Personal help from my brothers here on eroids
So about 6 months ago my girl of a year and a half left me. Started banging her ex the next night. After about a month I was hooking up with her again. Driving four hours to visit her cause I had moved to escape the closeness. Well that ended completely said she said is completly in love with me but can't be with me cause we fight too much and that it's hard cause she has never had to break up with dsomeone who she is still and will always be in love with, well she started seeing someone who was 10 years older than her, now she is actually dating some new dude who is a dirtbag piece of shit (I am a redneck mountain boy, but this dude is trash) I would love nothing more than to pound the hell out of his no good shit licking face. None the less I saw her today after about 2 months of not even catching a glimps of her. Boy I tell you what, my blood was pumping thru my veins. I am 100% in love with this woman. Havnt felt so alive since I was actually with her even tho we were only talking. This girl was not the best girlfriend ever. She was rude, not understanding, and just a plain ol dick. But yet the best and only thing I've ever wanted because everything else made up for her downfalls. Once she left I fell back to the gutter. The only thing keeping me going is this test pumping thru me. I've already broke my hand from punching shit after she left me and I don't want to do that again, I'm praying if it comes to the anger ill stick to my punching of things that don't break, like brick walls instead of the first poor bastard who pisses me off. I am at a loss, I know I can't have her back but I can't be without her. I guess I am just venting and asking my brothers to talk shit and tell me to stop being a damn bitch. Well I hope tomorrow is better but I know the dreams that are soon to come when i fall asleep will be no good.
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me telling you its gonna be ok, well its not i hate when ppl say that (it be ok) fck that... only you can save yourself
(mental /physical). Be the better person be a fcking beast... live and prosper... look @ it this way you have a warm bed, a fridge your not on crack etc.... small things we take for granted.. Hint: your already doing good by venting your self, thats a start.
since you share let me share as well if you have the time to read or any member.....
my love to destruction..
first gf i ever had (6yrs) both was virgin was in love... mother and family hated her guess its true mothers can smell whores/cheaters /or un fit.
i left my family and everything for her... things felt still right until we decide to move back down from where we was currently @
well seems like she been smashing this did she always had a crush on and the way i found out was fcked up.. even my own role dog new about it and had no nutts to tell me.. but she finally told me.. i admit i cried and went back home .. mother was happy told me trash all the clothes i had and gave me cash to buy new clothes so nothing reminds me of her... felt in a depression for months, sleeped all day lost alote of weight.
after a yr and going out meeting new friends and gym (gear not in picture yet lol)
regain self-esteem... and life is great now.
as today here is the twist dude she cheated with well his ex gf is my best friend now and no fckers we do not smash lol something good came out of it...
be patient bro things happen for a reason....
be the change you wish to see.
ohh yea the whore ex well she has 3 kids by 3 niggah that i know growing up with lol, she fat and ugly and her life is fckd and on welfare lol.
Bro my ex of a year and a half started dating my across street neighbor so everyday I would walk out and see her car there. Sucked but I just realized how much better than her that I was n eventually I found my fiancé and wee Ben together six years and she is a great gal and never would have met her if my ex bitch didnt treat me like shit lol so it worked for the better. Stay positive. And in between my current girl and my ex I was banging a different chick weekly which was fun.
Yeah thats it go be selfish and ass bang a bunch of chics. You will get over her but what will stay with you forever is using other people for your own selfish needs. Its called Karma, get it, these post are based off of it but alot of people on here with high karma I would expect in reality have reeal bad karma with some advice I see given.
Dont get me wrong Im as big a perve as there is but using people is never good. Im sure there are guys in here that wouldnt appreciate you just using their daughter to get over an old girlfriend. Work on you.
That sucks donkey balls! Been there bro! Keep stepping and Live for you. Noone else. Gym, work, play. Someday you'll realize how happy you are alone or with a proper woman who dont cheat.
Brother, I think most of us have been there. Nothing hurts worse than seeing an ex that you still have feelings for with another guy. Especially if he's an asshat.
With that, you need to pick your ass up and move on.
The best way to heal and be stronger is to do better. You need a better chick that is hotter, nicer, and more enjoyable to be around.
You may say: "Ed! I can't do any better!" I say: "Bullshit!"
To do better, you need to be better yourself. Get yourself in better shape, better your quality of life, educate yourself a little more, or whatever. Look at your life, take an inventory and find your weak spots. Once you determine the weak spots, improve! Do what you have to do to improve. Once you turn yourself into a better Tennessee, you will easily do much better than you did before.
And believe me brother, you'll look back on this chick as a mistake and feel lucky that you aren't stuck with that car wreck.
Now do this and quit being a big pussy!
All my love, no homo
Ed
AnonUnfortunaltley ive been there and it hurts real bad I know. Only time will heal ur feelings try to aim ur focuss on something else like getting into the shape u want or spending all ur money on only u for a rediculous roid stash or just aim for a certain strength goal and focus on that and work alot
AnonUnfortunately the pain of lost love is very hard to heal or get over, but without a doubt the easiest way is to experience someone new.
It may seem like you cant live without her but you are wrong, just dead wrong. You havent found a balance in your life of passion, love, and mutual respect. When you do and develop a relationship that works you will understand.
It sounds like your relationship with her was completely discfunctional, and you brought out the worst in each other. There is a woman out there who will bring out the best in you I promise, but you have to look for her.
Tronwow! that was deep bro! kind of teared me up there.. been there before. But hey! You want to know what to do? Check this out... You take all that pain,love,fear,anxiety,depression,confusion,and anguish and you turn it into something else. You turn it into a fire! You focus on you! You turn that fire into a blazing inferno and become the biggest, strongest, best looking version of yourself you can be! Every time you want to quit in the gym and every time you feel like you can't do something you think of that girl and the pain you feel and bust out that last fucking rep or run that last fucking mile!!! set yourself a specific program to follow over a designated time and try to improve weekly. Have a goal set for the end of the program. IT will be hard to get started but once you have every thing set in stone and begin this will not only get your mind off of her but will make you feel better about yourself! NOW GO OUT THERE AND BE THE BEAST YOU KNOW YOU ARE!!! " A warrior must learn to shut down the internal dialogue to achieve greatness"
DOUBLE G 67ILL TELL YOU WHAT MY OLD MAN TOLD ME WHEN I WAS 12...
"BEST WAY TO GET OVER SOMEONE....IS TO GET UNDER SOMEONE"
AND THAT IS TRUE TO LIFE ADVICE BRO!!! LOL
juice12345678Welp....
I suggest you try to get as fucking big as you can....
Powerlift....get out there and see new things....
Search for seminars and stuff....
Best way to forget old vagina is new vagina....
You should look at what propinquity means....you love who you're near
Very Important....
Try not to kill her
Thank you all. I appreciate it!
AnonInstead of punching walls, hit urself a slap and wise the f@ck up. I been there too bro, the most painful thing there is. Forget that tramp, she left you and if she turns round and says I made a mistake lets go again. Thats only because she cant find another doormat to fuck around. Strengthen yourself, re-engage with your friends. Im a firm believer if its meant for you it wont pass you by. Be strong bro and dont get yourself into trouble over a no good hoe.
mr127superdeeidk pal shit if thats the way true love feels ive never had it good luck but it sounds like this girl should be easy to get over if she was bangin the day after u broke up wow she was prob doin it before you guys broke up
I have felt like you befor went back and forth for like a year. All i did was think about her and she steped all over me. With that being said i was sad depressed all the time. I just looked back and was like why the hell would i let some one treat me like this and love them so much. So i went out with friends and hooked up with other girls and forgot about her real fast. You cant live your life waiting on someone to find what they want.
The hardest thing to do? is to do NOTHING!
56tooBrother I am at least twice your age (I wld bet) and have been married more than a few times. Based on that I can tell u, most people have felt the way you currently do. They feel as if some god made this person only to be with you. That is a myth. The sooner you realize this the sooner you'll be on your way to a better life. Based on what Im reading and please dont take this the wrong way, you have some serious work to do on yourself. What I would suggest is you take a LONG, HARD look at yourself andd forget about everyone else for a while. Work on you and get tht half right and you'll be on your way to a happier more fulfilling life. Best of luck bro
No wrong way taken, I appreciate it. I had been trying to look at myself but once I saw her it put me to square one. Guess I wasn't doing such a good job. Haha. But I appreciate your words. And I will try to do as you said.
And no wanting to Beat the dude senseless isnt roid rage. That's just from growing up in a house with a roided out father powerlifter who was a prick and drag you up 15 steps by your throat or stop at a green light get out of his car cause someone was tailgating him, then bash their window in and pull them out of their car.