, but let me tell you that there is NOTHING wrong with your body!! You have a very nice shape and your skin is beautiful! Ive only been married 3 yrs and its my first so I cant say whats going on in your husbands head. Maybe you should talk to him and just be honest. Maybe you have. All I know is its not anything about the way you look. Youre a fox, doll!! ;)
First of all... You need to love yourself before anyone else will. 2. If body building is you passion (Idk if it is) a large number of people will not agree or like it. 3.If You're solely being judged on your body by someone you're interested in... He's a fucking douche and not deserving of your time. Get your self esteem up and stop caring what others think!
Anon75% of guys will jump on anything that moves, 50% wouldn't care if it moves or not and 25% think a pulse is optional.
That being said, I don't think it has anything to do with your body. Shit you have 3 kids and your last pic was 4 months after you had your last, that's pretty damn impressive. You've been married 10yrs, marriages get stale and life becomes routine. Doesn't mean love gets stale, usually the longer we're married the closer we become emotionally/mentally and the physical aspect of it just isn't as important as it was during the honeymoon period.
Don't beat yourself up.
bigwillyhey sweets I hope your starting to feel a lil better.
I am confused? Why would your body type be an issue to someone that loved you? What are you looking for that I am missing? Don't feel down, EVER! Whatever your type... Build from your desires, not from what you think is expected...
bigwillyI have to think this is an emotional problem. because the physical body in your pics are very easy to look at. very easy on the eyes. I don't know what area your in but over in these parts youd have to beat the fellas away,lol as a younger man I would just say women are just crazy but now that im 40 and much more mature,,,,, and much wiser,lol I substitute the word crazy with complex. in short your a very beautiful young women do what you need to do to actualy feel that way.
I have been the recipient of some asshole's insults & criticisms as recent as last week. Anytime a man is putting you down its to put himself up! makes him feel empowered bec he is not empowered already with his own self worth... You should NEVER define yourself by anyone's perception of you...their lens is always colored by their own beliefs and insecurities and self criticisms....learn to find the truth of who you are and your self worth and OWN it and don't let anyone take that from you....if a guy is putting you down in ANY WAY....there is a big ol' boot with his name on it and you should kick him right out the fuckin door now and let the door slam shut bec once your do that; mark my words a hundred windows will open...believe me sweetie there are millions of great men that would love to be dating you and would treat you great but you must first believe you are worth being treated great and not settle for less....
NO ONE and I mean NO ONE is perfect!
Not one person is perfection... Together "WE" make perfection... Man and Woman.. woman and woman, man and man... F**K views! whatever works, works.. My wife? 20 yrs in November... So, that worked.. :-)
bigwillyfor some reason I don't believe you get insults or dirty looks,lol
well, the guy who insulted me posted on this page...you're prob not one of those guys who has the need to berate women so you can feel better about yourself so thats why its hard for you to believe....you are right i dont get dirty looks very often lol i have caused 2 accidents though
bigwillythis will be unrelated and im sorry. the girl in the pics is very pretty! you are wayyyyy beyond pretty!!! what you must understand sweety is most men or even lil boys will never get to spend time with or have a relationship with a women as beautiful as you are! its just the way it gose. so there instinct is to be pissy. it should only make you realize how beautiful you are, and that applies to all women!!!!!!!!!
awwww bigWilly that was so sweet and beautiful to read ..thank you so much mwah
bigwillypoint him out to me! youv caused 2 car crashes hu? don't forget the 9 heart attacks and 10,000 broken hearts.
You crack me up lol...honestly its only like 5000 broken hearts i spared the other 5000 by letting them down easy lol
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Dude... He's over there! Behind you... :-) Oh wait, he just fell to his death on them 10,000 broken hearts... Brothers to the end! ;-)
Lmao!
bigwillyI see wer cut from the same tree my friend.
works for me... ;-)
bigwillyI read your profile and im inpressed. fr sent.
I love the big ole boot part, you go girl WOOP WOOP
If you need a more thorough review of your body, you can always post in the wifeyday section ;)
shameless...
I apologise for my poor taste post. I thought that the wink at the end would make it OK, but I was wrong.
AnonWe are not friends so.i sent you an f.r.
Well.. i have looked at your pics and i cant see nothin wrong thats for damn sure you look great huney
... I don't get it you have a really nice body.. better than the majority of women I see everyday.. did someone tell you that you don't or something?
Blah blah blah........ Lol You have a smokin' body OK. If there is an issue.....that's not it! Let me tell you something about men. Different is HOT! Whether they act on it or not is the true test. For me I see all shapes and sizes that are hot but I would never act on it. If anything it might be an indirect action I'll take out on the wife. So she reaps the benefits and is none the wiser and I've taken care of my animal instincts. She has what many do not. This is sex appeal. I have seen women that are built like pro lineman but have sex appeal. You either have or you don't. I don't think it's something that can be achieved. The good thing for most women is that sex appeal is not the same for every man. Every man has his own idea of what this is and for your sake I hope this is just a spell for him or you and things go back to what ever it is that you've had to end up with 3 children. One thing I know after 24 years of marriage is that sex, happiness, depression, contentment all comes in cycles. Everything makes full circle and is worth the wait and frustration if you're truly committed. Good luck
BigBmajPerhaps it's a personality thing? Body looks fine to me.
What's wrong with your body? Are you serious?! I hope you realize that there are people on this earth who are severely disfigured, have burns covering most their body, ones missing limbs, and others suffering from terminal disease who would kill to look normal so they'd have a shot at a life.
You should really stop and count your blessings before you post something like this.
^^^^^^I agree with him!!
Ok, so you have a Husband, but your still looking for attention by other men? Your title states "Whats wrong with my body type I just dont get men."
So is your Husband not showing you attention? Or other men besides your husband, dont give you attention?
I think she did this for attention Imho. She hasnt posted in 1 day? I dont get it.
Here's my take on this. She hasn't posted in like 10 hrs. I think this was all a ploy to get us guys on here and talk about what a man should or shouldn't be and how to treat a woman. I tell you they are always one step ahead, lol can't ever figure their angle out.
I dont care bro... at the end of the day if we can even just put a smile on the ladies face that to me is a job well done.
Anonbooooooom
True dat. I tend to put a smile on my wife's face when I'm not even trying to. That's most rewarding when they just look at you and smile and you have no reason why. Then you get the "look" and it's on........:)
Spend some time with me babe and you will never feel like this ever again in your born days!
What you are feeling but not realising is that yu have a virus called VIKE LUST .. but no worries!.. all can be sorted in with a quick 10 hour flight..... GET PACKING! TICKETS ARE IN THE POST LOL
Lmao! You know this is funny but I think you just nailed the issue! This isn't about the woman unless of course she is whoa fully lacking in other ways. It is about the man you choose to be with. Clearly once a woman chooses who she is with she gives a certain if not the majority of the ability to make her feel beautiful or ugly to the man through his words and actions.
Do the words same and mould mean anything bro lol............ looks like thats were we come from
A man that refuses to make his women feel special 24/7 or refuses to hear her calls is NOT a real man in my book.
BOOM!!!
Couldn't have said it better
RustyhookerLife has UPS n downs. And it can work bith ways. Lack of flirting, communucation and personal time together. Getting away to relight the fires without kids is important. I just had similar issue last summer.
you are 30 and you have 3 kids, and you look great.. you should be proud of yourself... there is NOTHING wrong with your body.. plain and simple
You know brother it is easy for us to say this based on what we see in a picture. In fact I am sure her husband sang a different tune in the beginning or he wouldn't have caught her to begin with. The real issue is as time goes on do we keep this image or does it give way to "new & hott" is better than "old version & hott".
We can all tell her how great she looks and maybe for a split second she will get a boost in her mood but the truth is we would say that about any other woman that looks good on the outside here as well. What she is looking for is her man to be exclusively into her and her alone.
I'd stop beating yourself up.
Know 2 things about men. We are shy with our emotions, and, we never answer the clue phone. We need to get hit over the head, sat down, and spoken to directly.
Let your hubby know how or what he is saying (or not saying) is hurting you.
Be assured that every other red blooded male is lusting after you. ;-)
What is wrong with your body ... Hmmm lemme see ... Yeaaaaa I'll get back to you when I'm able to find something wrong with your body. Dont wait up though coz I don't think I'm gonna find anything wrong. You're pretty awesome looking, even someone blind as a freakin bat would be able to see it
There's nothing wrong with u be proud of who u are and if anyone including your hubby doesn't like u its there lose. Trust me there is plenty of men that would
bigwillyI don't think your body is the problem. but if it is, whom ever its a problem for may need to seek some medical help. and fyi work out and train and set goals for your self because it makes you happy not to attract or keep some one attracted.
lions, tigers, and bears, oooh my! Lean you are a beautiful, attractive woman. I'm willing to bet the farm it hasn't anything to do with how you look or what shape you're in at the moment. I have been married for 8yrs and my wifes body has gone thru a few changes, up and down, regardless, I have never lost sight as to how much I find myself physically attracted to her. I understand you both just had your third child and can't help but think just the little day to day responsibilities, stresses and lack of personal time for you two is the culprit. when weeks and months go by where my wife and I don't have that chance to connect and just breathe I'll get a little cranky and withdrawn, ideally he should have the awareness to recognise this himself however you're a team and there is nothing wrong by brining this to his attention, and opening up the line of communication.
Looking great. Don't worry about it so much. If you don't feel like you look good enough then use that motivation to get in the gym and lift. I too need reassurance sometimes.
Umm is this a joke?? You look great!!!
Sounds like you guys need to sit down and talk. All marriages need work. Us men are a pain in the ass sometimes, we don't always pick up on the "not so subtle hints" you ladies like us to work out ;) spell it out for him if you have to.
And there's absolutely nothing wrong with the way you look. He's a lucky boy.