Too big? Head slap, face palm. The solution is simple. Forget proper training, quality diet, and productive rest. Forget growth, health, and development. All you need is a more " body positive" approach where everyone gets a participation trophy & pat on the back. I mean, why even aspire to be great after all? Body positivity....is all you need.

It's subjective, of course. You must understand that though most everyone approves of folks being in good shape, that to many, if not most people, once one begins to appear to be obsessive concerning body appearance and it becomes clear that a great amount of time, energy, and resources are being spent on appearance, it gives the impression of superficiality and shallowness, as well as indicating stunted maturity. A significant other is liable to be judged as unserious and shallow by association as well.

To most folks, body builders do not look like tough guys, they look like a twelve year old boy's idea of a tough guy. A cartoon character. No actual badass would ever feel physically intimidated by, say, Arnold. Not in a million years.

Yes. IMO, modern bodybuilders are (amazingly) freakish and not very attractive, particularly if they have GH gut too. Bodybuilders pre the AAS era have a much more pleasing aesthetic. Much more practical too. I can't imagine not being able to scratch my ass, fit into clothes or my car.

Maybe she just want people not to lay the link big = steroids people who doesnt train are easy sayers of look he is big hes using steroids but they don even have a clue what we do what we eat how we train im not skinny but also not that big but my wife says it 2 maybe a lil bit concernd of other predatorwomens :))
BIGGER IS BETTER

This sounds like a comment that is coming from someone who is fairly insecure in themselves, so is therefore trying to put doubt in your mind and make you feel the same. I dated someone who came out with things like this and she ended up becoming basically a bully in the relationship, who revelled in controlling & manipulating everything she could. Your partner should be giving you nothing but positive encouragement and support in everything you do even if its not something they enjoy themselves.

It is a constant struggle between me and my girlfriend. The Amount of time I spend at the gym , My use of PED's even though I try to explain that I am very conservative in my usage she just does not want to hear it or understand it.

She loves my body and how much I take care of myself physically but at the same time it makes her very insecure. Its a wonder we are still together really , but she is the one so it is what it is.

As for being too big, nah bro no way .

I get bigger I need to be bigger I always look smaller than I am compliments help but I want super size bro I think if I got as big as I wanted I’d want to be bigger than that then... it’s a mental high for sure my wife says ah don’t like the muscles bu I catch her looking and I say “stop looking at my steroids if u don’t like it”

Fuck no get the fuck out of here with that shit.

In all seriousness it’s your body and your preference. Tbh I’ve been more muscular than my fiancé wanted since we met, and I’ve only gotten more jacked since then. Most woman don’t actually want a competitive bber, but if she’s a good woman she sticks with you no matter what. If she’s a shallow ho (not your lady, some hypothetical ho, respect bro) then you might run into issues but only in the off-season. When you shred down she’ll be ok with the size again.