Older Woman Younger Man
Since I turned 30 which was nearly 20 decades ago and was newly single again I have not seriously dated one man older than myself. Its not for lack of willingness or desire its just men my own age don't hit on me very often. In fact once I turned 40 I was never hit on by so many men in their 20's and early 30's even when I was in my 20's, and they appear to be getting younger and younger, for instance, two Sunday's ago I was shopping in Shop Rite minding my own business when this young guy in a very Russian accent says "excuse me... you are very beautiful" i'm like thank you that's very sweet of you.. I move along....we meet again in the detergent isle and he asks if he can take me out...i'm like serious??! how old are you 19? he's like NOOO i'm 21! so after running into him in several more isles I give him my # because all his friends were watching didn't wanna embarrass him I figure i'll just let him down easy privately...he texts me for a few days then asks if we can meet and I make an excuse he then says why doesn't he just come over to my house and we can workout and I can skip the gym? and I write back do you mean workout as in sex? and he says yes! i'm like huh what? serious You're 21! he writes back " I thought you wanted IT" I wrote back loose my number
This past Saturday i'm in a local park sunbathing as is everyone else laying on the lawn, once again, minding my own effing business...when I can feel someone looking at me...slowly i turn my head to see this 10 year old boy sitting uncomfortably close to me eating his corn chips when he says hi and I say hi in a pensive voice and he says "you have pretty legs" i'm like thanks I think WTF!! with that I get up to leave and for a moment I felt like that Mean Joe Green commercial. I wanted to turn around and say 'hey kid" and throw him my shorts....
Then there's the 25 year old who I am sleeping with who's kissing me passionately the other night and whispers to me "how turned on are you that i'm 25?" i'm like none at all...i'm only turned on cause you're hot and you seem to have the potential to be really good in bed his response is "i'm so turned on cause you're older than me" i'm like really cause i'm older than you? not because I rock your everlasting world or because you cannot contain yourself around me? no it's because of my numbers!
Even the 25 year old life guards were hitting on me a few weeks ago at the beach...there's no way I look 25 maybe 39 which still puts me at 14 years older than them... so I don't get it what is the obsession with older women and is it all older women or just certain older women...like Elizabeth Hurley is an older women but so is Ellen...i mean if its just about sex and men thinking an older women is more experienced idk if I agree, I have a friend who gives oral sex and her lips bleed...i leave that for you to figure out....
it all about sex or can a real relationship develop and truly sustain itself.
So I know you guys and girls have stories and opinions so please feel free to articulate.
Thank you 
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LMAO!! i'm literally laughing out loud!
i'm waiting for you to come to jersey to sweep me off my feet or at least not accidentally knock me off them!!
mwah mwah mwah miss you Vike
im planning it but that beat up Toyota wont be able to handle me babe............ we will have to walk everywhere or maybe juststay inside
lol
Nice to see you writing essays again about the finer things in life on our what has been lately a slightly hostile board......... bring it babe we need your input to bring back some balance around here
staying i side has its benefits
p.s. im working on an upgrade to maybe a honda ;)
I think it turns us on due to the rarity of women like you. Going out and finding a 20 year old thats hot with a great body is easy. Same goes for a 30 year old. Once you get to 40 and are beautiful, in shape, independent.... This is really attractive to younger men. Something about a beautiful woman that age commands attention once she enters the room. We want to be the guy with our arm around you when that happens...
Wow that was so eloquently put it gave me butterflies ;-)
Im with a cougar... its just a big turn on when an older woman is in better shape than most 20 something year olds, plus the maturity is usually better so theres a lot less bullshit to worry about
OmNom you are def one of my favorite men on eroids...
how much older is she than you?
12 years older... not a huge age gap but I've also been with even older.. I'm not against dating women my age or younger but they are usually more likely to bring unneeded problems than a mature woman would
hmmm that's very interesting...thank you for sharing this with me
I'm married to a milf, god bless'em.
The dude that's been cock blocking me for the last 18 years leaves for college in five days, oh happy day!!
Every time i read that i laugh all over again...my son is 25 now and whenever im with him he cock blocks me!
Yep, they just do it without even trying.
Yo, kid, here's 20 bucks... go see a movie or something.
Congratulations! We have two that are within a year or two of being gone as well. I am happy with my MILF but truthfully I find women my age and even older that are looking great infinitely more attractive than young ladies. It is generally mental as well as physical. Now, back to my porch...
LMFAO!!
The youngsters probably think you'll teach them a thing or two being older ;)
you know. that's the thing ... I don't want to have to teach someone how to do things properly .. and generally speaking ... twenty somethings have NO clue.. none.. nada.. zero.. zip lol
I think 90% of women would be exactly the same as you there.
And I know I had nowhere near the amount of dick control at 25 that I do at 40. The flip side of that is I wanted it ALL the time at 25 and now just most of the time.
Actually the guy im sleepin with has tremedous control almost to the point of it being annoying...one thing for sure older men are wiser and dont say stupid things
umm sure they don't .. lol
Hmmm ya think they think ill teach them or will they "show me"! i was really shocked, and nothing really shocks me, when the 21 year old really thought i wanted to have sex with him...i mean i know men older than him that are intimidated by strong women so i just was stunned that this kid thought he had what it takes to please me lol or maybe he wasn't considering whether "i" would be pleased or not ....that's prob another conversation
If some little girl I mean 21 year old approached me I would have to be the better man knowing that I'm not that type of guy anyways I'd joke with her then just continue on my way.
Seems like you're getting what you want, I saw a hot woman and I mean hot grocery shopping with I assume her elderly mom. This woman was mysterious, could pick you apart with those intimidating eyes. She was dark, tanned skin, black hair wearing a Sun dress and she must have been 40. I'm 39 going on 40 but when I look at younger women I think about their bodies but older woman I'm connected to their faces. Man this lady made me stop for a second and by wearing a dress I couldn't gauge her body which made her that much more special. She was gorgeous my brothers her face was beautiful and had an innocent look but deep down I know this lady was a machine. Some lucky guy hopefully is doing her justice..
Younger women like to show off their bodies in the gym in the workplace, every thing is tight fitting which I truly love but I like a woman who is the exact opposite. Yes I like it younger woman when you're putting it out there and I'm going to take a peek here and there but that woman who never is so revealing is the Mona Lisa of them all.
I personally like older women. I mean a woman is so perfect in her being and attentive to the society that we live in. Don't get me wrong some older women dress like their 25 wearing tight revealing gear and some younger women do dress a bit more conservative. Maybe I'm just a conservative but I don't think that I wouldn't date anyone less than 35 with me being 39. I look at some young women and all I see them in a sexual sense and I know that there's no way in hell that the young lady could handle what I'm providing, I don't want to be the one. However a older woman now that's a passionate thought that grows in curiosity by the second.
You can do what you like, whatever tickles your fancy. Just know that some older guys are looking for you and appreciate the maturity factor. I mean folks have to get along no matter when getting to know one another first and foremost in my opinion
I'm just trying to figure out what goes on in a guys head that he even attempts to hit on a substantially older women why does he think he could even satisfy her sexually, intellectually or emotionally...i'm just gonna go with its basically all what goes on in their fantasies like one of the guys said below. This article isn't exclusive to me this happens to most of my friends too.
I think a lot of younger guys are misguided in their thoughts that most older women want a younger guy and that it may somehow be easier to obtain sex . Also i think they feel if they are with a older women it can be just a sexual relationship and not have to deal with "dating" and taking her out, buy things, stuff they would have to do if they were dating someone their own age.
Their after someone to fuck and mother them. I believe some older women are also looking to mother a younger man, even if they may not realise it at the time. I've been with a few older women, the mothering thing comes natural for some, it has its good points like they like to keep you well fed lol.
Lmao! that's because they learned how to cook from raising their own kids
Most of it has to do with exposure psychologically with all the porn these kids see with MILFs and cougars in our day and age, simple as that. Then you have the older women who look for younger men for their vigor and vitality. Believe me they're out there in numbers and hungry lol. I dated a few older women in my 20s and early 30s and it wasn't me that was aggressive or coming on to them. I think some of these young guys in their immaturity get a taste of first blood with an older women and they think a lot of women that age are looking for a younger man, so that gives them the idea to make the initiatives and advances toward them. It's our modern society so adjust and get that fuck off sign on your forehead if it's not your thing.
hmmm I can definitely see you're point
So...what's your friend's number?! (I kid)
Lmao!
Guys want to bang.
I think it's the novelty of the idea that is emotionally and sexually arousing. Kinda like when you're a school kid and you have the hot teacher. Lol. Plus, when it comes to sex, for me, it better not be dull. No one wants dull sex, unless their rubbing wieners... So, we're naturally attracted to which ever features or characteristics that we perceive as yielding that particular outcome of dull-less sex.
As for your question, i think it really depends on the people involved. When I met my wife, it was purely about sex. Things clicked eventually and it developed. She's 8 years younger than me, btw.
And I'm sure if you were sunbathing, you had a lot more than just a 10 year old watching you. ;)
hmmm interesting about the wife & you starting off as just sex and now you're married...
The chemistry was there and things began to click.
Also you raise another point; ok so you say it's like when ur a kid and you have a crush on the teacher...what is it that goes on in a little boys mind...he's definitely not thinking sex at 8, 9, 10 so what is he thinking?
Trying to keep it between the lines here... Been a while since I was a kid but I remember thinking about sex at quite an early age.. My dad might have left the tv on the wrong channel when I was young. Idk... But in general, I was referring the whole concept of guys liking older women. Not really the 10 year old perv you had stalking you. Lol
Oh the crazy life of a Cougar. Lol
You go girl!
well one thing for sure is I have the best stories lol
I'm kind of interested in hearing some of your stories.
hunteron20sYounger guys have no respect ..im 33 and I dont talk to girls that direct straight up ..older guys are either married or bitter from a divorce etc.avoid the young dumb asses and you will be just fine ..
lol ok
hunteron20sThe art of getting sex or a girl has just fell off .they are lazy and effort sux so bad.they can get what they want if they were smoother I would have yo say ..there disease spreaders lol