+ 7 Red Flags in Girls
Dear Bros,
I am all about helping a brother out in life. I want you to succeed. I want you to be a badass. I want you to live a rich and full life.
Unfortunately, most people around you want you to fail, because they measure themselves against you. Even those who you may consider to be your close friends want you to fail. Why? Because they think that if you are failing, they are succeeding. They think if you are winning, they are failing. This is a loser mentality in life. If you carry that mentality, you are likely a loser. It’s ok to change.
Work to win for you. Make others around you win. When you win and others around you win, you are a true winner.
I started this post because I want you to win in life.
To succeed in life, a highly critical decision that you will likely make, is who you choose to be with. One must make the correct decision on the right girl. A bad decision on the wrong girl could ruin your life.
I want to make this thread about red flags in girls.
I have been around a long time. I have been with shitty women, and I have been with good women. Of course, they have always been smoking hot.
Here are a few surefire red flags in girls. If your girl has these red flags…you might take it for what it is and move along quickly.
The selfish bitch. This is a hidden red flag that very few men discover right off the bat. When they do, it’s usually too late. Watch how she carries herself. Does she help others? When you talk with her, does she only talk about herself? Does she have any interest in you and your life. Does she notice if you aren’t doing well? Does she look for ways to make you happy? If the girl you are with is self centered or a narcissist, run like hell. With this red flag, it’s also good to do some self reflection. Are you a selfish bitch? In this world of muscles, weights, and testosterone, it is damn easy to become very self centered and very narcissistic. Be careful and always take time to self reflect. Be careful with your compounds. I’ve seen it over and over, especially with Tren., tren can be narcissistic personality disorder in a bottle.
The TikTok girl. If your lady spends more than 10 minutes per day on TikTok live looking into her phone bra-less with her titties popping out through her shirt for a bunch of old men saying: “thank you for the roses” over and over while the 50 year old Simps jerk off to her and tell her she’s pretty…that’s a red flag. The flags get even more red when she steps it up to clapper and onlyfans. Stay away from those bitches. They are bad news. Did you know that if your girl is an Onlyfans girl, she is 29 times more likely to kill you in your sleep? (No Homo Guidebook, Volume 39). That’s right kids. Don’t be with a woman who will kill you in your sleep.
The girl that won’t let you be a man. I’m old fashioned. I’m of the opinion that when it’s all said and done, it’s the man’s job to put food on the table, protect the home, and keep shit running. I think it brings balance. One needs balance in the home. Take responsibility and be a bro that puts the food on the table. It’s ok if your lady works if she wants to work, but when shit goes down, the buck needs to stop with you. You own that. If you own that, you’ll feel better about yourself and your girl will have a deeper respect for you. Find a girl that will let you be the man of the house if you want to be the man of the house. Don’t expect to be the man of the house if you aren’t willing to own all of the manliness. Does that make sense? Life can be complicated when you have two masters of the house. No homo. Some complicated men can handle it. I’m not that complicated.
The girl with the “Best Guy Friend”. Your girl shouldn’t need any more man than you. The “best guy friend” situation is bullshit. There is no such thing as a bro that is best friends with a hot girl who is just in it for the emotional support. We all know that “best guy friend” has the ultimate goal of banging your chick. He is there playing the long game, waiting for you to mess up. He is waiting to be that man who she can turn to when you do something stupid. He doesn’t respect you. There is a chance that you have likely been that best guy friend. You know exactly what I mean. She will deny it; but Deep down…she knows it too and she loves it. If she really respects you. She’ll kick that clown to the curb.
Those are a few red flags that I think it’s good to look for in a girl. What are some of your red flags?
All my love, no homo
Ed
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This guy basically went down the line and to summarize
Stay away from Borderlines and narcissists , pretty packages come with pretty consequences,
If your mother has BPD chances are all you’ll attract in life are women with BPD, subconsciously trying to find that love and comfort mom couldn’t give you in some hot piece of pussy.
I slap tinder hard when I do, I pay for it and it sounded corny but it got me laid without any of these problems in above post speaking about ..
My wife has BPD. It's so much fun
They’re so predictable though, they are loyal as fuck as long as you fit they’re predetermined formula, plus they fuck like animals
Vanilla sex with a college girl or buttplug play with a 38 year old BPD mom with five kids ?
Bloody Hell mate - and then you have to deal with Female Hormone moods on top of that??!!! You must be a man of patience LMAO
If your girl has a "man best friend" then that means you and all her ex boyfriends have been the "other guy" this whole time and that dude has been the "main guy" and you have been fooled.
Ahh in psychology we call this the “primary” and secondary source,
This comes with cluster b covert and malignant narcissism.
This isn’t as common as BPD, today it’s instilled through social media, and use males have anti social traits, I have anti social traits
There’s a slim chance of me dragging a neurotypical through my bullshit anymore , it’s tempting though sometimes, pretty girl, no daddy issues, she’s smart she’ll run away
People think he is the side dude. Nope, if he been there through all her boyfriends they and you are the side dude and she been banging him for years and will continue after you
Yeah I figured I was the young side dude, I just accepted it until I flipped the script, she was withholding sex when I was on my first cycle, wasn’t gonna stand for that , the back and forth the head games while I’m staying faithful, I wound up acting really dumb at the time time of 24 sticking around with a women who was already established.
Lies though, hooked on prescription diet pill speed, that’s mine now, smacked regretted it for a bit and haven’t seen her since , I guess it’s a blessing being the younger handsome side piece
Nothing wrong with being the side piece. I tell them dont dump your boyfriend or husband because i aint wining and dining you. You want to still get flowers and cards then keep your man lol
Yes, when knowingly
When the woman has a Best Guy friend it normally means one of two things - Either she is thick as fuck and doesn't realize what the guy is up to (bad news for you) or she knows exactly what he is up to and loves the attention (he will get the phone call when you both fall out). Its normally accompanied with that other Red warning flag phrase of 'I just don't get along with other women, they are just so bitchy. Guys aren't like that, they are always really nice' ....
AK80Not being honest, spending money from a joint account and not saying anything, still talking to guys that came before you. Some things you will never find out about, some things are very obvious and the stuff in between we might just be wrong about sometimes. There's ways to figure things out and always know, but it's sometimes considered illegal.
You never get a joint account with a gf. If you're married it's cool to get an account you both put money into to pay the bills. But you should still both keep separate accounts with the majority of your funds. Get your own credit cards too. There's just too many stories out there of women who know they're checking out running up the credit cards and draining all the shared bank accounts to not take it seriously.
wife and i keep our money seperate. hers is hers mine is mine. We have a joint account for the kids schooling. Both agreed on a $$$ amount to put in each month and we leave it there.
We just split the bills. You take these bills I take the others.
Anyone that says marriage isn't a business is wrong.
I'll add a few of my own.
Waving her titties on tik tok for attention isn't cool and not the kinda girl that's good for anything other than a bit of fun IMO. But does she spend tons of time on social media in general? Comparison is the killer of happiness. If she spends tons of time online looking at the wonderful lives of others she's probably going to start feeling unhappy about whatever it is you bring to the table unless you're bringing the literal world. I'm not saying no social media at all. But pay attention to what she uses it for.
Does she or her friends tolerate cheating in others? Because if they do you're just asking to get cheated on.
Are her friends a bunch of single party girls? Because if they are they aren't going to be happy with their bff no longer going out to the clubs, getting drunk and flirting with guys. It's a pretty common occurrence for women to intentionally try to destroy another relationship if it takes them away from the group or because they're jealous she found a guy and none of them have. If all her friends are in long term relationships or married on the other hand that's green flag.
Make yourself the priority here. As soon as you can't walk away your fucked. If you put that girl on a pedestal and treat you like a queen she will eventually start seeing you as beneath her. Love yourself more than you love your gf. Don't tolerate bs. Doesn't matter how good of a girl you have she will shit test you at some point just to see your reaction. The second she stops respecting you is the second she starts looking for that next dude to swing too. If she pulls some bs that you wont tolerate then just walk. There's no such thing as "the one". There are 4 billion women out there. You're going to be compatible with lots of them. There's no such thing as a relationship that just works. You both have to put in the work long term. If one of you isn't you're going to have a bad time.
To follow up on that you need to be a man of your word. If you say if you do X i'm going to do Y then fucking do it. "If you go to that rave with all your friends dressed like that we're done". You'll get called controlling and insecure. You aren't telling her what she can or can't do. You're telling her what you're going to do. What you're willing tolerate. If your girl wants to act like she's single then let her be single. That's not the kind of girl you want anyways.
Unless you start out in an open or poly set up then any combination of words that mean "i want to open the relationship" is the second your relationship is over. If she's asking she's either already sleeping with someone else and looking to make her cheating ok or she already has someone lined up and ready to go. Unless you're the ultimate Giga Chad she's going to have a way easier time finding other partners. But the countdown until she moves on has already started. Have some god damn self respect and just break it off.
Don't give up the things in life that make you happy when you get in a relationship. We've all done it. Stop hanging out with the boys, stop spending time on your hobbies, etc. All so you can spend more time with her. Next thing you know she's the only thing in your life and you're no longer the man she wanted o be in a relationship with.
I say al this as a guy who wants to be in a relationship. I'm no woman hater. I find life is better with the right partner in it. But if you don't take the time to put the work in to yourself first you're probably never going to end up with that great girl you wish you had. Put yourself first. People always tell you to just be yourself and the right person will come along eventually. That's utter bullshit. Spend the time, money and effort into making yourself the best version of yourself and you'll find yourself with plenty of options to try and find that partner.
If you guys want stories on the kinda shit that you need to watch out for i really enjoy the strong successful male youtube channel. He's got a couple other channels too but you can start with the main one.
Beautifully written bro.
If she has a dick, that's usually a big red flag.
Yeah, but is it a deal breaker?
Yeah I just couldn’t take that
Then why do you keep including tranny porn with every order?
He means the dick just can’t be bigger than his
Dude must be hung like a horse if he's bigger than the ones he's sending in his packages! Good for Unc.
anvilHung like a horse....I thought this was disproven and that a horse weighs 1000lbs , and average penis size of 20inches. That would be equal to a 250lb man having a 5 inch cock. Horses are hung poorly my friend, unless you feel 5inches is a strong size.
The origin of this phrase is from the Bible. Ezekiel 23:20 "There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses."
5" is right in the middle of the average for western men. But i was more inferring he must literally be hung like a horse. Not hung in the ratio of a horse.
Why are we spending so much time talking about Uncs dick anyways?
anvilCause he's proud of it?
Why wouldn’t we be? I bet it tastes like candy just like his pills
Depends if you’re speaking on relative size or absolute size.
I've just taken some DBol tabs sublingual for the first time EVER!! Lmao
After about 30 seconds its like shit - where did they go??! Does it not make the underneath of the tongue sore after a while?
I always felt dry or velvety feeling. Idk if I would say sore. You mean like bruised/tender sore? Maybe you were practicing your cunnilingus technique very aggressively on that pill
Its fine atm, but I can imagine if you were doing it everyday then it may become tender like a sore throat after a while. Are we sure this method doesn't cause fuckin tongue cancer or something similar like smoking does??!!!! LMAO Absorbing anabolic steroids through the tongue!!
Probably a few more years before definitive conclusions come out about that. I know that all the major manufacturers offer medications that can be taken that way, “sublingually”. I think they also use the buccal tissue inside the cheeks as well. As long as it can dissolve into tissue hitting all the nerve endings, should be safe? Right?
Let's Hope Buddy!!
Only reason I have just tried it is because I keep seeing more and more articles on it, and about how its supposed to mean you absorb more mg of the tablet and the fact its better for your stomach, liver and oesophagus. In effect - meaning its like taking injectable Dbol?
I was expecting there to be some kind of residue still under the tongue or something, so are we saying all of that membrane is permeable and just lets any fine powder through it?
The point about bypassing the liver is really interesting. I didn’t think about that too deeply tbh. The theory makes sense but,….
I think it definitely depends on the compound/substance. Some medications have coatings meant for the stomach like time release capsules or whatever it is but I know that there are certain types of “film” or pills that are meant to be put under the tongue. I would say similar to an acid tab(never took any), but similar concept. I know one time I took an allergy tab or something at a medical office. They told me to put it under my tongue and it was gone in about 2 seconds. It was like talking an air pill.
For sure, there are some tabs produced by UGL's that it would never work with - they are so hard pressed and binded that they would still be under your tongue next week LMAO The tooth breakers ....
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Hey hey for some it might be. And for others win win