posted Thu, 05/07/2015 - 12:14
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I am sure some of you guys have heard this "new big thing" where apparently some fat fuck thought they could sucker the entire population into thinking being flabby with man titties is attractive to females. It is so stupid I can hardly even write about it,lol. On social media I got after our local news channel, I have spent the last 6 years busting my ass to not look sloppy like Seth Rogan and judging by all the attention I get from the opposite sex they appreciate it as well.
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If it wasn't for people like your girl and our friend I would be much more jaded than I am. But seeing how amazing a few of them are I know there is a glimmer of hope.
Yup, it's a faint glimmer, but it's there. I've also noticed I'm much friendlier to these bigger people trying to change their lives than I am to these pencil necks sweating all over my equipment. I'm not sure why really.
I would suspect because they are never in the iron and are usually doing cardio or on machines, i.e. away from my area.
Personally, what I'm not attracted to, a bag of bones, 90-100lbs, a 300lb + lady with no care or worries about ones personal health. Anything in between, well a woman is a woman and just about the most beautiful thing on earth. Thick legs, wide hips and a narrow waist, that's a knock out! My wife carries some muscle and all the curves. I'm one lucky sog
Yea I always see it some big fat guy with a hot girl. Why do we see that. Because girls want to be the hot one in a relationship. And they feel security in that they think no other girls gonna want their fat guy and that the fat guy will be so grateful to the hot chick that he won't hurt her. We all like what we like I like fat girls because I like something to hold on to. To each their own and just love yourself and be with what you want to be with.
AnonThey don't have to be fat to have something to hold on to lol
However... I like a thick girl and I like a fit girl too... Means they care about theirselves.... But a big ole blubber I'm not too into..... Cause either they don't give a shit or they got a health issue that they are ignoring.... Either way...
Idk to each their own
Dude below said something about having "the clapp" in your eye I don't know about that either
ust writing this as a friendly reminder to be careful what you touch because you never know what's on the item. For the last month I've been dealing with a really bad nasty eye infection. I had to see 4 Doctors befor someone could finally tell me that i have an STD in my eye. Doc said it happens alot someone infected will usually masterbate then just wipe their hand with a towel and go around town touching stuff. then you touch something and rub your face and bam you get a nasty eye infection that keeps you out of the gym and work for a month. Be careful bros and if your out and about carry a bottle of sanitizer with you and especially dont rub your face.
thank you
Badgoat1
AnonOh my
Didn't know that.... Thanks
Give them a vote if you find it helpful.Permalinkmust be how you chlamidiya in your eye? being such an expert and everything.
Wow dude thought this was an open forum where people were allowed to express their opinions and observations in an adult type manner guess that only applies if people agree with you on things. If you read my post I say its just my observations in public places not hardcore facts. And bringing up a totally unrelated infection that affected my life and the way people treated me for a month is just an asshole move.
lol relax mate, wasnt having a go, just a laugh, it is quite funny, come on!
Your good bro
AnonYou can very well do that.... Especially if you created the thread where you did talk about this stuff
You gotta remember there are all kinda dudes here that hard hormone induced and not all comments are gonna be in your favor... But fuck it
Never should you feel that you can't share something that you feel may be helpful or informative in some way
I really hope you talked to some hot chic to find out what she was thinking ... a lot of hot chics actually ..
Nope simple powers of observation and people watching. The young girls typically go for the hot guys and the ladies from about 30 and up i typically see with a fat guy. So aomething must happen in between those ages. Either the hot guy hurt them or the fat guy got rich. Either way. Thats just what i see even at the gym. Now for a one night stand yes i usually see the girl choose the hot guy at the bar cuz he looks like he can go longer and harder. Just observations ive seen at bars, malls and beaches.
It's called growing up and being mature. The younger crowd wants what they see on tv. Guys and girls want that perfect ten body and could care about anything else (how many members here are trying to get "ready for the beach") but probably couldn't hold a conversation with a protein shake. Ladies "30 and up ( and guys also)" are looking towards different goals in life. Does the other person have a good job, a future ahead of them, want a family, like kids, etc. My wife has a rocking body (even after having a child) but I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't aiming for the same goals in life when we first met. The whole "dad bod" term is stupid to begin with but you just sound like vanity got the best of your thoughts and your not looking at the big picture
I'm the least vain person on the planet actually totally opposite. I know I'm an ugly guy, I'm not very smart, I'm bipolar and schizophrenic. So I push people away from me so they never see my darkside. I don't workout and do what I do to compete or pick up women. I do this because it makes me feel just a little bit better about myself every day. But I can tell I'm not really wanted around so I'll just go back to lurking in the shadows and checking sources. Goodbye guys
just saw this mate, no good, sent you a friend request.
the sad part of that is .. you probably aren't ugly at all and while you label yourself you don't give people that are decent the opportunity to get to know you without any judgement at all
I can't let people get to know me its not fair to them. With my mental illnesses the smallest things that normal people brush off cause extreme depression or rage. And the schizophrenia makes me paranoid to the point that I have trouble trusting. That's not fair to anyone so while I do have girlfriends and was married for 10 years as I've gotten older I've learned that its not fair to put anyone through that. So serious relationships are out of the question anymore.
While I am not a med pusher there are a lot of decent meds out there for schizophrenics that work well if taken.... I have also seen anecdotal evidence that simple test cycles help with moderating mood issues ... my other point is that there are people out there who are not interested in labeling people and you take that away from them by labeling yourself
Test does elevate my mood that's primarily the reasont I use it. When I'm on cycle I feel better and a lot mellower. But I can't stay on year round. I also use humor to help my social anxiety but typing it in a forum or email it never has the same effect. I'm actually a pretty nice person just things effect me different than most people.
no kam he said that the hot chics want someone who won't hit them and won't leave them ....
I love when some guy comes in here to tell us what girls want. I just lol.
AnonSome guys do know what a girl wants and then some haven't a clue..... It's called being in tune and most importantly listening and hearing the woman .... Took me a long time to learn that
I know what my wife wants... sometimes. And I'm pretty tuned in. My 13 year wedding anniversary is this month. I'm better at knowing than I used to be, but still clueless sometimes. Lol
maybe I m just biased and I don't consider myself hot but I have never dated anyone thinking that i would do so because they wouldn't hurt me based on anything.... I just assume that no one would consider it ... ;-) it is actually a non thought .... never had it ..lol
Money. Lots of money.
mmmhmmm
I always get reminded when I'm on holiday just how bad the majority of guys look with their shirt off. Particularly appropriate to men IMO, when we were in NZ I noticed repeatedly just how bad most lads half my age look.
The one thing that does always make me laugh is the way those same guys feel the need to inflate their chest in a "competitive" way when someone carrying done muscle walks past.
People that look like shit spend their time convincing themselves it's ok not to be "obsessed with their appearance" as many put it. If they genuinely believe that, all power to them. I don't want to look that way, and I don't believe most people would. They just don't want to do the hard graft it takes.
The funniest is when those guys are wearing a banana hammock and playing frisbee!!!
I so wish I wasn't eating while reading that. I've lost my appetite for some reason :(
AnonSame here.... It's the fat asses trying to trick the females into thinking being a slob is sexy..... No it's fuckin lazy is what it is .... I been eatin shit I don't even like to get where I'm going with my body..... If I get a chance to speak on this matter I'm gonna hurt some dad bod having fuckers feelings
Not sure I agree 100% Andro. Watching the news excerpts on this bullshit I found mostly fat chicks talking about how much they like it! I am sure any single guys on here can testify to a woman or two stating that they do not want to take their clothes off in front of them. I have had that mentioned to me on more than one occasion. Not very often a woman says she is intimidated by a males body.
The point I am making here is fat lazy chicks want a fat lazy guy so they do not have to concern themselves with their own bodies! Still if you want a 10 you gotta be a 10!
AnonWell hang on now .... I have seen big girls that want a muscled guy... Many times in fact and some girls are actually comfortable with themselves... But you are right too... However I'm not sure you have to be a 10 to get a 10.... Maybe for some ppl.... But you know personality and character goes a long way..... My physique is pretty good but still needs work for sure in my opinion but my lady is a hot MILF at 127lbs and she is much prettier than me lol
Read what I wrote below about moms. I agree with you....looks and a bod only get you so far. Initially the first thing you look at is the looks. However, looks don't mean shit without a personality. I was merely making light of the fact that the interviews on the news only talked to fat women. Being a single man when I meet a woman I expect a certain level of fitness and self care. This also goes a long way in a relationship having someone who shares the same lifestyle you do.
AnonYea bro absolutely..... I'm one of those guys that thinks a woman's inner self has to have a lot of beauty ..... I can deal with her being thick or fit or a tad out of shape... But I don't care too much for boney or a lot of lard..... Fit is a big turn on but I'm actually also attracted to a thick lady (not fatty) them proportionate curves are sexy..... But what is even better than all that is when you connect with them if you got a connection then bam you got something there
Had a client tell me today, referencing this dad bod movement, that my body type was out of style. She was completely joking and we laughed about this bullshit.
Truth though: My girl would rather rest her head on my thick chest than on some soft, round belly.
AnonYour far from out of style
I find it absolutely funny how people justify being severely out of shape. What's even better is the excuses people use to justify staying out of shape. I know single mothers who make the time to get to the gym and eat healthy because it is a priority. I have also watched women have a child and then prep and get onstage and win. It comes down to not letting yourself get out of shape. It just baffles me when people say they don't have the time lmfao Christ the majority of major gyms have day care in them lol. It comes down to priorities. An if you really want to make changes you do everything possible to do it but its easier to make excuses.......
Hit the nail on the head!!
I don't have time= I'm not making it a priority.
bingo
DeathstrokeOh god this means eventually there will be "the fit dad bod" movement. lol!
It would be funny as hell to see like one of those "dad bod" calenders. gross but funny.
Must be in the same category as no father left behind program lol. I prefer to keep my DILF bod
I do want to go on record for a minute and say that if a woman has a decent body and maybe has had a few kids, but is still in the gym and juggling life....I find that maybe a little sexier than a bikini model. So in shape moms are sexy.
I however, am single as hell and also love and appreciate young, single and very fit women!!!
TronSaying they have dad bod is a stupid coping mechanism so that they can deal with the fact they are fat pieces of shit and are using this "trend" as an excuse to stay their fat ass away from the gym and eat more crap..
Seen it on tiger fitness lol
TronI swear.. I just saw this on the news and was about to come here and post about it... beat me Darth lol
Man I have been stewing about this for two days now! I was hoping one of you guys would pick it up lol