posted Sat, 05/02/2026 - 05:27
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+ 8 Have you told anyone you're on PEDS ?
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Hi everyone on Eroids!
I was just wondering if anyone has told their loved ones, family members, or spouse that you're on steroids.
I haven't told anyone and don't feel comfortable doing so. I'm just worried I'll be severely judged for it. I can't tell my doctor because I'm afraid he'll flag me as a risky patient and my insurance will go up.
I can't tell my family because none of them would understand. I can't tell my close friends because they'll judge me or talk about me behind my back.
I'm just curious if anyone has disclosed their steroid use to someone and how that conversation went.
Much love and respect! I love this community and how we look out for each other!
Kind regards,
Em
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Hey man, good topic. This is how it has played out for me...I just went on TRT with a clinic. They prescribed 200mg a week of test c and eventually 100mg nandrolone when I asked. I am open about that with anyone that brings up the subject. With that amount, I can cruise on 140mg or so a week, save up some and bump it up to 400mg for a mini blast cycle without ever running out. My body has obviously changed dramatically - I am 56 now and had not lifted since mid 30's when I started lifting again and sought out TRT at 54.
I also explored other sources for better variety / strategies and prices, but I keep the script going and don't openly discuss other vendors and compounds. Keeps the family from worrying and answers why I am getting so jacked - I mean other than working out like a lunatic, eating right and sleeping like it's my job.
Hi everyone !
I just wanted to thank everyone for sharing ! It was very cool to see everyone's different point of view. I didn't expect this many answers to my question !
Much love and respect! I love this community and how we look out for each other!
Kind regards,
Em
My whole family knows man. I'll sometimes do my TDs at my parents place when I'm trying out a new source lol. Wherever the conversation calls for it I'll just be upfront about it. Mostly because a lot of the people complimenting my physique, I always try to redirect them. If someone throws a compliment my way I'll literally just say "thanks, it's the gear." I do that because I wouldn't want them to have a false reality and develop body dysmorphia over it.
I've yet to have anyone actually get upset besides my sister, she now no longer believes what I'm doing is considered TRT and thinks it's straight PED use, which is funny because she was the one doing my injections when I first started since she's a nurse. She's just upset that I'm doing daily injections rather than infrequent, I'm still on TRT lol. Started off with a prescription obviously then went the UGL route due to pricing. But yeah, parents know, sisters know, gym girls know. If it comes up naturally in conversation I'll bring it up, I really don't care, it's who I am, but I don't go out of my way to say it.
I don't go into heavy detail with most people though. I'll maybe geek out a little about esters, explain the difference between prop and cyp, why I'd use one for a cut versus a bulk, stuff like that. But if you're a close friend you already know, especially because the transformation has been pretty hard to ignore. Most gym goers who've seen me from the start probably have their assumptions already.
But yeah, if you don't want to tell anyone then don't. No judgment here, I don't care either
Jrihard89I’m pretty open, I just don’t care if people cry judge or get mad.
If you ask I’ll say so. But I won’t go around. Telling
Everybody is different, lotta people are open about their cycles. I'd suggest telling someone though just so you have someone to talk about it with. Do you have anybody in the gym that you workout with frequently?
You sound like you worry a lot.
I don’t get into details of what besides trt and peptides the rest is none of their business. Guys on the soccer field said “man those roids are paying off” I said it was just “tiger balm“ I laughed they laughed but funny enough the didn’t fuck with me on the field as a defender…
I see you were born in 95. It's lovely as you get older and really quit giving a shit about people judging you or talking behind your back. I just assume they do anyway and it doesn't bother me one bit
My grandfather always said "You'll worry less about what people think about you when you realize how seldom they do"
Isn’t that the truth… my old man used to tell me, “son, no one gives a fuck… and if they do, lions don’t care about the opinions of sheep. Now quit whining and let’s go” hahahha
Sounds like a wise man
Ya as you age you lose the worry ability. You just go and live life the way you want.
It’s just trt or hrt bud… for me
It went from trt to oh I found out I needed my GH levels up as well so now I’m in an HRT protocol cough… Tren… cough…. Maste cough…. HRT LOL
I’ve heard people rumble. I usually am honest when asked and say I’m on peptides (Reta and HGH) and TRT+. I’ve been prescribed test and nandrolone and the primo is just a safer AI imo. My wife knows I use trt, nan and peptides so she’s the only one that needs to know.
I’m getting too old to give a fuck what other people think anyways.
Yep. You hit a age and you live the life you want without worries.
If you have to tell them your doing something wrong..lol
Yea if there not asking about ur training I agree
Like i told Aggie below, black jacked guys never have to worry because if you got muscles and tattoos everyone just assumes you spent time at Rikers Island or alcatraz and last thing on their mind is you are on steroids. But id rather be suspected being juiced than for being an ex felon lol
Joking of course….
I mean every jacked black tattooed guy
Has every black guy u see I assume they were in prison….
Thats why we are never suspected of steroids lol. Even tattoos. "Are those jail tats?" Black people go to tattoo shops too and gyms
Lol your bro ... That's a great point I've never heard a black man been accused of juicing like by average folk theres a built in default ... It's the stereotype of superior genes from hard life and I'm sure if that's true or not seems like it but ya it's dang I wish I had those genes bro run that 40.dunk a ball be well endowed have big muscle all white women secretly have a fetish for you never get accused of juicing so I guess where do I sign up to change my skin color
Joking if course but there's truth I was trying to get at I guess or maybe I'm a bigot I hope not
It's always a white person asking isn't it lol only the wife knows I'm taking testosterone and a few peptides.
I’ve told my primary physician, my cardiologist, my wife, my coworkers, my boss, Garandthumb, and a gym bro. Another gym bro just knows and I’m sure quite a few more are suspicious.
The conversations were easy and if they judged me I just don’t care. I had to develop that I don’t care what you think mentality before losing my natty card just to be prepared for when it was becoming undeniably obvious. I hit that point a little while ago.
I don’t think anyone cares. Most of the gym girls all talk about the fake boobs they want so I know they don’t have any room to talk or judge anyone for artificial enhancement.
Everyone has been super supportive.
I’m not sure if my family besides my wife knows or suspects anything and my wife is running some gear too so she’s more than supportive lol.
Hell I ran tren up to 500mg and asked my wife and coworkers if they noticed and behavioral changes….mood swings, irritability, etc…they were all shocked when I told them I worked my way up to 500mg tren because there was literally no behavioral changes they noticed whatsoever but I’m a chill guy unless I’m hungry and even then I control my anger. As a former smoker I’ve dealt with processing anger and irritability so it’s just a mind over matter thing I’ve pretty much mastered but I wouldn’t have had any outside input if I was keeping my ped use a secret. It’s great to have a support group like that.
I tell my wife every thing and inject her peptides for her she lets me know if my mood/anger gets out of hand she’s been cool with it
Same bro, mine has come a long way. Today I showed her the tren I got an she goes “Hell yeah she can’t wait” talkin about her pussy bc imma diving in it repeatedly.
I have a core group of 5 or 6 real tight friends for over 30 years that know and to a large extent. I wanted to share how positive of an impact TRT was having and wished someone had put it on my radar earlier. They have a greater understanding of the + in TRT+ now.
Same with a sibling whom would be presented with some interesting vials and bottles in the event of my untimely death. Said sibling is now in the peptide game, achieving gainz.
Moms and other family know about the TRT and Reta, and I selectively share reta and hgh use with some family or friends.
My wife knows I take Testosterone and HGH. She doesn't know or ask about any other compounds, but I'm sure she suspects it and just doesn't ask.
When coworkers ask what the hell I'm taking (my physique has changed drastically, especially for a 40 year old guy), I tell them "everything", laugh, and they usually just ask "trt?" And I'll reply, yes.
I most certainly have. Most of the people that are in my life I trust. Also, anyone I ever talk to about lifting and all things relative, I choose to honest with and completely transparent. Not to say I dont have any regrets in my life but I like to think Im pretty solid in all of my convictions as a man and I have no reason to lie and or decieve anyone. For anyone and everyone that might judge me, I couldn't care less about their opinion. AS FAR AS your personal situation, I understand and respect it. Not everything you do is for everybody else to know. Fortunately WE have forums like this one ( SHOUTOUT EROIDS!!!) where all of us can feel comfortable discussing these things and have a chance to learn and grow and share our collective experience and knowledge with one another. It truly makes it a safer experience for everyone .
Gainz411I also don’t think now a days men judge others about taking testosterone. I’m in my 40s. When I tell someone I take testosterone 95% of the time they ask me where to get some for themselves lol. I had made hundreds from bring a friend from the site I use lol. I just don’t share how much I take weekly.
When I was young testosterone was looked at more taboo. I believe the times has changed now.
Gainz411This is a cool question. Really interesting to hear people’s life with this. Me personally, I do not hide I take testosterone. My brothers use testosterone and I helped them buy testosterone for themselves rather over paying a clinic for it. I do not share other things I’m interested in taking. My wife does my glute injections for me lol. Shes cool with everything expect she said she would move out if I took tren. lol.
I do not share my gear talk or what I take with friends or coworkers. But I’ve helped well over 100 people from Reddit find a safe site to buy gear from. And become good friends with a couple guys I text with about gear almost everyday. Other than them I do not speak to anyone about my hobby that has become more then a hobby lol.
I only told your mom.
Seriously though, great post & topic.
For me, people are on a need to know basis. I normally do not openly talk about my medical history at dinner parties.
If people ask, I will tell them.
I encourage everyone to vet out and seek a personal physician who is like minded with the lifestyle. Lots of shitty doctors out there so having a quality doctor who understands the situation is very important.
In closing, I will say this, if you are in a serious relationship this type of thing must be disclosed. Can't be running off into a closet to secretly pin and most certainly do not want your partner stumbling on to a stash of hypodermics.
Women take hormones and so do men. The more we normalize this situation the more we are closer to ending the stigma surrounding it.
How is Tammy 3fingers btw??
It's Tammy 4Fingers now thank you.
Ill be the first to say that im very lucky in regards to my experience. My immediate family, ex wife, fiancée, co workers(security and some LEOs), some friends, and even my doctor knows im on gear. The unanimous family reaction seems to be concern with acknowledgement that I seem healthier, and with the cops/coworkers, they seem to think its cool/want in on some gear too. Friends just think its cool "bro" stuff, and my doctor has even referred to me as his guinea pig. Pretty much saying he'll order any labs i want and that my understanding and experience of AAS is more than his.
While I have had a great experience (so far) with being open about my use, id recommend still being cautious and knowing the people you are around. I always stay a little careful myself and explain that I have a "trt" prescription just incase anyone ever felt inclined to try and report me. Granted I do have a legitimate script, I clearly add some other anabolics outside of it.
I know I’m not as big as some of you guys but in the last 2 years I’ve put on about 70 pounds. I’m 5’7ish so the change is huge. With family I feel as if it’s an elephant in the room type of thing. I’m an ex addict so I know not to tell my doctor I’m on gear. Like someone else said they 100% will blame every problem you have on gear and not really care about your well being because they are so uneducated about this stuff that they think you are trying to kill yourself. My boss is on TRT thru a men’s health clinic and the amount of bullshit they have told him is unreal. I’m truly convinced you guys know way more about this stuff than doctors. If you made that statement in the real world, people would think you are stupid.
Yes
I have two friends that know and one is my best friend and he is into using gear himself. I do not tell family, my best friend did tell his girlfriend and the only thing she is not cool with is Dbol for some reason.
When it comes to friends I am now seeking out gym going buddies because they would understand. If a stranger ever asks me I tell them diet and exercise, I have guys at work ask me all the time and it's always chicken and broccoli and gym daily.
YEah , who the hell is Diana & what have you been doing with her balls?
Dbol not cool, I mean it's weird. As long as she's cool with oral tren or methyl 1 testosterone. Just kidding btw.
It kind of sucks to have to lie do the gym bros. But I just don't want my shit out there.
Exactly, I feel bad because some of these guys at the gym look at themselves in the mirror and they dont see much change and then they look at me and see veins popping all over. I dont know them so I have to lie and say it's all about diet. Some of them come up and ask about whatever exercise I am on and again I just explain the workout routine but in reality it's the gear that is helping me pop with the hard workouts.
It sucks because I know I wouldn't have abs popping out with veins everywhere at 200 pounds. I've made progress in the last 6 months that I haven't in my whole life. People have noticed are probbing are you taking peptides.
I just say I started taking the gym super seriously. Which is true but not the reason why I've made 2 years of progress in less than 6 months. And beside the first 3 months I was just figuring it out what dose of testosterone I can handle. How much do I aromatise ? And I'm not even taking HG.
Oh same, I have not even started HGH yet. The funny thing is my best friend works with me and guys will make comments to him about me asking if I workout and shit and if I take anything and I am just glad he also lies to them. A couple of guys asked me how I am so jacked and it's always the same answer, diet and exercise. All of this has just made it so I really only want to make new friends who are into the whole gym scene so they understand and I don't keep getting probed by everyone. Everyone just wants to be up in your business now days including strangers you don't even know.
Its funny, if you're white and jacked they think your on steroids and if you are black and jacked like me then you must have done hard time. Lol.
Exactly!! That’s why I’m white and they are instantly…you’re a Druggie!!
That's a good friend ! He's the goat !
I have 320 iu of HGH coming pretty soon I'm gonna explode ! Can't wait !
It's weird how people wanna get up in your business that don't know you. Fuck em !
Dude honestly he is my best friend and I dont know how I got lucky to have him in my life.
That is awesome, you will get huge. I have some on the way as well. Wish we could use the gear and hit the gym together and get shredded.
That'll be real cool. Sadly I think we got an ocean separating us. I live in Europe.