posted Wed, 01/02/2013 - 19:52
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So I was banging this girl for the 2nd time last week, she was ok an 8 out of 10. complained last time i am too gentle in bed, until last night. and i was hitting it doggy style and she kept saying "owe that hurts". didnt tell me to slow down but she made me stop and i didnt even finish because she said she had a "migraine". after that night she doesnt want anything to do with me.
makes me wonder what the fuck i did. i wasnt even that rough, damn. i was looking forward to dating her. how do i go about this?
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AnonThis turned out to be a pretty popular thread.
Hmmm...pretty interesting stuff u miss just being away for a few days.
AnonI know... I start work again on Monday, prolly gonna miss out on a lot of funny and knowledgeable stuff in the coming weeks. Thank God for smart phones!
Lol...new year always a bitch for biz/work activity in that regard smart phone or no smart phone. A bit lurking mode coming up looks like. Anyway, back to the thread...
K you banged her on the second date. Do you think that is good? Respectable? I don't. Meaning, she wasn't looking for shit but a good lay. You didn't sync well and she is on to the next one. YOu are better off without a girl that gives herself away like that on the second date. Not saying some cases don't work out like yours, but rarely. Fuck her, she has no self respect in my opinion. Don't get attached to a chick that fucks you on the second date. Tons of skeletons in that closet
most girls i go out w/ give it up on the first. I think its just a new era, people now adays have sex first then decide if they wana date or not
Stalion_Wthat's an option too
Bullshit, sorry, but there are respectable girls out there that don't do that. A lot of them. I see them. I understand the new era but come on. If she fucks you in a weeks time, is that someone you can be with? I truly believe a respectable girl will wait to fuck you and most guys won't and that is the problem. So when you find that one that does wait, she may be a keeper because her qualities are far more great than the chick that fucks before she even knows who she is fucking. You got her from behind, it wasn't that you were to big for her, she would have said that, it was that she didn't like it and didn't see it working out. Just like you said, they have sex then see if they want to date. She didn't want to date after she banged you twice. Not a fit, move on. IMO..
i hit her up told her that it was over. she got insecure and wont stop texting me lol, but its over
I like ur philosophy and would like to believe it. But knowing my luck, I'd end up w/ a chick who was dirty whore her whole life and recently decided she needed to wait to have sex now w/ me.... Lol
In all sincerity every relationship is different and has its own dynamics, whether you wait or whether u bang right from the beginning. The bottom line is if u aren't looking for the same thing (serious relationship, friends w/ bennies, ect.) it's not gonna work for the long haul.
I totally agree and that is really the point. In this scenario, she wanted the D, she got the D, didn't like the D, and moved on from the D. Now its time for our boy to move on and find another girl that he gels with better. It was a week, cant really be that hurt, except for maybe ego.
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The key here brudda is knowing when to take it easy and when to really dig deep... You just have to read her body language for that. As for talking to her still. I'd put her on the spot. What do ya have to lose and she at least will know u give a care enough to ask... Just ask her if you did something to offend or hurt her. Tell her you like her and are confused about her and hoped she would shed a lil light on the situation. If she gives ya the cold shoulder, move on.
Stalion_Wright point
To try and give you a semi serious answer here... good chance when you went doggy you slammed the shit outa her cervix... properly done, 99% of em will love it... however, if you just banged it hard, the best way I had a female friend describe it too me was to be compared to catching a boot to the 'nads. As for dating her, basically consider yourself back at step one... just start over like you had just met her... talk to her, show interest in her, take her out (no sex), and if/when it does progress back to sex, pay attention to what she says/does, and remember, unless she is into BDSM "OW" is NOT a good thing!
so confused, do i go hard or do i not go hard lol..
Dealing with the opposite sex IS confusing .. and no if she says OW then hard isn't a good thing.. ;s
k no means no. i got it
lol.. well, not in every case.. sometimes no means a lot of things.. but you better make sure that you are able to decipher code first before you get caught up in determining that no may or may not mean no..lol.. but OW definitely means stop ;-o ....
How long were you dating before you two had sex? Important fact for my theory.
we been dating for a week, i banged her on the second date
so your a driller ic hahahah, well she needs to heal ahahaha
damn you make a good example of beat her brains out ahahahahaha.
lol
yes i know
i know :-/
Hey, if it makes you feel any better generally when a woman says you are too gentle in bed its usually code for "you have a small weiner and I can't feel it". So its never a good idea to graduate up to a full on Donkey punch when they say shit like that.
...If that makes you feel any better.
I've always been hesitant if any girl has ever asked me because I'm afraid I might end up killing them. Don't ever want to try and use that as a defense in court, "she asked me to do it!"
Lol. Take a little more time in the foreplay department and get a good read on her brother, and then if you think you have it figured out wait on using your skills and pull her up on top of you and let her show you what is too rough or too soft. Take notes and try again the next time. But don't finish before she does. When she is done look at her an tell her it was awesome and that she almost made you come.
Turn the table a bit, but make sure that even though you didn't finish she thinks you absolutely loved it.
Give that a try and report back.
All my love ( no homo)
Ed
Ahhh the old mental mind fuck
Yes girl you were good and I like you
But remember you came and I didn't
So you have work to do to get me now girl
Lol I mind fuck em all kinds of different ways and the fuck em all other kinds o ways
Guess what find another one it's not hard to do
And I agree if she fucks first few times not looking long term
And I'm new age as they come in to everything (except gay ,,completely Heterosexual only )
This has to be the best advise i had ever gotten, i have to try this , thanks u ED. Im gunna have to give that a shot
No problem brother. Pay close attention to everything. Positioning, timing, reaction, and keeping her in focus and you will do well.
I d like to see that report back as well.. lol..
Lol, you know it will work girlie.
bro I was hitting my girlfriend of 7 yrs doggstyle onenite. Id say bout two years ago. Anways I accidently switched lanes with the speedometer buried!! ( Bro I felt terrible! She was not happy, It was unexpectd and it caused her a lot of pain. Absolutely pure shock on what I had just done. What I'm saying bro is if your serious about dating this girl, u better be sweet homes, cuz man I was in the dog house for weeks bro. But with a new chick how serious is it really, however no matter what the out come between you and her, BETTER BE SWEET HOMes!!,
hmmm so she dont like chocolate sea star ?
AnonHahahah!!! Omfg ive done that quite a few times! Hah!!!! That shits fkn so funny! Ya cant help but feel bad about it tho lol! I remember the first time i did it to my fiance she was completly distraught over it bro the poor thing cried so hard! I had to sit there and rub her bum for ages! She spent the next few days waddling with a limp and bro as awful as i felt i cant help but cackle everytime i think about it! Full throttle right up the ringer and i woulda had atleast another 3-4 strokes before i realised those werent screams of joy!
Bro don't get a complex about being lousy in bed!!! I'm mean shit your supposed to mske them feel really good not give them a migraine in the middle of it!!!!!!
lol
Dont feel bad bro, its hard to understand girls. Sometimes they say one thing and mean the opposite.
Your giant Johnson son. Some girls aren't as deep as others and doggie certainly will be an indicator. Rough play is different than "bangin her out".
ok thats easier to understand. i have alot to learn
Learning is absolutely the best part! So wrap it before you tap it
hmmm "OWE THAT HURTS" ... and u didn't get a clue that maybe that meant stop that hurts.. and now she won't let you bang her anymore because maybe ... it hurt? things that make you go "hmmm"
CleyonWhat? I thought "OWE THAT HURTS!" was code for "harder, faster, deeper"... weird. Actually if a girl ever told me that it hurt I'd stop immediatly and never have sex again. I'd walk around like a god for the rest of my life knowing that I was too big for a chick to handle. I wouldn't want another experienc that disproves it.
i stopped and i said r u okay, isnt that good enough
Oh honey..I am so sorry no it isn't.. ;s
Men :(
LOL
hey we all make mistakes
Id say you werent doin it for her. Everyone likes different things. Not sure what it was exactly. But an orgasm can give pain relief to a woman for about 10 minutes and make her forget about that migraine.