Got in big trouble yesterday
So I've noticed over the last couple month the girlfriend has gained a few pounds. She eats a terrible diet and I keep dropping hints on what is healthy and whats not, and try to suggest workout routines. She will start to work out sometimes but it doesn't last more than a week. She still look really good she has just gained some and I'd prefer her to keep looking like a cheerleader/gymnist. So she said she was going to grab some fries yesterday and I said thats not very healthy. She then got mad and said it pisses her off that I say things like that and that I think she is fat. She then wouldn't talk to me and asked if I thought she was fat and I said she had maybe gained a couple but not fat.
I think I messed because she wouldn't talk to me for a while. Whoops
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To clear it up she looks great and is skinny and if you all saw her you all would call me stupid for making this post but I just want her to push herself to get in peak shape like fitness models you would see in a magazine
uhh why don't you try this site hodgetwinz on youtube they had a good video on how to go about doin this. Bottom line you gotta put this on you, say hey babe I've been gaining a couple lbs recently I'm not feeling to good about it I need someone there to help motivate me, ask her if she'll do it with you.(idk if you're out of shape or not or if she'd believe this.But good luckk and if you're going to try this wait a month before bringing it back up so she forgets that you gotta problem wit her wieght(so she doesn't think it's for her cuz then she'll just get mad).
yeah ive gain some weight lately, 23lbs. but that normally would work
How about you take over the cooking, that way you can cook healthy meals and she'll have to eat them. Don't give her any money, then she can't buy fries or any other "unhealthy" food lol.
she has her own money. As far as cooking I'm not always there and that can't realy work.
Ihy? You cut a woman's $ off and she cuts U off from the naughty stuff... I assumed that was common knowledge??
You can resume the naughty stuff once she's lost the pounds (in weight, not money), so she'd probably be doing you a favour lol.
CleyonIHeartYou is very old fashion. She refused to allow me to scratch my own back or bend over to pick up my napkin.
Too right, I don't wait to have doors opened for me ;)
Moved to off topic.
I thought I put in off topic, guess it was general then
Hahaha. That's the most epic breakup medium ever. Long distance phone call. Rocks.
Haha. I have no beneficial input, really, but I wanna let you know this made me laugh. Good luck to you, man. It's a rough life out there. Hot women eating french fries.
well my girls in way better shape than me, shes fucking ripped. but we both told each other if either one of us gets fat, this thing is over lol.
All in all I've come come to the conclusion that women are emotional roller coasters with a ticking time bomb in the front seat
You've hit the nail on the head! lol
Bro...I read a lot of these threads below. You can't tell a girl she is fat or is gaining weight. Even though you want a skinny fit girl there is a way to coach your girl in a positive way. Girls are already insecure in most cases from life in general compteting with friends, stupid ass magazines they read showing anorexic chics smashed with makeup etc... You have to make it a hobby and make it fun for her to want to stay fit. Also when she does start to train or diet that's when you compliment the shit out of her and feed that little head of hers with positive reinforcement! It's like the old saying "Kill them with kindness" it works. Just think Bro you have your Eroids crowd to help you, she needs some motivation and assitance as well!!! Now go buy her some flowers and a little card and she will tear up and smile Awwwww
I would flat out tell my(ex) girl that I won't fuck fat chicks, she can infer what she chooses from that... The whole "accept me as I am" thing has its limitations (IMO)
we need a Grrrl over here stat! lol... what is guy supposed to say if woman you like asks you if you think she is fat? what could ac89 have said differently without completely lying? what he said didnt sound offensive, so women just may be crazy!
She didn't even ask him if she got fat. He just proceeded to tell her what she was eating wasn't healthy, which to a woman would imply "don't eat that, you're going to get or are fat"
Ummm Im a lil nervous to reply to this lol, woman and weight comments dont mix I promise its the easiest way to get front row tickets to sleeping on the porch. Honesty goes a long way but there is always being to honest. You should start including her when you go to the gym. Thats what I did, my wife lost over 10 pants sizes and 80 lbs. She has always been beautiful and reguardless of her weight she carries herself very well. There are some people that can pull it off. Not to deviate when the wife and I started going to the gym together it improved our relationship 100% . We spend the 1st 20 minutes on the treadmill talking about our day and just gives me time to do what she wants me to do and LISTEN!!! On leg days we work out together after the treadmill but anytime else we split ways and I let her do her own thing. Alont of woman would rather be able to workout where there is no other guys around to watch them. The gym we go to has a womans workout room for just that. We have a sauna and tanning bed and that itself is a key seller for woman. I know you didnt mean no harm in what you said to her but woman are emotional and alot of time unstable when it comes to addressing weight issues. You have to find a way to communicate and be sensitive about it ;)
AnonMore guys should be honest with their wives/ gf's. It doesnt do anyone any good to lie and say, "oh no sweetie your not fat".
Look, when guys say they try to drop hints or be suggestive. What the woman hears, no matter how subtle, is."Damn woman! Eat a carrot and do some damn squats!" Women are literally ticking time bombs. Everyone has seen a movie where the dude's trying to decide which wire to cut to stop the bomb. My friend, sounds like you cut the wrong wire.
thats pretty much true
Anonhaha youre fukd
silverback89lol this is like me pushing my wife to get on some gear to make her ass and legs really THICK. she says no everytime
Does she cook clean n wash?? I'd take that over a fine ass chic who don't do shit at home 100 times out of 100!
You just said it all!!
I agree completely! Not to mention that if one day the script ever gets flipped and you find yourself injured severly, sick, or out of shape for some reason. Then ask yourself whether you want a superficial perfectly built woman who now doesn't give a shit about you. Or a woman who has more substance then that who will not rate you on your external alone.
X2 - anyday!
lol
Huge high five! Been there...bought the shirt.
Double Huge High Five!!!!!
She still looks great, I just want to push her to get in top shape, I thinking a fittness model figure. But unless there is a drive in her to do it I probably shouldnt tell her that
You don't push a SO to get in shape. You be there when they come to you for help. If you don't love her, then end it. If you do, then be there for here and don't be a dick. Let her be happy. If eating fries makes her happy, who are you to judge her lifestyle? Does she judge you?
Exactly she doesn't say hey you have smaller penis then my last boyfriend!!!!! Let her it what she wants too!!
yea bro I guess you can just ask her to workout with you. Keep doing it and eventually she should begin to notice staying fit is important to you.
Also if you see a couple at the gym and the woman looks in really good shape just look at them as if you admire the couple's physiques and hopefully your old lady will notice and get a little jealous.
Not a fun subject. I can say if she works out for you it won't last and she will go back to eating poorly etc.. Gotta find a way to motivate her to do it for herself.. Set goals etc.. I know that sounds cheesy but it works
That what I wanting to do is create the drive and passion for working out that I have but in her
It helps me to get mine into the routine and then talk about all the ways to gain weight and lose it.. I make it sound easy which it is as long as you put in the hard work at the gym.. I mean some of those foods she wants to eat she could prlly get away with if she just put in the work at the gym with you. I explain to her a lot of things I find on here for instance a full body workout followed by cardio is a great way to burn fat. I find the more she knows the more interested she becomes in physical fitness.. Same thing with my aas use, she doesn't care any more =]
Well I would suggest trying to say you just care about her health and don't want her to eat unhealthy.
This means you cannot be seen eating grilled cheese and cheesecake around her or she will figure it out.
Be genuine and make her believe you even though you just dont want her to turn into a walmart's finest lol
Well I would suggest trying to say you just care about her health and don't want her to eat unhealthy.
This means you cannot be seen eating grilled cheese and cheesecake around her or she will figure it out.
Be genuine and make her believe you even though you just dont want her to turn into a walmart's finest lol
She goes just because your a health freak doesnt mean everyone has to be
Thats always a touchy subject. :( .
If ya hint....you're a Dick. If ya call her fat...you're a Dick. If dhe does get huge....you're a Dick for not warning her. Sorry but haf many many ex gfs.
Totally fucking Right man!!! (smh) -__-
it's loose loose
Sometimes. My lady is heavy but she cooks all my lean meals and is jazzed i'm cutting down. Which got her jazzed and shes down a dozen pounds. Kinda a reverse psych thing i guess. Lol
As long as your honest about it.
When ever im asked I tell them the truth without being a dick of course.
If she feels the relationship is going down hill because of this and she cares about you she would work on it and if you care for her it wouldnt be the biggest deal.
she depressed or what?