posted Tue, 02/18/2014 - 19:44
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Opinions - Would you be cool with your girlfriend/boyfriend being friends with an ex lover/fuck buddy?
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Just in general, how would you feel and what are your policies on ex's, in relation to FWB or actually having dated - either for them hanging out one on one, in a small group, or having them invited to your S/O's parties, etc.
Not just, do you trust your S/O, but do you feel good seeing people and knowing they've had a turn in the sheets with your lady/man? It's not about cheating, because if they're gonna cheat they're gonna cheat, it's just about respect/needs/personal morals.
Thoughts?
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Thankfully I very rarely need to do anything like that. My size helps, but I'm told I just have "one of those faces" that tends to dissuade any confrontation.
Some new guy at my wife's work made a few advances towards her and didn't want to take no for an answer. I believe one of her colleagues told him I'm quite a big lad it might be best not to go there. I just arranged to pick her up and take her out for lunch making sure he saw me. I noticed this guy trying to keep out if my line of sight looking very sheepish. I assume that was him as for some strange reason the "advances" stopped that day......
Same lol.. Im told I have a presence when im not playing anymore.. I dont see it because id like to think ive changed into a pretty gentle guy
Lmfao! Awesome. Unfortunately this guy was a lot bigger than me and knew her before I did. Had to teach him lifting doesnt teach you to fight. Nor will it help regrow your 2 front teeth bitch!
LOL I like that answer
Subtle I thought ;)
we just had a thread on this basically.. but no.. anyone with any sort of respect or brain cells left isn't going to make their s/o hang out or be buddies with their past fuck buddies.. that's reaching far and usually turns into a train wreck.. on the other hand I'm always happy to watch the melt down when others attempt this sort of thing
could you link me to it?
http://www.eroids.com/forum/general/off-topic/serious-dating-advice-need...
I am willing to admit every situation is different.. and how they meet can have a lot to do with the circumstances that follow.. but I have yet to meet a man who is 100% comfortable bringing their wife or serious girl friend around their ex fuck buddies.. well unless they just don't give a shit about that woman.. first off who wants to be friends with a past fuck buddy.. I just like you for your genitals not your personality for fuck sake so pick your clothes up and gtfo.. I might get a lot of flak for this but it just seems to be a wannabe "progressive" movement brought on by men who are just assholes to their spouse and a very small sub culture of women who either think the world is made up of rainbows and butter flies or they just want to keep them around as an option to fuck.. plain and simple.. the men who buy into it get their manhood thrown at them with the insecurity card.. these guys really believe they're proving they're secure with themselves.. I find it to be quite the opposite.. they literally get tugged around on a pink bedazzled leash called "you're just insecure".. I don't fall for that shit.. I'm the man and if I say no then it's not happening or take your shit and leave.. there are literally millions of other women out there who know better and will not hassle a man over something so retarded
k rant over.. I got 0 hours of sleep thanks to my rescue puppy -_-
Chaz32621We did lol omnon would u message me what ur friend went through? ?
You dont want to know lol.. itll just make you paranoid
Anonhell fuck naw
A fight will break out fast
bigwillyout of basic respect I wouldn't subject my wife to mingle with women iv slept with. a girlfriend may be diferent I don't know. I certainly wouldn't stand for it. women and children are the only things that men hold dear, and sex is an emotional thing for women not be taken lightly, at least decent women any way. just my stance.
hunteron20sTo be honest I have put my girl through this alot and not on purpose ..just slept with alot of girls in her area and when we go out my dumb friend has to tell her that I slept with this one and so on ..but thats the past and I cant be mad if its the other way around ..cuase that woukd mean I have no trust. .I dont ask cuase I dont wanna know her past ..she can tell me if sh3 wants but id rather not know so I dont hold it against her ..thats my 2 cents
I think it depends on why they slept together in the first place and why they aren't now...one of my best friends and I slept together on a few occasions now shes married and her husband and I are chill we go fishing we hang out and he doesn't care if im there with her alone neither does my gf...I think its because we've both moved on and her husband understands that...we've been friends for yrs and will be for yrs to come the sleeping together didn't define our friendship...im a firm believer too in don't give your girl a reason to cheat and she wont...and be real too we all look at girls in the gym some days and go dammnnnnnn....but if you don't act on it then no harm no foul...same goes for your girl as long as shes loyal to you and doesn't do anything with this bro...shes alright...