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Nitti
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A little humility?

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I'm seeing something around here that's becoming all too common. People with superiority complexes. Obviously this is just a part of human nature. And just like in any other community or society, eroids has different demographics and groups of people who fit into a category. It's supposed to be a community of sharing knowledge and experience with some level of comradery, and in most cases it is. You see everyone sharing and helping each other out. People posting pics when it took every ounce of courage they had to hit that save button. They get all the support and encouragement from their eroidian brothers and sisters that they need to push forward and not relent. You see it in the forums, cycles, diets etc. But you also get the douche bags. Usually young, in pretty good shape and feeling good about themselves (as they should). But the minute they feel like they are being challenged at all, they immediately get defensive and passive aggressively belittle the person they're interacting with. Talk shit about their pics, about how stupid their cycle plan is, how old they are, how light weight they are, how little experience they may have etc. It's a little bit ridiculous. While they may very well be physically superior to others, they believe that its the only thing that's important. Don't get me wrong, i am extremely health conscious and take excellent care of myself so I understand that. But I don't weigh 200lbs. I can't bench 405lbs. Does that make me you any better than me? Because you can lift more? Or might look better than the next guy? Fuck no! truth is what you have is an inferiority complex. Maybe someone called you names in school because they were smarter than you and it made you feel small so you decided to get big. Maybe you got your ass kicked a lot and you needed to feel big to compensate. I don't care what the reason is, it's dumb. If you are truly superior, then why the need to defend your superiority? You being bigger or stronger than another man doesn't make you any better. Everyone is good at something right? So you may kill me on stage but even tho you out weigh me by 50lbs, I would light you the fuck up in a fight! You think im gonna stand there and let you lift me mufukr? Does that make me better? Fuck no! Why the need to make others feel small? Whether it's insulting their intelligence or their physique or age,...whatever! Why? Does that make you feel like a big man? It makes you a fuckin coward! What ever happened to humility? It is possible to find a balance between confidence and humility ya know! Everyone isn't on the same level with anything around here. I don't care if its age, cycle experience, physique, intelligence, skill set. We are all unique and all of us together make community great! It isn't a bodybuilding site. It's an AAS site. TRT guys, Power lifters, fighters, average joe who wants to look good naked. Nobody is better than the next man! The minute you start acting like you are, it just shows how truly inferior you feel. So the next time a guy who may have a little more experience or has razor sharp wits disagrees with you and makes a valid point, chalk it up and learn from it. Everone won't get along but who gives a shit? What the next guy eats doesn't make you shit! None of us knows everything or we wouldn't be here. Learn from each other. Take what you can and pass it along. You're forgetting what BFG had in mind when he made this site. Lets try to keep the integrity of our site in tact! None of us are better than the next guy/gal

Nitti's picture

Very well put

TeaBody's picture

Damn I'm glad you said it... You and Destructos have been kicking the crap out if each other, at first I thought you guys knew each other and were busting balls but then it got a little personal and didn't end.

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Nitti's picture

As it should be