If you're 29 then I get it. When I was that age I would stay up until 4:00 in the morn trying to get some, and then be pissed off and sulk if I didn't get it. If you're doing it twice a wk after 6 yrs of marriage, consider yourself lucky. Hell, I'd probably wind up in traction if I did it twice a wk. Between the stress and pressure that I'm under, I'm just not real interested so it probably works out as of now. BUT, if I ever get this monkey off my back, hold on to your drawers. Until then, if my wife offers and it's past 8:30, I'm going to sleep, lol

I don't keep count. I honestly could care less to be totally honest. I've done my share of fucking like a rabbit. I am too tired from work , add in the gym , my size and my cardio health and yea not happening every day lmfao. Some times a few times a week some times once or twice. Does it bother me? No , I love my wife and I have more fun with her outside of the bedroom than anything. I mean honestly whats a love session last20 minutes a half an hour? What about the other 23 and half hours lmfao im more worried about her then. I've never been the guy who worries about getting laid honestly for multiple reasons. I have more important shit going on most of the time.

Been with the wife for 15 years now, married since 2009 and honestly man its still great but the 1st 3-5 years were magical! Everyday however, where ever and whenever I wanted and vice versa with her. Fast forward a couple years throw a little one in the mix and things change. Sometimes it's everyday wild pornhub sex for a week or 2 then hell week shows up or "aunt flow" as some women call it. Then maybe it's a week with a day here and there or just once a week who knows it varies but I can say this it's what you make of it. Treat her right ( not saying you dont) and magic will happen. Women are more emotionally attached when it comes to doin the deed then men. We're almost all on a totally visual need for sex, a but cheek here or maybe a nipple.slip there and we're ready for women not so much

When I run Tren we literally do the deed 2 to 3 times a day every day. Normally it's at least 6 to 8 times a week. My wife runs a little test prop and her libido I believe is higher than mine. These aren't quickies either brothers, usually go for at least 1.5hrs.

The fact that you've had a PI watching your mrs suggests you've got bigger issues to resolve with her.....

I'm following the Bill Cosby plan for getting laid, so far it seems to be working pretty well, although I dont understand all the crying and begging, and thats just from me.

My wife gives it to me whenever I want it as she believes if she isn't giving it to me someone else will. unless I put myself in the doghouse and I do that a lot.

It changes all the time. We used to be able to go at it anywhere, anytime. Now with work schedules changing, 4yr old following us around the house, and both of us being in bed early it's hard bro. Sometimes our best sex is a quickie when our daughter is catching a nap or caught up in some cartoons with a bowl of cereal (yes, that quick lol). Just talk about it if its bothering you. Remember though, we as gear users and being a man in general might come into some ED issues later on. Hopefully she'll be as understanding for you, as you should be for her when she's in a little slump. Good luck

My girl is had been my bestfriend and love of my life since the first night we met. We are great togeather,happy togeather. Over years none of that has changed except our sex life.. Its has slowed down to the point that it would be the only thing we would argue about.. It acutully put a wall up for acouple months.. It was so stupid of me to argue about something so stupid.. I found the secret. Its called a massage parlor. We never argue about sex anymore , i still bring home flowers and i still love her with all my heart. No phone numbers, no names just HANDIES by the way
To me it saved my realationship. Some might think its a dick move, but to me im still with the love of my life and i dont pressure for sex anymore, AND believe me once we stop plreesuring for it. THEY WANT to give it to is more

yep, greg has got you bro, remember that honeymoon period at the start? first year or so? you need to find that spark you's had then, women can be funny, sometimes they use sex as a manipulation tool or even a behaivour management tool, you know? you do something wrong you aint getting shit type thing, also if she knows you juice, and she knows your libido is through the roof sometimes tat can send them funny, as in they feel like your using them to bust a nut rather than making love to them.

few thing i used to do when i had that issue with mine, write little sticky notes and leave them around the place, like on the bathroom mirror, tv screen, kettle etc etc, the notes need to be sickening lol something like, this note is just a little reminder to let you know how much i love you and that your beautiful, or just letting you know i appreciate and respect everything thing you do for me, things like that, flowers and chocolates never fail, grab some on your way home one night and just say something like, gotya these bub, i love you.

cook dinner for her, make her favourite meals once or twice a week follow that up with some strawberry flavoured champagne and actuall strawberries, grab a chick flick and pretend to like it.

massages with oil and candle light, get her naked and spend at least 45 minutes rubbing her back etc etc, that doesnt get you laid, dont know wht will.

finally make a date night for just you 2, even if its just holding hands walking a long the beach with you shoes off together talking and maybe an ice cream, its all about that spark bro, you gotta mke them feel as special as they did when you first met and worked real hard to keep her.

i was with mine for 9 years, generally it was everyday, as the years passed it was 3 times a week, then twice a week and a hand job, when hand jobs come into it thats when you need to pick up your game bro, i used the tools above and the sex increased hugely mate, it probably got us through another 2 years together just by making the effort to find romance again, as greg stated break that routine as often as possible.

good luck.