beyond my breaking point
about 3 weeks ago a friend of mine who was down on his luck needed a place to crash. so me and the woman decided to let him stay with us for a short time. i dont have much to begin with. we budget every dime for food, bills, essentials and fun. well this guy being here financially strapped me, he ate a months groceries in 2 weeks, gave me the highest electric and water bills ive ever had in my entire life being on my own. we thought something was off with his behavior, turns out he has serious addiction. this past friday he broke into someones home to steal their prescription meds, he was caught by the man he was trying to steal from and beat the man so badly with a retractable steel police baton he needed to be transported by helicopter to the hospital. we had no clue this happened, saturday he acted as he always did. someone else told us. i confronted him, told him to leave he packed his car and left. today im due to pin. i go to get my gear. EVERYTHING IS GONE, i mean everything. he even took my arimidex. the only thing i got is prami. this mother fucker, put me in financial straights that will take months to recover from and steals every bit of gear i got. seems everytime i extend myself i get fucked. my woman is so angry with me we arent even speaking. weve never had a fight, not one. not ever. i want to kill this mother fucker. i truly had to swallow my emotions today, it took a lot to not cry. hes on the run, the cops are looking for him. im out thousands of dollars not just from gear and feel completely embarrassed and taken advantage of. oh and he doesnt even use AAS either.
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You and the Misses are both wonderful people, I know. I can't say anything to make it better but I will say.. Remember Karma is a mother fucker!
He will get his, brother. They always do.
GearofWarThat's tough luck my friend and its hard to hear about shit like this especially when you extend yourself and get burnt to a crisp. What really sucks is that now more than likely you'll never(maybe never, I'm not you so I don't know) do that for someone again. I know I wouldn't. We're so fucking broke right now it ain't even funny. I can't even afford my TRT script, let alone gear so that's why I've been away from the site so long. If this happened to me, it'd sink us. Completely. And being a former addict I know how the dude was feeling but I NEVER stole from my family or friends to support my habit. I'd get dope sick before that would happen and lord knows I've done some less than honorable things I'm not proud of, but that was another lifetime ago. Hopefully this one dipshit doesn't sour your charitable side forever. Besides, karma will ass rape this asshat for you..hopefully. You'll bounce back and your woman will forgive you I'm sure once her initial rage subsides.
RustyhookerUnfortunatly...thats the cold slap of an addict. Damn sucks!
valhallas bestshit man might as well have bent over and let him give it to u... dude how long did u let him stay and where the hell did u meet thisguy, u need to get new friends.... happend to a homie a while ago but shit man im sorry this happend tou, if i were u, id be going up and down the street looking for that mother fucker every chance i got
i got a tattoo that says "dont mistake my kindness for a lack of cruelty" this boy isnt cut for prison. unfortunately for him i have friends in all sorts of places he will get his. i will be justly satisfied with what happens to him once hes in the clink
ive known him for over a year, i began talking to him because he trained at the mma gym i train at, he was a state champ wrestler and thats what he did there. worked wrestling with the fighters. he comes across as a good guy, from a good family, but i guess even the most savvy can be fooled from time to time.
A guy like this brother will bring upon himself his own demise without any help from anyone. The best thing you can do for you and your families sake is take peace that you still did something good to someone who was undeserving. That is in no way a negative to your character. I spent some years in bitterness over the way humanity is and I can tell you what it did to me was far worse than what it ever did to make the wrongs of society right.
I still say out of all of your story despite your loss is you still have given and sacrificed...and that to me is the one thing that shows that there is still good out there in a predominately selfish world.
I wrote my response before I read yours......we said the same thing....he will get his.....
I don't hardly help anybody out like this anymore for some of the reasons you have stated unless its a very good friend I have know for a long time. I've noticed people like this feed off nice people and im not so nice anymore. I've been screwed a few times and that shit pisses me off. I am very sorry this happened to you sound like your a nice guy but you may have to turn a little meaner now.
valhallas bestits like the prison aspect people will keep taking advantage of you until u do something....
Sorry brother, don't beat yourself up over this. Just learn from it and move on, which I have no doubts that you will
Brother you are not a idiot.. You saw the good in a person and did your best to help and trust me I've been in several very similar situations.. Greed is a very ugly trait that turns people into monsters.. Of course shes pissed and of course you're pissed but she knows you were only trying to help.. I think when you guys finally are able to talk to one another this heavy feeling will calm down and you can begin to move forward. I'm very sorry someone would abuse your trust like this.. It really pisses me off people do things like this
AnonSorry to hear that bro. PM me
You pretty much know what you have to do in this situation. My little brother did the same thing to me. I tracked him down and beat the shit out of him. I didn't get my weed or script pills back but I felt good afterwards. Hunt him down and ask him where the stuff is. You will have to beat his ass though so be ready to do it. Sorry to hear about it man and let us know if you find him.
considering the possible charges he is facing i have no intentions of hunting him down, at this point seperating myself as far as i can is the best option in my opinion. the more removed from it the better i feel about keeping any shit from landing at the feet of my family . plus i could jeopardize my mma career
Smart move. It totally sucks and you did nothing to deserve it. But there is a lesson to be learned from this. If a grown man has to crash with you because he has no where to go there is probably a good reason in his backstory. If you are going to let someone into your home, your personal domain, you better treat it like you were about to borrow him 10 grand.. If he is worthy enough to borrow the money to, he is worthy enough to stay in your house.
Speaking of that; when you land some gear MAKE SURE YOU DO NOT KEEP IT HOME. He will try and cut a deal and you will be the 1st one getting a knock on your door. Leave it at a trusted friends or somewhere incredibly safe. I have my stuff so well hidden and not in my house I sometimes can't find it lol. And with all the bottles I have I am super paranoid.
I have been there also man. The worst feeling is just the embarrassment of being manipulated and taken advantage of. You will recover financially and I'm sure the gear collection will get built up again.
Several years ago my gf and I offered to let a gal come stay with us because she told us she was getting "beat daily by her psycho boyfriend" but after only a week staying with us we came home one day to find her gone and all sorts of shit missing from our place. Clothes, electronics, prescriptions, you name it. She was from Chicago and not long after we see her posting on Facebook trying to find the next kind soul to "help her pay for a sick relatives surgery".
Getting revenge on the asshole by kicking ass or worse is only going to land you in trouble yourself. The best thing we did was change the locks and move on. Cease all communication and don't waste a single breath with that asshole.
Stay strong man!
God damn. That is awful, bro. They say no good deed goes unpunished. Sounds like a terrible "friend" you had. :/ Try to keep your head up, man. You will figure things out.
thanks, im sure itll pass in time but what has me so upset is the risk this brought to my family. if this guy was capable of something like this without any tell tale sign he committed an act so violent and he was in my home with my family. i had no idea he was using like he was, i really didnt, and that bothers me too. i shouldve seen the signs. also had i not been informed by someone else what trouble could that have brought upon my family had the cops decided to come smashing in looking for him. i couldve lost my children or been caught for my gear. ugh the possibilities of what couldve went wrong make me sick. i wonder if im getting soft with age.