posted Fri, 06/26/2015 - 15:00
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Just curious how many of you that use AAS and either tell your significant others or not.
I personally have not shared with my wife. Maybe I should, but I have a couple reasons I do not.
My first would be to protect her. What she does not know.....
Secondarily, not sure she would be supportive in this case.
Yeah, I am sure some would say I am being dishonest, or unfair.
Thoughts??
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I liked it and thought it was appropriate. AAAAAAAAA!!!
What,,, did I borrow the wrong slogan?
How about
I'm here, on gear, get used to it!
LOL, that one is a little better...
The reason for not telling a woman about your steroid use is not to protect her form arrest---- it's to protect YOU from arrest after she catches you cheating, smoking weed, or surfing internet porn, and then decides to tell on you... ("yes Officer, He keeps his stash in the first cabinet on the right...next to the Twinkies").
The only time I've ever had to disclose gear use was during a Deca cycle and I was out of cockbombs...:)
AnonThat one got you in trouble I bet
You win. I was wrong.
He does have a point, but why marry someone if you can't trust them lol. The reason my wife knows is because she has her own stash, so being in a glass house she can't throw stones :). If I wasn't with my wife, I damn sure wouldn't court a chick if I thought she couldn't be trusted. Which takes time, not something you figure out on the first 5 dates lol. If you don't know your girlfriend well enough to trust her than keep it quiet until the right time. If you've been with someone for quite awhile and you can't be honest because you think she would squeal under pressure than your gear use isn't the real issue, your wife is. They also have this nifty law that your wife cant be put on the stand against you or can't be used to back you up also I can't remember it off the top of my head but had a friend who went through it, they can waive it and testify against you at their will but a good defense attorney handles that well. If your cheating or doing shady shit to your wife than you got shit coming to you , the gear use will be the least of your problems lmao
Moral of story use your fucking head. If you haven't been together long and haven't been through shit its a roll of the dice that could potentially bite you in the ass. Now if you've been together for quite sometime but still can't trust your wife , that's a big issue. Than there's the chance she just won't allow it and gives you an ultimatum.
When it comes to women, most men can't use their head.
Lmfao
StevebThat's a good point. A lot of women are completely different and capable of anything when you piss them off.
Goth is right to some degree but if your relationship is otherwise rock solid you should be honest. Fucking cops don't come running for every stupid call like that anyway.
hide it bro, you never know what women are capable of ,when they are mad at you..
I think it's an individual call. The fear that your significant other will turn you in if things go sour is very real. It has happened but only you know your partner. In my case my wfe is OK with it. Do I fear she will flip out if after 18yrs we call it quits. Fuck yeah but I tell her anyways. My friends wife was completely against use for all the stereotypical reasons. He didn't think it was worth his relationship so he stopped all use. That was his call. So in the end, what matters most to you? And are you willing to live with your choice. Shit that pretty much applies to anything.
I have mixed feelings on it. My wife knows I told her when we got together its part of my life and I'll always use them. And she is fine with them. She's doesn't care so much anymore. She use to make comments about them. She justs make sure I pick up all my trash and don't have it stored where my daughter can find any trace of it. So it stays locked up. But the catch 22 is. If we ever get divorced she can use it against me in court. And stuff like DECA or eq can be detected for long periods of time even if I stopped and could lose my daughter. So she has one up on me knowing I use them
I'm a liar...
At least your honest about being a liar, lol
Luckily my wife"s cool with it, even helps me with my jabs. Prefer it like that than having to sneak around doing it.
You should definitely keep lying to her. Women love that.
My wife knows. She isnt a gym rat like me, but Ill never stop trying to make her one. I dont see the point of marriage if this is something you need to hide. GF's are different, but if youre married I believe this is something that needs acceptance...whether she agrees or not.
I tried to play it off with my GF for a while, but it got tiring. She'd fine those little tin GH pen cap covers when cleaning, and I had a buch of GH stored in the fridge I was always trying to hide behind the ketchup. I have a ton of of gear and ancillaries in the house and the deception got old for me. Eventually I said something like" you know I do some supplements that aren't quite legal." To which she responded, "yeah no shit."
That was that.
Yaaa that fridge full of gh makes it pretty damn hard to hide lol. That's why I don't bother trying to hide it.
In the end it's not worth the deception.. "Oh honey those are Epi pens in case I get stung." Only works untill she reads the pens.....
Ace VenturaThat's beautiful
if you dont think she'd me down with it, why tell her. Fuck it, if you can pull it off without her knowing, then more power to you. I've never met a single woman that was down with juice. Not sure where you guys found these women.
Ace VenturaYou're not sure where we found smart women? Where are you looking?
I say if you can not tell your wife everything then you need to find a new wife. Keeping a big secrete like that could end in divorce. After all you are puting her at risk with out her knowing and that is not cool.
Lol very true...
Can I ask do sources tell there loved ones there dealing drugs online? Lol this isn't a jab at your just wondered?
Totally different in the eyes of LE, but under "Spousal Privilege" your spouse can't be forced to testify against you, if that's what you mean.
Ace VenturaAnswering that question could incriminate their loved ones.
Lol
Well said
Best response on this thread.
DeathstrokeAgreed
My wife gives me my shots. Lol she is the first to know if the test Prop is good or not lol.
Ace VenturaHey, Butch! How'd you come up with that user name?
StevebHe killed those guys rapping Marcellus Wallace.
Zed's dead baby.
Zed's dead
Ace VenturaI should have known. Or, should of known.
Steveb"Step away Butch"
What she does not know....
Will royally piss her off later
I dated my fiancé for a few months before I finally decided to tell her cause I knew we were not some fling.
There was no hiding it when my and my gf got together. She's a gym rat to so she knew right away and asked me very quickly. I denied it the first time. Then she brought it up again a few days later and was talking about honesty etc and how she's been around it before and doesnt care and would be more pissed if lied to her and she found something in my room later on so i just admitted it. She doesnt care. But not all girls are like her. Some are totally brainwashed by the media. Luckily I found one who isn't. In a perfect world you would wait like a year or more to make sure its serious and not a fling, but if you're doing this right alot of girls ( especially ones who also live the lifestyle) can look at you and tell you're not natty. And then the questions start.
But you're talking about your wife, at this point you know this isn't some fling. You should be honest with her. But all women are different. Is this something you plan on doing for a long time? do you cycle alot? Complex cycles or just a few vials of test laying around and some pins. Those are things to take into consideration.
I'm not married.. But if I was and I didn't tell my wife, and she somehow found it. Yeah I wouldn't blame her for being mad. Sterility is one if those things that could really ruin a relationship.
Well, this is not an issue for me.
She made me get fixed 10 years ago.
Honesty still is probably the best course though. Still working on it
sterility...? how about not being honest and hiding things?
Right I completly forgot about those...
Yeah I'm a horrible significant other. I'll admit it. I don't know why I'm not a very emotional person. It's already been an issue. I've always been a relatively cold, mechanical person. This is a perfect example, sterility is a physical issue. Meanwhile I completely neglected trust and honesty.
But yes the jist is the same. Either way, honesty is the best route. I went to a wedding last weekend, and they brought up the longest married couple (58 years). Tere advise to the newlyweds were :
1) never go to bed angry at each other
2) always be honest
Oh and the husband said the only thing you ever need to say is "yes dear". It's true!
MMMMmmmm. Perhaps I should close some of my offshore bank accounts. But they're set up to avoid detection by a divorce attorney. MMMMmmmm. (joke)
HA. One of my biggest fears of marriage. It may not be rational but ay, it is what it is.
Rustyhooker.
My wife knows I take steroids but it's not like she's sitting next to me at the computer when I place my orders and I explain to her in detail what all the chemicals do. I have my orders delivered to my office. So there are no mysterious packages arriving at the house. Nor does she watch me pin either. I keep my stash in our big gun safe. She doesn't go through the vials. That said if she asked me something specific I would tell her. She's never expressed that much of an interest in my chemicals.
She likes to shop. She doesn't sit down with me and review every article of clothing or shoes or whatever she buys like she needs my approval. She can get whatever she wants. She also furnished the house. I can't say I like all the pieces but for me that's her domain. I have my own room. My cave.
I guess we're lucky certainly financially. I own my own company and we're well heeled.
StevebMine doesn't care, she's an RN and injects me sometimes. I tell her everything and if she kept something from me I would be pissed.