Who pushes you to your goals?
I was just sitting here thinking how lucky I was that my wife and I always work so well together. I recently moved and I started over in a new state (scary)!! Just picked up and moved - wow!
Starting over somewhere new gave me a real push to get into the best shape I have ever been in. My wife and I sat down, got our diet all in order and have been killing it for the last three weeks! I was just curious if you’ll have that special someone that helps drive and encourage you to be your best. It could be a gym partner, role model, friend, partner...
My wife and I have always done cutting diets together... and she pushes me to meet my goal more than anyone I’ve ever met. It truly makes dieting more palatable if you have someone who pushes you and understands your goals!
I’m curious who pushes you to be your very best.
Be safe everyone and lift hard!
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Tell me where to find such a person? So far, no diet has passed the exam because I have no self-denial, I cannot pursue the set goal myself. And I think I would need such a person very much for mobilization. But I don't know whether by force or love: D
Regarding the life goals i have big role models, historical men, that always kept fighting, even in the darkest days. A woman to present your heart to always is nice as well.
And regarding training goals, my role Model is Brock Lesnar, that man is a beast.
True! So many good people out there that help shape our lives
Enlil.
Mine is definitely my parter. I remember when I first told her i was contemplating taking gear she said if I did she would leave me! Not long after that she was jabbing me with a needle because “she likes to be the one doing it” I think secretly she fantasises it being something more than a tiny needle but at least she’s a part of it. She also gives me shit if I stray from my diet and keeps me in check.
I’m right there with you bro. Mine is a champ! She pushes me, and allows me to AAS without any guilt. Honestly, she likes me more while on AAS
Nothing quiet like the love of a strong woman to support you to achieve your goals. Or in my case mock me till I can’t take it anymore and have to achieve my goals or face further ridicule. I’m very similar although (probably much like yourself) my children drive me to new lengths. I don’t think anything has made me want to be the best version of myself like my children have.
Here I came wanting to talk about Tren and I end up with that paragraph.. Time to up my aromasin.
My biggest pusher is I dont want to be a pussy, whiner, or a has been. The world already has waaaaay too many of these fuckers and it ain't going to be me! Whether you can hear it or not, this is said with a strong southern redneck accent. Highly educated though.
Hell yea!!
My ex wife.
I'm reminded every time I send her the child support.
Why didn't I just learn how to cook?
Molinin302I'm not going to bore you guys with details, there was a time I made more money than I do now. I'm done child support and some arrears in a couple years, 17mo actually. I'm well over 400k when I'm done. Anyway, one of my exes took me to court for more support. I arrived in khakis and a polo shirt. She arrived with gold, jewelry, Dooney&Burke purse, clothing from a designer i can't remember the name of (but hideous shit), my support obligation got lowered that day. And it was a female judge. I actually did a little dance outside of the courthouse like an asshole. Call me an asshole, don't care. I've always paid. I danced like a pikey Irishman.
This song jumped right in my head after reading this oh, what a feeling
When we're dancing on the ceiling hahah I can imagine your happy dance
I have never missed a payment. Till I got laid off last month. I called child support enforcement. Turns out i I have been over paying like a few thousand dollars in over payments. I asked about the other one she said " you have been paying how much?" Why did you agree to that. Its more than the three combined should be. I said i knew that. But my current wife had a good job and they're my kids so I wanted them to be taken care of. They told me to stop paying. And get a job so they can re set my payments. She was all but saying what the crapp is wrong with you. I said i just don't want to get in trouble. And my kids need to be taken care of. So that's that. But yeah its nice when you pay and drive an old beat up truck then they show up to drop the kids in a 70k new car. Talking shit about me. I just smile cause I know my kids know who I am. And so do I. Thats all that matters
Molinin302The older I get the more I learn how doing the right thing feels. Hats off to you buddy. The thing thats crazy, its coming to an end. My kids (except for one) are adults. To them thats a pay cut. A sizable one. Thats what doing the wrong thing does.
Have 2 years on one and 4 on the other two. And a full grown adult also
Molinin302Wish I could buy a coffee bro, so many people hear we pay child support and don't understand the circumstances. Hats off. Funny we're talking about this, Ale× turned 20 today, H@iley turned 20 on the 19th. Dont have the relationship I'd prefer, but I'm a proud father. And yes, they're 3 days apart, two different moms. Theres a third mom. Thats why my high obligation.
3 days apart-and different moms.. very interesting! You must have been fertile as shit that year!
Fucking blew my mind too!
my reference to the child support was too she got the gold mine, I got the shaft.
I'm reminded of all fun we had
Every month when I send her the child support
Why didn't I just learn how to cook.
But yeah my current wife talks about her exes never paying. Says she loves the fact im a good dad despite the troubles we go through.
Yeah 4 kids three woman's the last two came out at the same time
Molinin302Figure a way to make it happen Bill, breakfast on me. Its a small club were in, and not a cool one lol. I hope not many new members don't join, but... lmao! We're men.
Me, myself and I...
I also like looking at pictures of Golden era guys.
Nohomo
This Guy
Nice bracelet on your skinny "friend" there Greg. Do u have a matching one at home in your jewelry box? Sorry, he is too atheistically pleasing.
Atheistically pleasing? You're turned on by my friend? You can't even see his pickle bone.
Raccoons have penis bones too, right?
Ha!! That is the one we fear the most..
Unless If I ever cheat on my wife, then I’ll be meeting this guy sooner lol ;)
Molinin302Im probably my own worst critic. My wife isnt into health and fitness unfortunately. This is where you guys come in. Well, that and your delicious cookie recipies.Press has a top notch macaroon...
A bit like my fiancée. She has those extra five kilos and doesn't want to take them off.lol. She's not interested in the gym but in January she's coming to live with me, hopefully we'll change her mind, I have a gym at home and sooner or later she'll give in.
Molinin302Mine likes her Coors Lights. We have an agreement, as long as each of us are healthy and ok we don't give each other any guff about what each other does. It works out. No judgment zone. She likes beer, me? Androgens and anabolics lol.
Bro- beer! I love that stuff, but the gut hates it so I stay away. That’s good you both do your own thing. I posted this because a lot of my friends have a spouse or partner that refuses to stay healthy and will not exercise.
The wife and I agreed when we were dating to always work hard for the other one. Two kids later and we both have had changes to our bodies. But it turns me on just when she tries and has goals.
Honestly, I truly work hard to keep her interested and happy. And I feel she does the same
The gears will be a big problem. He does not share this lifestyle. I have six bottles of Cyp and I'm thinking where to hide them. lol.
Bro, we better not lose ya on here if he puts a kibosh on the gear! Maybe you’ll need a secret partner to stash your gear at ;) (just kidding!)
Like the dude that died cause his wife put antifreeze in his gear for some time and it killed him.
I have an electronic device (closed with screws) where to put them and when I am running I tear the label off the bottle.
For work reasons we always go out and from here I can organize my pin day. lol. Guys, I'm going to compromise if he finds out. I know that these are not the serious problems, but he would never accept it.
I lucked out with mine. When we first started seeing each other I fesses up. Said just so you know I use steroids. She said no shit? Guys don't look like you and don't. Then she asked me if she could give me my shots. That sealed the deal right there.
I like it!! Ya, mine does not care if I use them. Actually, she likes me more while on cycle.. I have more energy and have a crazy libido.
Molinin302I wish I could give this a +. Honesty is the policy my bro, honesty.
Molinin302Ugh bro, don't know how you've been together, but you may want to get that sorted. Sooner or later its going to come up, and if its later its going to be a problem. Just saying. Just be open with him, make it not a big thing. Because... its not a big thing.
Agree! Rip it off like a band aid !!
Molinin302Agreed, my situation is a little different. Started with bad ED and a ton of Dr appts. Turns out testosterone therapy was the fix. Now it progressed to other things, and I'm open with my wife, and my mother. I don't have much family and they're going to contact her. Ever try to explain why in your mid 40's as a man the reason you're taking breast cancer medication? When your mothers mother was a 2nd lieutenant nurse? Lol. Damn bro, the things we do lol
Bro come up with a protein macaroon! You’ll be rich!
Molinin302ask Press for his recipie lol. That krimpet eatin' red coat lol
WTF are you on about Mol??! Lol
Molinin302Ha! Was waiting for you to see this! Now share your macaroon recipe! (Us yanks are all secretly jealous of all this cool British stuff. My stepson and I were just talking a half hour ago that now matter how hard we try it never sounds right)
Molinin302It was a rib jab my bro, im dealing with a stomach bug, a few smiles are making me feel better. Question... have you seen the "most dangerous debt collector" that Vice did? All bullocks aside, they show up 3 strong, its their business, and I'm 45 in a week, but I see these guys hands... perhaps I should jump across the pond. Gos knows theres crazy shit going on here.
Several times bud - You mean the Guy from Liverpool? Guy that owns the Gym and gets all the panic attacks?