Hey buddy I just came across your post and I think everyone has answered your questions well. You asked for other people that have been in your situation. On that note, I am very qualified to put in my two cents and hopefully help you if you haven't already spoken to your lady. Two years ago I knew something was wrong with my health. I was exhausted all the time, had no desire, was gaining weight even though I was training like an animal like usual. I knew the problem was my testosterone from all the things I did when I was younger. I didn't cycle or take anything from 25 to 30. I decided to do a cycle instead of going to the doctor. Like you would expect I felt amazing and like myself again. You think she doesn't know but she does know something is different. I was the guy she met all those years before. Women are way more in tune with their emotions and yours. About half way through my cycle my wife asked me what I was doing to get such drastic changes in my body and demeaner. I was caught off guard and didn't want to lie but I didn't want to open up about something I never spoke to anyone about. I told her I was taking these new over the counter supplements called SARMs and they were working great. She was happy for me and told me the changes were great. I felt awful because I had never lied to her and I am also terrible at lying. It was eating me up inside but I thought I was close to finishing the cycle by that time and it would be behind us. Unfortunately she went looking for a toiletry product in my bathroom and found everything. When she confronted me I was caught red handed and even though I was trying to backpeddle I had broke her trust and her heart over something so insignificant. It took a lot of coming clean and communication to get her to forgive me. The worst part is that loss of trust seeps in to all other aspects of your relationship. My wife never questioned anything I told her because I am so decisive and open, but then she started wondering about other women and if I was lying about everything. My previous business I sold was very busy late night. Everyone knows that atmosphere with booze and whatever else. Before that there would be no question about my intentions in anything, but after it would always creep in her mind. It took me being even more candid and proving myself over these past two years to repair things. It is making me emotional just writing about it. Things are much better now but every once in a while the fact I lied to her still rears its ugly head. It is over something so silly to lie about that a crack was put in the flawless glass that is our relationship. Now I have all the splinters taped up and fixed but you might not be able to. If she is for life she is obviously different to you than all the others. My wife is so awesome we have dinner coversation about my next cycle lol. Being honest with her is the most powerful statement you can make about what your doing. Educate her and validate her perspective. Hopefully after you read this you do the Damn thing and treat your Angel to the truth. There are to many crazies out there on both sides, so if you found the one hold on and don't let go. I am going to go upstairs in the gym and hug my boo while she is doing cardio. My two cents

Mate tell her. If she can't handle it then it's her problem. Let's be honest here if she loves you the she loves all of you and that includes your gear taking.

Should you tell her ??

Look what could happen if you don't.

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Absolutely nothing to gain by telling her. I'm sure she has plenty of secrets too. Women are full of secrets.

Hide nothing with your spouse. A clear conscience plays a huge roll in the quality of relationship you both have. Both take into consideration eachothers opinions and work together to find common ground.

You especially want to put all your cards on the table before you marry. You want her to do the same. You both need to know exactly who it is you are marrying. If one or the other leaves bits and pieces out it makes it hard to grow together as a couple. As you or her would and could be stuck still finding out who it is you actually married. Getting nowhere in the levels of emotional bond marriage brings about through the years.

Basically tell your woman bro, they are very good at noticing when you aren't giving all of yourself to them...that spells problems...knuckles

Be honest. You should tell her. If you two plan on having kids someday..you should take that into consideration as well. Better that she knows.

Like I posted prior, depends on the chick. I dated a girl for a few months that knew I was on, and she didn't care one way or the other. Had an ex that called me once and confronted me about gear and we weren't even together anymore! If she is that down on weed, I would assume she isn't going to dig juice.

How long have you guys been together, and have you been using gear the entire time (aka keeping that a secret since day 1) of did you start after being together for x amont of months or years? Just wondering.

But if she thinks weeds bad I hope she thinks alcohol is 100 times worse. Can't ever tell you a Timr where weed tore a family apart cause dad was being abusive when he was stoned and all laid back and hungry and laughing watching tv, and then lost his job etc etc. but I can recall many first hand experiences where alcohol destroyed families, made people abusive, lost their jobs, ruined their kids, killed people driving because alcohol fucks you up so much worse then weed. Just cause something legal doesn't make it right, alcohol is a mind altering drug just like all the worst. Look at cigarettes being legal when they're known to give people cancer, heart problems etc. if you can juice, ( assuming your level headed and not an idiot) if she drinks I would make a huge fucking deal about that, huge. And list everything I just stated and then some. How can weed be the Devils lettuce when it had medical purpose? I don't even smoke but I feel strongly about the stigma attached to it. Where's alcohols medicinal purpose? Drink yourself into oblivion to forget you're ruining your life? I know some proof do it responsibly but still, I know many responsible weed smokers and I was one up until about 4 years ago.

Yea brother be honest. Let her know it's bot as bad as it sounds and that these drugs are prescribed to individuals suffering from cancer and hiv and that you just use them to keep a healthy lifestyle lol. Thats how i explained it to my wife.

Does she even lift, bro? Seriously though...you have two choices...to tell, or not to tell....both have consequences....both deal with trust...and both deal with commitment....it is up to you to make the choice....do you think she can keep your business under her hat? Your issue is about presentation and how important YOUR well being is in comparison to the relationship. If you need test, then see a doc and get it prescribed. She cant argue with that concept. Everybody is not perfect...and everybody is a sinner...imo

You need to tell her, I just read this to my fiance and she i would be so fucking pissed off at you if I just found out you use gear, " like so pissed we would not be engaged anymore" Weve been together along time now, hence the engagement, so it would mean i was hiding it for a long long long time. But my dumbass would have gotten caught long before lol.

Its about trust, and never keeping secrets from each other and she will feel so betrayed if she found out now. My fiance asked me like 3 days into us talking, the day we met we spent everyday together till this day, so by day 3 after seeing my body she asked, and I denied, she let me go this time but like 2 days later when we were out to dinner she asked me again and said im not gonna be mad, its kinda obvious, but i am gonna be mad if a month or a year down the line i find some shit in your room. So i just told her. There was no way i could hide it, having a full mini fridge full of hgh and peps and hcg and shit right in my bedroom. And I didnt wanna hide it, constantly wondering if she found something if she ever called my name with a different tone. Most girls I would wait atleast idk 6 months or so to tell just to make sure its serious, last thing you want is to tell someone day one and find out 2 weeks later theyre just not for you but they know your secret, but I knew this girl was the one, still was a little risky but she woudlnt let up, I think at first i told her I had doctor prescribed test (which wasnt a lie) and gh (that was a lie) as I was cruising at the time, still just to be safe and then i just slowly let her in on it all.

In all honestly I know its running gear is fun, helps you blast through plateaues you never could naturally, crazy strength, levels of conditioning extremely hard to attain without using it. But if she told me It was a deal breaker Id give it up. Ive been single with all the gear and gh in the world just eating sleeping and training and this lifestyle is much more enjoyable, and alot less lonely, having that person you can always rely on, your other half. If day one she said no gear id probably laugh, but if she proved worthy id quit in a heart beat.

Hiding a 500mg ew test cycle with two pins ew would be nothing, still i would advise against it, but tryingt to hide a cycle with ed eod pins with shots of gh daily and igf-1 plus orals, ais, dopamine agonists etc, that would be next to impossible to keep alll the timing correct.

I totally understand you bro. I was in the same situation 5 years a go when I met my wife. She was so against steroids, I had to hide all my gear. She used to went ballistic if I even mentioned considering using some gear once in a while. Long story short... 5 years went by, she is getting ready for her first bikini contest, 12 weeks out, she has been on primobolan for while, just ordered anavar and hgh for her cos she was begging for it She is in the best shape of her life and she says she would like to stay on cycle forever Not trying to tell you that your fiancée should go on gear, just want you to know, that things can change, give your fiancée some time, she will realise that the gear is not so bad thing. As long as you treat your lady with respect and you are nice to her then I think you both will be fine

Depends on the woman...I never told.

If you are seriously thinking about marrying her then you should discuss it with her, especially since it might have an impact on increasing the size of your family in the future