posted Sun, 03/13/2016 - 15:07
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Do I tell my fiancée I use gear?
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So I'm 6 weeks into a cycle and my fiancée has no clue I use gear. I hate keeping secrets, but damn... She thinks weed is the devils lettuce! I have to pin early in the morning when she sleeps or when she thinks I'm going to take my morning glory. Should I risk her finding out or do I tell her? Who's been in this situation? Thanks bro's.
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My wife found out by finding my stash and old syringes. Hah. At first she had he typical stereo type that most people have on steroids. After some time, and her I guess learning she is totally cool with it. Which is great cause now I can just open up my stash and grab what ever I need without worrying if her seeing it. Life is deff better if your spouse knows brother.
bigmurphIf you don't tell her when she finds your stash one day she might become your ex wife atleast talk about it with her before you get married. Don't go into marriage with secrets the person you marry should love and understand you for who you are.
Have the talk so you don't end up divorced
I told my now wife about a year ago at about the same time we got engaged. It was bound to come up, just a matter of when. I told her the back story (which I won't bore anyone with) and reasons why I decided to use. I told her that for the near future I'd continue to use. However, I did let her know that if problems arose from my use, such as my behavior or health, I'd place my relationship with her ahead of my decision to continue using. I was comfortable with her discretion about my personal life before I broached the topic. Needless to say, she was very accepting of it. In fact, today she helped me pick out a new storage container to put all my gear in :p****. Either way, I think it will be hard to hide once you get married. It would be impossible for me.
Yes. Especially if you plan on running cycles for the foreseeable future. Secrets can cause serious problems down the road.
I waited about a year to tell my wife, the part that really pissed her off was waiting the whole fuckin year to tell her.
You will fuck up eventually and then she will be more upset that you didnt tell her. Be honest with her now and explain aas use and how safe it can be if done correctly. Some guys on here told their spouse and the spouse would give them the shot. Keeping secrets never pays and it always comes out.
I do agree with you.
Hahha your name cracks me up man. The beautiful DD214!
I want too. She deserves the truth. I just gotta man up and grab these shrunken testicals and tell her. I gotta have a plan of action to bring the issue up for sure.
have her sit down with you and watch the documentary bigger faster stronger
That's how I did it. After a while she was so cool she did a cycle of var and hgh. She was a former Coke head though lol
If you plan on spending the rest of your life with her I would tell asap,could lead to a lot of headaches and heartaches for both of you,imagine the look on her face if she walked in on you pinning.that just my opinion
JoneDoeBro tell her this is about to be your wife. How do you think she will feel if she found out on her on or what if she found out after you get married she's gone to feel like you where hiding it from her. Be up front with everything just like you would want her to be. My wife new before we got married and she was cool with it. Also what if you tell her and she not cool with it think about the hell you would of went threw if you told her after you got married.