Stress can take a toll on a person no doubt. It affects us all differently in all areas, physical, mental and spiritually. And when you add the "family business" aspect into that stress level, it seems to compound it. Miscarriages leave a scar on a woman's psyche. Often times a woman will thinks she has done something to provoke it. When she did nothing wrong at all. Some view it as a failure. Nobody wants to think they have failed at anything.

There are so many checks and balances running in a woman's head when we hit the pillows at night. Since it's a family business, there doesn't seem to leave any room of "leave the job at work", it all gels together.
As far as getting her libido back, it will return when she gets those checks and balances in order. Moving sucks and depletes the average person of energy in every capacity. Remember, the biggest sex organ is our brains. When our brain is overloaded with crap falling off our plate, there is no room for sex. Help lighten her load and she will regain her motivation, libido, and sense of well being. I don't mean just the details of the move either. I mean ALL the home chores she has every day after work.

Punching the time clock is on her. But going home to keep working, argh. It becomes mundane and robotic. In today's world where there must be dual incomes, the woman still has the majority of "work" in the home after the 9-5 job ends. Step up to the plate and just do half of those things without asking her, "what can I do to help out". This will no only lighten her load, but she will see this as the small things you do for her. And all women know, "it's the small things that count". She does not meds! Doctors and pharmaceuticals are all in bed with each other. The more scripts they right, the more money they make.

All this rambling... is from the voice of experience, "been there done that".