posted Tue, 07/14/2015 - 07:16
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The taboo of talking to women in the gym...
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Hitting on women in the gym has always been a no-no under the rules of gym etiquette. My old gym even had a separate women's section behind closed doors so women could work out in peace.
Has anyone ever pulled it off getting a girls number in the gym? There has to be a way around that rule. My gym is the only place I ever see fitness type girls in my area. I think they fly them in covertly so they can work out, then fly them back out again.
I even tried stuffing my pants and doing pushups by the water fountain, but so far no luck.
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Concern with wants and feelings, stole my moves... Few weeks ago I'm chatting with some cougar at the gym about her ills with her koi pond and bam! All her info on my phone later Im trying to check for the hook in my lip. Fun times.
done properly hooks in lips cannot be seen or felt ;-)
Hitman187You got to really pay attention when it comes to girls. Guys dont care and will break their necks turning around to check a girl out. Girls for the most part are a little more sneaky and try not to get caught staring you down. If you are facing in there direction they usually wont turn there head to check you out. I noticed alot of times they will peek through the corner of there eyes using their peripheral vision. Or if my back is turned towards them i catch them checking outnmy goods thru the mirror. I just noticed this recently because im always focused on either the tits, ass, or overall physique but never there eyes before. Now that i do pay attention to eyes i notice alot more girls checking me out.
now i wont just randomly go out of my way to talk to a girl, chase her out to her car or anything weird like that. I look for little signs that she may be feeling me, like if i catch her checking me out over and over again and stuff like that. I dont like getting played out at all its a terrible feeling so i like to have assurances before i approach. Theres a few ways to approach without making it seem like your hitting on them at first, you just gotta be creative. I shouldnt have to say this but no pick up lines they rarely ever work.
I dont approach alot but when i do ive been pretty successful. Ive never just been played out, the worst iheard was i have a boyfriend, and in most cases i was eventually able to confirm this.
Good info. ^
I'll pay better attention. Recently I was finishing off my tris on cables and looked up to see a girl staring. I thought I was imagining it, but the next set I catch her again. This time her assumed boyfriend caught her too because I saw him scold her and she shrugged. He was a crossfit fag, so maybe she wanted to peek at the darkside, haha.
when i was 20 i had sex with a 34 year old milf in the gym pool, obviously these days i have a misses and im faithful, there is hot girls who workout whilst im training, its so awkward trying not too look, but they should be able to train without being stared at in my opinion.
StevebJust wait outside til they are done working out. Then you can follow them home and you won't need their phone number if you know where they live.
I'm not a fan of this, although I feel your pain. Best place to find a girl dedicated to fitness is at the gym, yet there is creeper mentality when hitting on them there. I did this years back and it bit me in the ass, as it got weird when I saw her there everyday. ( I don't see why, I gave her a lot of bang for her buck.)
Either way I avoid it now, but I still stare like a creeper when they are doing rows in booty shorts.
GearofWarLol! Depends on your locale my friend. It seems fairly easy to pull a number here in the Northeast for whatever reason. Not sure if it's in poor taste but I've only ever followed up on one. I've had a couple other numbers but never called.
Many times. I will just get on the piece of cardio equipment next to them & chat them up. If it goes well I will invite them for coffee or a protein shake. If that goes well, dinner. I'll tell her to go home and get whored up first. I've gotten the pussy on the day I met her 7 times. 4 others it took me a week or two.
The gym is almost a meditation place for me. I go to an olympic weightlifting gym that's 90% emorty, so there is nothing but be and the Weights.
That being said, most women that go to gym know how guys act there, and tend to keep there gaurd WAY up.
I didn't even know it was taboo lol. I think it's okay myself, if she's maybe had a little glance over to were you are then why not approach her. As long as your respectful and not on full perv mode seems ok to me.
an old room mate got a cute gf like that. he barely even lifted too. he was more into coke, partying and frat lifestyle.
i met my gf online. she said the first date had to be at the gym followed by a high protein meal. i was sold. thank God my uncle's steak recipe sealed the deal for me. lmao
that's fricken awesome!
I met my fiance online as well. But your first date story is priceless!
I've done it and found out the hard way lol. At one point there were three of them all in the stretching room stretching next to eachother and they all didn't know. Needless to say I didn't stretch before my workout that day... Take the advice of (don't shit where ya eat) trust me its damn good advice.
That's gold my friend. I learned the hard way as well when I was a broke college kid. I'd take them all to my favorite hole in the wall with the cheapest drinks. After awhile there wasn't a night I could take a date there because at least one of the old conquests would be in there. It provided endless amusement for the bartenders though. They loved seeing me.
when I go I brother honestly I tune everything else out females included.... I wouldn't feel comfortable about approaching them in the gym
I usually can, but yesterday this fitness girl was doing bent over rows in front of me in little orange shorts. Killed me. The test e doesnt help matters.
I was finishing up a back workout the other day with lat pull downs and this sexy girl in skin tight yoga shorts laid down right in front of me and started doing sit ups (with her legs very far apart). It's just not right
Well u didn't put that part in lol
It gets worse...she was making a little whimper sound at each rep.
lmao!!
I have only pulled it off once and the woman approached me. She mentioned that she saw me in there all the time, told me that I had an amazing body and asked me to spot her when she did squats- so I really didn't have to put in any effort. Aside from that, I have never and probably will never approach a woman in the gym out of respect. One of my biggest pet peeves is when I am trying to blast a workout and stay focused then someone wants to get chatty. With that being the car, I don't want to do the same to someone else.
Ya I have a few times. I suggest you don't do it. There's an old saying, don't shit where you sleep. When things go south you still have to see them every damn day. Sucks that's the only place to meet fitness chicks tho. And getting rejected sucks whn you have to see them everyday lol.
If I see an extremely hot woman training I dont think about this made up gym etiquette, I wait til shes done with her set and move in for the kill. The only thing I ever hear from anyone is "How the hell did she talk to you bro?" If you dont blatantly hit on them you would be surprised on how many will talk to you. My luck has been for every 5 I talk to I get 2. Pretty good odds. Lucky for me my gym has lots of locations so Im not labeled a player. Its all about how you carry yourself and not be a fkn creeper. Fuck gym etiquette, its a made up thing.
Should do some PT work with women, then they give you their numbers all the time....
If they have headphones I'd say best not to disturb them. But if no headphones, maybe just go up one and compliment them on their form and say they look like they must work out a lot. You can probably tell right away if they're interested.