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On the following thread:

https://www.eroids.com/forum/general/general-talk/wifegf-or-husbandbf-kn...

One of the MODs felt that some of my remarks were "belittling" and that is certainly not acceptable.

It's a long thread and some of the things that I said early on I was having a little fun with not baring my soul. But then it devolved into a religious commentary and those things never end well and folk can get angry and upset.

If anything I said on there is belittling in anyway, I apologize to the whole community. It certainly was not my intention and I have no motive for doing anything like that.

I and everyone here it seems work on encouraging and building each other up, not tearing people down. I may now and then give a noob some crap for a really badly thought out non-researched cycle mess. I fess up to that, no problem.

I was shocked that anybody would think I am belittling and it made me feel really bad.

I enjoy steroids very much and I just hope I can help others enjoy them as much as I do for many years.

Kindest regards,

GearHead

7gothic's picture

If someone's religious beliefs are real ( I mean really real---not the kind of real expressed by parasitic clergy on T.V.) then what need would they have for an apology?

If one is secure in their religious convictions, then they shouldnt be so insecure as to be offended that someone questions or criticizes those convictions. But it seems like so many people go out of thier way to be offended these days.

No need to apologize to me brother----- I'm only sorry I missed the show.

Dickkhead's picture

No, no, bro - I was apologizing cause Darth thought I was belittling folk in that thread and I certainly didn't mean to if I did. I'm with you, I was not apologizing for my religious convictions for sure. You are 1000% spot on with that. People are free to believe as they wish or not to believe as they wish or whatever. No skin off my back. I'm certainly not embarrassed to be a Christian. If people think I'm some kind of hypocrite cause I use steroids, they can believe whatever they want. But, if somebody is going to mock me for what I believe I don't think that's appropriate within this community. I'm sure there are members here that are Muslim and I don't agree with most of what they believe but I'm not gonna make fun of them or insult them on eroids. I would like to think we all have some modicum of respect for each other here. There are all kinds of religions out there. I don't agree with most of them but I'm not going to mock people who believe in them either.

zeusmarada's picture

@GearHead, when a man has a sincere apology, that's a good thing. Good on you, brother.

I'm guessing there's been a thread or two dedicated to "Christians who use AAS." I'm not trying to hijack the apology, I simply would learn a lot from reading that conversation. I'll dig.

To everyone else who might feel like you need an apology from ANYONE in your life, let alone Gearhead, whether it be in your day to day life or online, accept apologies when they're real! Life is too short to hold grudges. Religious or not, we all mess up, we all can benefit from the forgiveness people show us, and none of us can turn back the clock. We've got today and we can look to tomorrow, but yesterday is long gone. Leave it behind and plan to kick ass today. (I'm not a preacher, but I feel like I sound like one! Sorry for that!)

Dickkhead's picture

Bro, I don't expect everyone to agree or even to understand this because maybe I'm just not the best communicator there is so sometimes I can't get the words right, but, being a Christian and using gear is not where the problem is. It's when I put being a good bodybuilder in front of or make it of greater importance than my relationship with the Lord. It would be like not supporting my local church because I spent the money on gear and have nothing left or not helping somebody out where I can make a difference cause it's cutting into my gym time. I have done this kind of thing a few times. The God of my understanding is not gonna bless anything like that. When the narcissism of being a bodybuilder overtakes all else - for me that is where the sin and hypocrisy is centered. When I should be praying or reading or being a good husband and father or helping someone but I would rather stand in front of a mirror and admire my conditioning and practice posing - that's not being true to my faith at all.

Whitetrash's picture

From what I've seen of you GH I have no doubt that you didn't intend to offend anyone. Everyone is entitled to their faith. It's one of the most important human rights.

tonytulo's picture

I don't mind your faith. Best thing to do is just not waive it around as after awhile something will come from it. I guess my biggest thing was seeing quotes from the bible in a forum about hiding things from a spouse , along with quotes from the bible in the same sentence as illegal drugs were being discussed. Just because you don't think they are that big of a deal and that they're in the same category as other strange laws , I would be willing to be your local pastor and his flock would strongly disagree. I don't care about what others worship that's the wonderful thing about this country we are free to believe in whatever we believe in. I myself am agnostic but I don't run around belittling others whether the be Episcopalian, catholic , Christian , Jehovah's , Muslim etc etc. I do however believe that the scripture and any of that sort don't really belong in sentences that have to do with breaking the law just because you think its a dumb law, its kind of a double negative so to speak, kind of like saying a prayer to god right before you inject. I respect people who follow a faith and dedicate their life to following it word for word , if they pick and chose and justify right from wrong themselves and make up their mind that things are ok when many of the same faith would disagree that is being a hypocrite and twisting the faith to go along with your life. To each their own tho. I can assure you my feelings are skewed by hormones and im not overly sensitive on the subject , my feelings have always been this way.

Dickkhead's picture

I can't tell you how many times my pastor and a group of us have discussed being bound by man's laws vs. God's laws. In our faith, God does not uphold or have any special respect for man's laws except when there is a conflict with His. So, in breaking man's laws you will suffer man's consequences, but not necessarily a rebuke from the Lord. Otherwise it would be like saying that God Himself upholds the legislation passed by congress. Wouldn't that be something. But, those are our laws in America. I wouldn't be shocked to learn that there are senators and congressmen that feel they are carrying out God's work. Maybe none of them feels that way but it wouldn't shock me if some do.

tonytulo's picture

So god says steroids are ok but man says they aren't? Or is that just a conclusion you came to yourself? You do know that's not what practicing Christians think that's what your individual church thinks, But im still willing to bet your church and the people in it wouldn't agree, but any who im done with it.

Dickkhead's picture

Well, all I have to do then is move to a country where they are legal and then they become OK? So the Lord is against steroids while I live in the US, but if I move to Thailand, the same chemicals are now OK. Cool. Bro, I may be wrong, but I think I know what practicing Christians think since I am one.

tonytulo's picture

Even if they were legal I still don't think it would be ok in gods eyes just like tattoos aren't as they are the mark of the beast and tattooing yourself is considered desecration of the flesh . Kind of along those lines as it would be considered vein to do as many people without faith even think, im sure a Christian would also say the amount of food I have to consume would be considered gluttony. I don't know for sure maybe ask your pastor next sunday? I believe the majority would say its not ok, but who knows. I just don't think its right to quote the good book on an illegal steroid board while having a conversation about whether to hide illegal steroids or partially hide illegal steroids from your spouse. Maybe im mistaken and its ok , and if it is I do apologize.

Dickkhead's picture

Interesting. My Sunday school teacher is a competitive bodybuilder. My pastor thinks very highly of the guy. Does a lot of ministry work in and out of the church. I'll ask Marcus if the Lord thinks that he and I are vein gluttons. LOL And, Marcus is not natty either. LMAO. We also happen to shop at the same eastern European UGL as a matter of fact. He knows way more about scripture than I do and he is an ordained assistant pastor and has also rotated in an out of one the deacon's position before he was ordained. And, also, I will ask him how much his wife knows about his steroid use. I have no idea. It will be a surprise.

tonytulo's picture

You win believe what you like to believe. I'm not following a man , I'm just going by the book.

Dickkhead's picture

Bro, don't ever think you're on the highway to Hell. One of the most loving things about God is that if you ever have a change of heart, the Lord will always take you back.

Darkhorse777's picture

Bro i got your back your passionate about jesus sometimes its hard to articulate it without coming across offensive but i see your heart your standing on your faith and to come apologize just shows it ive been there many times myself. At the same time theres no way to really believe something and not offend somone because your going to fight for what you believe cause your faith is real and arent most people here all juiced up maybe we can be overly sensitive cause of hormones....i feel like were a brotherhood here and we should give each other grace were all only human right so props for the apology and for being a brother in christ no worries

Pale's picture

And we do accept everyones faith or lack of here.

growchamp's picture

You Sir, Are Satan haha..

We all go a little space bound at times and sometimes those things don't transcend these forums.

So sensitive at times with some....others not so much. I'm sure this will blow over. Props on the apology though as it shows great character to admit you may have misspoke or said something that was portrayed negative

cdyrdes's picture

I skimmed through that thread last night and I agree with cat. I'm pretty sure it was unintentional and misplaced, your one of the few guys here that when you lay something out its solid advice and definitely try to get people on the right track. Besides pale is a good dude and sure he brushed it off real quick

Pale's picture

We are alright bro. I ain't mad at ya. I think you felt maybe backed into a corner or something (even tho you weren't) The religion thing was some sort of shield, at least that is the way I saw it. Whether you realized it or not when you lump several states worth of people into groups of non-believers and such it is going to likely ignite a response.

And Rusty, WTF are you talking about? LOL

Pale's picture

First off, I am not confused about a goddamned thing bro. You are being overly paranoid. You give advice on how to use anabolic steroids all damn day and you are worried about a question on whether or not we are honest with our wives? That don't even make sense. Here is the deal, if for some reason the local drug unit decided to break down my door or yours it will not matter if our wives knew or not. They will surely use charges on them as a weapon against us. "You plead guilty or we charge your wife".

And you need to get off this imaginary high horse you have been on. I have saw the little comments about what mods should and should not be doing out of you. Guess what, it don't matter what you think we should or should not be doing. You had your shot and you blew it. Don't waste time second guessing me.

Pale's picture

You will draw out some aggression when you suggest I am confused and need you to straighten me out, lol. As for the rest of it "whatever"

Pale's picture

What we need is a Steve and Rusty last word thread lol

readyman's picture

Dude i read of human bondage by Somerset in three days and i seriously don't think i could read that thread to the end by the time i decided fuck it im moving to the middle of nowhere to become a doctor. A literary humor.......don't really expect any laughs.......just looking to impress anybody who would be.........ahh i dont know god darth tell them to shut the fuck up LMAO

Pale's picture

LMAO!

kodiakGRRL's picture

Did I wake up this morning and get launched back to the play ground in grade school???

kodiakGRRL's picture

pshhhh don't act all innocent there.. you push him every chance you get .

readyman's picture

Who? Steve? Shit, Steve is your voice against the insanity of the likes of rusty. Pledge your allegiance grrl.

kodiakGRRL's picture

I pledge allegiance to no man ;-)