posted Thu, 10/25/2012 - 07:42
1237
Age matters ?
ad
Hi eroiders,
recently broke up with my 29 years girlfriend and started to chat with a more mature one; after dating for a month or so still wondering if I should continue or not, she's 12 years older than me, me i am 32. Kinda thinking of having a family and I am not sure if I should consider dating her, although so far we have had a good time.
- Bookmark
- 0
- 0
Ask her if she wants a family...If not ask her how far she would like to go before calling it quits because you want one. It's called an up front contract all the cards are laid out on the table and you keep your emotions in check and she has been warned. If both of you agree than by all means go for it. But I'm betting from personal experience that she is having fun and isn't fully aware of the situation unless she doesn't care about your feelings on the matter or she doesn't know them. Either way you owe to her to be honest about what you expect in YOUR future so she can have a choice before you or her get hurt. That is the mans way of handling it!
What the hell....... give it a whirl!
Greg289 has good points!
Suzanne summers has to be 60- she's hotter than ever-
If she is into fitness, very active and her mom looks young for her age
That hot, little, 43 year old was 10 years old when I was 20...
I bet she's mature, sexy, experienced, intelligent, has her own money, and has way more to offer than her younger counterparts.
I'm 53 and have an 11 year old. I'll be 63 when he's 22. If he follows my lead I'll be
83 when he gets married, and 88 when I have a grandson. I'll be 106 when I watch my grandson graduate from high school.
Point is, I'M in the MIDDLE of my life. I have a whole nother life to live... You have two.
My wife was in her 40's when we started having kids.
I see some pretty sexy (and active) 60 year olds. So don't believe that "hit a wall" crap.
Bro she is 43 and your 32? No way run from that shit! Unless she looks 29-35 then you might be okay. But that girl is just looking for some young stallion to fuel her loins!!! At her age if she has not found Mr. Right then something is wrong with her!
I'm 30. I go for 18-25ish. I think of it this way if a girl was 12 years older than me now, then when I'm 50 she'll be 62. That to me is just gross. I'm told I look 24 and I act 17, so younger is better in my mind!!
I'm sure there are young hotties with all same attributes somewhere-
Just gotta keep looking-
I'd look for one 12 yrs younger- not older though
Make sure she has good genes- cuz she won't be getting any younger-
If ur in luv - go for it-
She will be an old mommy and an even older granmommy
AnonI think its a simple fact that the older a woman gets the higher the risk for children having issues, but apparently theres a factor with the males age too.
I hate to sound superficial but most women do seem to "hit a wall" with their looks as they age.
Oh and btw I know plenty of women who have kids at 45 and they are perfectly healthy.. I also know 25 year olds who have deformed kids.. So I don't buy into that age thing as much =x
there are some pretty hardcore statistics proving birth defects are more likely with age of the woman. my mom was 48 when she had my bro. he was born healthy too. chances are of birth defect are just higher as a woman ages
Same my mother was in her late 40s when she had me, I just meant it's not set in stone
word
u could always adopt kids..if u like her, stick w/ her. older girls are more fun. just make sure she is worth it
If you like her, why does it matter?
Less stupid shit with older women, might teach you a thing or two too ;)
No you are doing it wrong! You want younger!
My gf is 11 years older than me and we've been together almost over a year and I'm quite happy. The relationship has turned out better than women I dated for years. If she makes you happy then who gives two sh**s about her age. The only problems I really ever ran into were her older friends having a fit she was dating someone 11 years younger.. But eventually they came around. DO IT
well if family and kids is something you want to start and she is already 44 then i would think long and hard about long-term prospects. short-term fun is fine though obviously.
She's older so typically...Less BS young games. Have fun!
That's not even a question ;) If you're having a good time, then heck yeah! I think that's the most important thing in a relationship. A good time. If you're not having fun now, imagine in 10 years..
All about choice man if u choose to make the choice to love her rest of ur life. . Age doesn't matter unless she's 18 or something then I would say noooo lol