Told my wife what's up
I've read some posts on here about keeping AAS use from your wife/girlfriend or whatever. I questioned what I should do because I've always kept it a secret in the past, which has hendered some of my goals because I was afraid that it would look to "obvious" if I were to get bigger and questions would arise. So like I figured most guys on here said honest is the best policy and just tell her. So since I've been member on here I have been on my phone 24/7 which I am normally not. So my wife asked last night what I was doing so I figured now or never. I explained to her what this site was about, read some posts and comments to her from people. She actually took it very well! Of course she said its illegal. I told her the process of ordering how the package was received and everything. I explained how this site is much more than steroids. I have given her a lot of diet and training tips I have learned on here. I told her what my goals were and that I planned on starting around April. I can't tell you the weight that's been lifted. I don't have to feel like I'm hiding something anymore and can reach my full potential because now she knows and frankly I don't give a shit what anyone else thinks. I'd like to say thanks to everyone who said to come clean.
Oh and one more thing, she said "I may have to join this site you've been talking about." I told her she should. She gave birth to our third child this past August so she's trying to get her diet and training in check also.
Thanks again
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I am one of the few men here with his wife as a member and AAS user.I'm lucky enough to cycle with my wife. It's a great feeling to have that acceptance and share this with your wife or partner. It's been a wonderful experience. This place demystifies many of, if not all the media related AAS propaganda and show the reality of what we do and who we are.
Congrats to you too
My wife came up with every excuse for me not to use. I have respect for the woman, its why I'm with her. So I continued to lift naturally, train hard, and focus on my diet till the excuses ran out, it only took three years. I have a thing about being persistent. That was a few years ago now. Now she is enjoying my cycle results more than me. Being open about things is the key. Props on your lady taking it well! Keep those goals in site.
It never occurred to me that this is something that would be a secret. I'm not sure when or how I found out about my husband using steroids, I feel like I have always known.
I'm sure she felt the same way.
Would never, ever trust a chick unless she's proven beyond a doubt she's ride or die. You fuck up or the relationship goes sour, your stash can end up in your car with a call placed to the 5-0. That's need to know and I no reason y they need to know.
I take it you are not married? I never even considered keeping it a secret from my wife.
Nope, not married. But I know from experience trust is a double edged sword. On one hand it will strengthen a relationship, on the other it can b used against u. I trusted 2 chicks. One was ride or die, the other tried to destroy me. I've seen friends go through epically messy divorces. If I was married with kids I'd feel safer about it. Even if a woman hates your guts she's not gonna want to put the kids through having a father locked up.
I'm sure my girlfriend has stumbled across my steroid stash that I keep in an animal pak container loosely hidden in my bathroom... She's nosey as fuck, but I don't feel it's necessary to explain to her what I do with my private time.
True, and I don't know that I would owe my girlfriend one either. However, my wife and mother of my three children is different.
The wife found a receipt for syringes. She was just happy that it wasn't for heroin or something of that nature. She's cool with it and trusts that I know what I'm doing
Honesty is the ONLY policy my dude. My fiance has known about it since right after we got serious and she started spending the night. She says she doesn't understand why but she'll support whatever I do to get to where I want to be.
That's good man, sounds like a keeper!
good for you Pin Cushion!
I'm still living deeper in the closet than John Travolta.
He's still Vincent Vega as far as I'm concerned, haha
Lol!
lol, feels good to come out, no homo. Of course she's still skeptical, but she'll see it my way sooner or later.
That is some great news, I am so glad it worked for you.
I got my wife to accept just a couple months ago. Now she basically is ready when it's time for my shots. She gets off off being able to shoot me and I not bleed. Now she begs for juice and shit online, she damn near knows more about Aas than alot of people. Plus I think she loves the sex that comes with the high test levels.;) Welcome to the club bro, isn't it a great feeling?
Yea man definitely feels "normal" now. Yes she enjoyed the intense sex in the past just didn't know where it was coming from. Now she will so should make it that much better
Bring her on board we always need more ladies
pretty dope. shit my girl is all forward with me and gear she just wants to make sure i don't hurt myself but she won't stick me =.= . crap almost forgot she gonna run ladyvars soon lol and she is a member on here as well ladywoody.
and another couple is born lol, congratulations feels good not carrying that deceit for sure.
Kudos! Now get her on here and next thing you know you'll have to spend some of your gear fund on var for her.. That's the downfall .. Lol
I hope we get to that point!
oldhead73 told his wife and she has been stealing his gear ever since!
Lmao! Worse part is she has been getting serious gains off that shit! Makes me mad lol
Lol! I was going to say that because of her last deltoids photo...but didn't want to put salt in the open wound lol!
She became dead serious.. Last week she set a couple Pr's on legs 185 squat, 360 leg press.. She's tracking macros and shit! Starting to get scary!!
Yeah that is my favorite... I start to bulk up and the wife is sporting her 8 cyclinder ab engine lol! Thanks Hun, for making me look even fatter than I feel
Lol, I have a hard time sharing my french fries let alone my gear, haha
Worked for me !Lol
You did the right thing =]
good stuff bro, now go get some flowers and choclates and take her out for tea, then later a full massage, and more, let her know you appreciate her
Lol, she knows. Hey man I tried dropping that Aussie accent on her, didn't have the same effect, lmao
lmao, bro at least you tried mate, haha we cant all be auzzie stallions like me neeeeeiiiiiggggghhh lol
Sounds like a pretty good woman
Props for telling her.
Even if your lady decides that now isn't the right time for her to try anything herself, joining the site is a great way for her to learn on her own and gain a better understanding of what you're into!
That's exactly what I told her. I said its so much bigger than just steroids
You got a keeper.Now its time to get her to give you injections.
Right on!
ThackeronTakes a lot of balls to tell someone close to you. Props to you.
Thanks, Yea I owe it to her to tell her the truth. She's not to the point of yea go for it baby get huge, lol it's still new to her so when I get close to starting I'll explain my cycle start to finish so she knows exactly what will be going in my body and how it works
That's the best thing you did, always tell your wife. She will be with you through thick and thin.
My wife is my number one supporter, she does all my shots.
The legal issue, tell your wife after your cycle like 3-4 weeks after your last pin. Go to an endo before you start pct. Get a script to testosterone and their you go. Your legal.
Plus +1 for you good job
I see, that is an interesting tactic.
Yea, man I'm not gonna push anything on her for sure, but I told her before she bought some stupid diet pill we could go over other options if she wanted to
aylmejorAwesome its always mice not having to hide things. Shouldn't have to.
I've told 2 girls and both took it very well and even would use. use their self. Current girl is very soon.