posted Tue, 07/14/2015 - 07:16
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The taboo of talking to women in the gym...
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Hitting on women in the gym has always been a no-no under the rules of gym etiquette. My old gym even had a separate women's section behind closed doors so women could work out in peace.
Has anyone ever pulled it off getting a girls number in the gym? There has to be a way around that rule. My gym is the only place I ever see fitness type girls in my area. I think they fly them in covertly so they can work out, then fly them back out again.
I even tried stuffing my pants and doing pushups by the water fountain, but so far no luck.
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I was banging a female trainer at my gym.
I banged 2 female trainers and their clients AT the gym today.. in my head..while doing cardio..
Best cardio session ever!
I rubbed one out thinking about a female trainer at the gym.
I got clamydia from a female trainer at the gym. That kinda put a damper on things.
At least that one is a pretty easy fix. Other than the mind fuck part of it anyway,lol
Glad I'm a married dude, no STD's for me.
So yeah, it's not supposed to be done and its considered wrong by many but hey...so is most of the rest of the things I've deemed gtg.
I got a girls number the other day. We had already exchanged a couple smiles as we are often there around the same time. (yes..yes..I'm sure you're saying.. stalker.. but my intentions were always corrupt with this one
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I wrote my number down in the locker room and when she was chatting with her trainer, who is also incredibly cute, I just walked up and said hello. I handed her the number, said I'd be interested in getting to know her...how I didn't want to interrupt the flow of their training.. also complimented her work ethic.. and said shoot me a text or a call. .
It was quick, concise, had a compliment thrown in there and extremely not awkward. That being said, I think they were both surprised so that worked in my favor. We didn't talk after that but she did wave when she left for the day and a few days later she sent a text. We've talked a few times and have plans this weekend so we'll see what happens.
I know I can be a lurking creeper at times at the gym , lol All pumped and raging and its like everything catches your eye. I think its important to do it a bit classy and laid back, quick, leave an impression and be out
how did you go bro? good date?
Yeah bro! We actually hung out a few times. Pretty well put together gal for sure.. Brains and Booty! I love it. She's really down to earth actually which my first impression was maybe she was snooty or uppity or something. In all honesty that may have been the fear of rejection manifesting some psycho babble in my head... Haha.. Things are going well though... For now !
My Wife gets mad if I talk to my Step-Sister in the gym so talking to women in the gym is definitely taboo for me!
Ive pulled chics at the gym before, it has to be a subtle approach. Usually its the chics that come in around the new year that dont need to workout but try and then quit. Lol. They do have some model looking ones that go to my gym, but i just say hi and keep it moving. You cant be like everyother dude with them, you have to have em wondering. Those are the ones you work on slowly, because you know they are serious about their workouts and get talked to on the Regs.
The most beautiful and perfectly built woman I will ever have a chance of getting approached me at the gym but I was actually on a date and couldn't be disrespectful the the girl I was with even though I'm single. She literally threw herself at me.
I think it all has to do with the gym you're at. My gym/club is not a meat market at all. Most there are actually there to workout and not be bothered. People are friendly, but that's about as far as is goes. I love it there, because I am never bothered and I can just bust out what I need to do.
Then again, I'm married and I'm not looking for that, so my view could be skewed....
All the women that work out with me know my wife, so nobody is hitting on me. Otherwise, I'm SURE I'd be drowning in a bowl of MILF.
Same here. My wife works there...lol
StevebYou could go to the gym and hit on your own wife.
I laughed out loud at some of the replies.
I've gotten numbers from at least 10 women in the gym over the last decade and hooked up with several. I'm sure these numbers could be much higher with better game but I usually have one of the best bodies in the gym so I feel that most of these girls should be honored that I'm approaching them. Like many have said, the typical lot is fat, scrawny, skinny fat, ugly. But when there is a hottie in the mix I think they usually like attention from alphas like myself
I have found that those who feel the need to state they are alpha end up not being alpha at all. It is like being cool, if you have to tell people you are cool you actually are not.
AnonThere are two kinds of alphas in this world. One who imposes or talks about his alphaness and the other who is silent but as soon as he walks in no one questions the thought of him being such alpha. Prime example. In a wolf pack one wolf leader made it to the top by being aggressive and making sure the others follow him while the other wolf is silent but is followed loyally. While he is not aggressive by nature he will stand up if he's threatened. I love that anology when people talk about being alpha. Makes you wonder....which one are you?
Hitman187Actually bro believe it or not but woman as a whole are not as picky and all about looks like most guys are. some girls yea that may be whats most important but to the majority no. Theyd rather have aguy who can hold a conversation, make them laugh and stuff like that.
So what are you trying to say here? lol
there is a difference between being egotistical and alpha ;-)
Ray, I can tell you really need to work on your self confidence.
you are right. I didn't mean to come across so egotistical, but I usually do have the best body from a bodybuilding standpoint at the commercial gyms I go to. I would think that attractive women would appreciate it, but perhaps I am out of line.
Dont apologize ray, your posts are awesome.
arrogant much.
I think that the level of self confidence just kinda comes with the juice. I've been making a few house calls for repairs and meeting with realtors and the like. I swear, all these house wives and single moms want to get in my pants.
When I really think about it though, I figure it's probably all in my head.
you call that self confidence I call it egotistical and arrogant with major underlying insecurity .... What happens if he is in a car accident or is disfigured and loses his so called "good' looks? Life just got real fucked up because he bases his self worth and other peoples esteem on his looks. Guess what one day he will be OLD.
self confidence doesn't yieild the kind of thinking that makes one say that someone else should be "honored" by their attentions. Self Confidence yiellds a quite confidence, humbleness and humility that those who are secure about themselves and their own self worth would never consider making such a statement. Such arrogance is a turn off and ruins whatever "looks" he might have. It is rather shallow.
Oh, because women aren't arrogant? Lol
Women dont wear skimpy outfits to the gym for no reason. They do it to get attention and usually to rub it in the face of other women.
StevebWhen they use the leg curl machine and they are face down, everyone stops what they're doing to watch.
or they wear minimum clothing because they are working out and are hot and sweating, just like we wear tank tops. you obviously watch too much porn, the way that came across is that you have issues with women and that you see women as objects.
I don't even own a tank top.
There are a lot of people that use the gym as a fashion show. It has nothing to do with comfort or function.
I didn't say a WORD about MEN in general. If you actually read my post I am referring to the obvious ARROGANT AND EGOTISTICAL comment about how WOMEN should be HONORED to have some so called "HOT" guy bestow is presence on them as if that is the ONLY thing in the world that has imortance... if you think that is self confidence you are sadly lacking in knowledge of people in general. You obviously have an issue with women since you have to speculate about why they wear what they wear to the gym. But, we already knew that you have issues based on your other posts crying about why "hot" women like fat ugly guys...lmao...
So you must wear a full sweat suit to cover yourself up at the gym right? . lol .. I could give a flying leap what they do or don't wear to the gym or in public in for that matter. I could care less if some "hot" guy thinks he is honoring me by talking to me. I m not invested in how something looks ... looks are deceiving...
Amen!
A bunch of bodybuilders that arent superficial or into looks. Thanks for the laugh!
you know absolutely nothing about who I am and that you would presume to know what drives me is quite frankly laughable. I will give you a small hint though ... I am not a body builder ;-)
Massengill...
One can be into looking your best without having a big ego to go along with it. Quiet confidence is far better than loud bravado, imo.
im with you here, it seems this whole "look" thing is taking a new level, i mean i have a misses and she is preety, but im with her for whats on the inside etc, some of the most beautiful souls i have met have been girls who are obese or classed as" less attractive" by society, i dont write somebody off from appearance or looks, you know?
this guy is arrogant, not self confident, im trying to be nice here without putting anyone down, but saying things like "im the best in the gym etc" is just bs, dude, go look in the self picture section and see what people are packing, your a long way from "elite' in the body building world.
honoured? why? coz you got a bit of biceps? does not make you better than girls etc.
I agree with both you.
Lmao..
Baldur2630Lucky people! There are three kinds of girls at my gym, scrawny, obese and the odd few in the middle shouldn't even bother to go.
They are all the same when it comes to exercising. They haven't a clue, they mess around with pointless weights or they workout on the treadmill. Unfortunately it's the skinny ones that workout on the treadmill and the obese and ones in the middle play with big rubber balls, waving one or two kilo dumbbells around.
They aren't at all interested in the men, and the men(?) aren't the slightest bit interested in the women. The men (and I use the word to describe ones without breasts), are also either obese or skin and bones. I'm sure that the majority should be on TRT, and the rest are a joke.
One guy has been going to the gym 4 days per week for almost two years. He benches the same weight now as he did soon after he started - 60 kgs. He does each rep so slowly that one would think he was sleep walking and he NEVER tries to increase the weight on any of his exercises. I asked him one day why he didn't try to push himself. His reply, "I don't want people to think that I find the weight heavy and I don't want people to ever see me fail." He looks the same now as he did when he started.
When one sees women who have zero interest in men they are probably SD or lesbian and men who show zero interest in women either have ED or they are homosexual.
Doctors don't give a shit and people are too embarrassed in this part of Europe to discuss anything related to sex with their doctor, even if they did they would be wasting their time.
Sounds like planet fitness Europe! lol
I don't think most girls want to go to gym and get hit on by guys while they are smelling like sweat and all messed up, plus your meant to be there to train buut little encouragement never hurts anyone.
Baldur2630Most of the guys at my gym never smell of sweat, because they don't do any exercises which might make them smell of sweat. Lying on your back on a mat and raising one leg for 5 secs and then the other one, or doing sorta dumbbell flyes on a mat with nothing in either hand, isn't going to make one sweat.
One of the so-called trainers proudly displays a picture of himself holding a 10 lb dumbbell!
Hmmm... there are women at the gym? ;)
I'm all business at the gym, I go in, handle my biz and get the fuck out.... In fact I've got my "fellow members" trained that if they are feeling social its best not to around me (especially in or around my lifting space) LOL!
My town is over filled with the type of girl who WAS hot in school or college, but couldn't give up that party lifestyle aND now they got a gut and smoke so much they are getting leathery. The gym is really the only place to see good looking women with nice bodies over 25. I haven't ever hit on a girl at the gym, but that's just me. I could have, I have had a few approach me, but I'm a faithful man to my wife. That being said, if I was single, I'd be ok with it if they put in the effort or made the first move, but I respect them putting in their work and let them be.
I met my wife in the gym..... She worked there personal training. I'm not a prize either but I made her laugh and was concerned with her wants and feelings.