posted Fri, 06/15/2012 - 13:55
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Single vs Married!!
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Hey guy's,
Just wondering who is single or married?
Now to give you a run down I've just been divorced after about a year of separation. The wife had me under the thumb big time, so to speak. I was NEVER allowed to interact with other women, even talking to them was BIG NO NO etc.
Now that is all all over and I'm on the gear. I've never experienced so many hot young chicks throwing themselves at me. (not being an ego tripper, if you know me, I'm very far from it) BUT, it's unbelievable. I'm not a young bloke anymore (check out my profile) but I dunno guy's. Once you get the "Body" and look fit and have supreme confidence which on the gear you do have. :-)
It raises the game. Do you guy's know what I mean?
LOVE to hear your feedback Bro's!
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Did a couple of log term relationships, finally realising living with someone just makes me really unhappy. I'm not bother about f#cking loads of different girls, or playing the field. I just love my own space, the thing i would dread most was coming home knackered and grumpy knowing i'd open that door and have to have a f#cking conversation with someone, awful.
Reakon if I had another long term gril I do it the same as a lot of my european mates, where they both live in seperate houses. It just works so much better for people like me. To many people try to wear the marrage hat when it's really not for them, and just end up divorced.
Right there with ya bro. Had the same sort of problem, the wifey was unbelievably insecure and had some daddy issues or something from when growing up. Seriously, I don't know the psychology here on fathers and daughters, but I know it has to do with something cause my dad is an asshole and it affected my sis. Anyway, I'm divorced too and yet some of it was my fault too....I lost myself for several years and a real demon came out and it's not something I'm very proud of...but that's all in the past as I have overcome that garbage once again!! As far as the marriage thing, I don't think it is necessary anymore. It's kind of an old school tradition that has been time-tested proven ineffective anymore at over 53% marriages ending in divorce....which isn't good for either spouse and especially the kids. To all those that are happily married...that is awesome and I do wish you all the best, I just wasn't so fortunate in my endeavors as both my ex and I were too immature at the time and we both paid the price. We're cool now though....we finally agreed to break off the rear-view mirrors in our lives (I remember Tread saying something like that, and it really hit home! Thanx Tread!)
I cant see the merits of getting married at this day and age. I don't want any kids so I'd rather keep girlfriends than marry and commit myself financially.
I'm sorry to hear that your wife was like that, that's no way to live. I would never do that to my man, I give trust 100%, and he gives me the same respect back. I never understood that kind of jealousy or behavior. Well, if you are experiencing beautiful women giving you attention right now, maybe you deserve that. Enjoy your attention, just always be kind and fair, don't hurt or take advantage ;-)
Thanks heaps KitKat!
You sound like a wonderful person :-)
No, I'm old school (look at my profile) I still rush to open doors for women, listen to them with no judgements, even at the supermarket the other day a young girl was having trouble lifting one of those baskets (she had overfilled) I offered to help lift it for her. (not for anything else, it's just me)
Sometimes though KitKat, I do wonder? Am I too much of a nice guy? as the saying goes. Nice guy's finish last?
Should I have gone to the pub everynight? Come home and demanded dinner on the table with another beer? Then bashed her later?
I have seen it ALL with that rubbish from other guy's.
Why do girls contiune to go for those guy's?????
Don't ever change! ;-) Maybe sometimes nice guys finish last, but all good things come to those who wait! Yes there are girls who go for guys that cause drama in the relationship, but not all girls. The girl that is really worth having you would not be drawn to chaos, hardship and drama. I like to think I'm a good catch, I'm kinda hot (lol), smart, ambitious and kind. And my man is one of the most sweetest, giving and kind man I have ever known. He got treated like dirt from his ex-wife and she threw him out like he was trash so she could move in her boyfriend that impregnated her. And then I met him, and I tell you what, there is no way I am letting this one go. Girls do go for nice guys. And when the nice guy wins in the end, he wins forever. So please don't change or ever think being a nice guy is a bad thing. The world needs nice guys.
Thanks :-)
CleyonAs it should be! I've taught my daughters to expect that. It's sad to see the lack of manners kids have today, maybe I'm just getting old, but my Dad would have kicked my @$$ if I had disrespected a girl (and I knew it!) You sound like a good guy, I'm more sure than ever that you'll land back on your feet (relationship wise)
CleyonThis one hits close to home, yesterday was my 6th anniversary to Mrs. #2. I can't believe how poorly I chose the first time, or how well I chose the second. Everyone makes mistakes, but if you learn from them then it's all for the best. BTW, neither of them are really on board with the gear. However my current wife chooses to support me in whatever I do. It really doesn't matter, bowhunting, shooting IDPA, hell if I decided I wanted to be a pornstar she'd probably get behind me! (with a HUGE strap-on to teach me a lesson)
All that is to say, I'm sorry about your divorce. It sucks, I know, I've been there. The good news is that you have another chance to find someone who will treat you better and be more supportive. Best of luck brother.
Thanks bro, it's been about 7 months, but still hard.
It's like what another dude said in this thread here.
She was very messed up because of her past and it only came to light in the last couple of years. (abused badly, foster homes etc.)
She felt it was best to deal with it herself rarther than subject me through it all.
Still hurts though! :-)
CleyonIt took me about two years to get over my first wife. I don't know if you had children together, but we have two. That makes it much worse, but that's life.
You'll pull out the otherside and be OK. I also hope your ex gets the help she needs. Childhood issues can be a killer to deal with in the best of circumstances. Not that I'm excusing her, I just would like to hope she won't go bat-shit crazy like my ex did.
Hey Cleyon, I'm lucky we did not have children. As like you said I have heard it's much worse.
Thanks for your input buddy :-)
CleyonNo problem, you sound like a good guy (like I like to believe I am). Trust me, we finish first in the end. If you want a sounding board, or need to vent feel free to friend me. I hope it all turns out well.
My next wifes not born yet....
Niether is your parole officer.
That shit carries hard time Bro.
NO NO NO NO... i'll be 70 ....she'll be like 20...all legal !!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
I used to sleep with a lot of different women, but since I've been married to Grrrl, my average has dropped a little.
We have 5 years together, and it's all been great except for the first 4 years, 11 months and 29 days.
tread-mI always tell people, get past the first 4 yrs, 11 months and 29 1/2 days and it smooths out nicely, almost paydirt brother, ride it out a few more hrs!
juiceinatorI'll take being with my fiancé who supports my decisions and wants me to be the best person I can be over being single anyday.
How sweet, tell me in 10 years my friend :-)
Now, not being mean or anything!
I'm HAPPY you feel that way!!!!!!
juiceinatorNa I probably slept with more women in my life than you have in yours considering I was your weight when I was 18 and only an inch taller than you. I've done well in the sex dept. apparently you didn't bang enough girls before you got married or you would have found out that no ones perfect and if you choose to get married you choose to accept and live with their imperfections as well as all the good things they bring to your life. As far as ten years who knows if I'll even be alive then. I'd rather spend my life with someone I love than sleeping with another girl and waking up in the morning by myself
tread-mSo in the world of juice a successful marriage is hinged on how many women you "banged"? I went through women like bowling pins brother and in numbers (not proud of it) and it has absolutely nothing to do with a successful marriage trust me on this Juicester. What makes it successful is like down there where you mention how much your GF supports everything you do is when you then say "and I support everything she does." 1 taker and 1 giver or 2 takers both fail. 2 givers succeed. I didn't say yours is not success btw, hope it is for "both" of you.
juiceinatorAhh not how I meant my post to be read but good to see a different view on what I wrote. I more or less tried to state that after sleeping with a lot of women I found out what qualities I liked and respected and what I didn't. As far as supporting each other I'm probably a bigger supporter emotionally of her than she is of herself. I do for her what she does for me. Pushes me to be the best person and lean on each other for support. That's what I think a successful relationship has to be. But yea, I had to hang a lot of chicks before I realized what a good relationship should be. My ex who I was with for 2.5 yrs was the opposite. She never wanted me to be anything more than I was never needed me never pushed me to try harder. At the time I was like this is awesome but looking back later I was like well with a little more emotional support I could be a lot better person than I am today, more successful financially, and probably still be together. But she had more deep rooted emotional issues that I wasnt aware about until right before we split. Sometimes people can hide a lot of stuff. I throw everything I am at a woman when I meet them. Most of them would, should, or did run. I never tried to make myself out to be a better person, but like I said I sure as hell knocked enough of them down to find out how to be successful (or unsuccessful) in a relationship.
tread-mThat's good to hear brother...
jordan555i just like to get my fuck on until i meet the right girl that says no dont put that in their yet i wanna wait till we fall in love
juiceinatorLol. Having a few years on you and probably a few girls on you you'll get to the point where you've banged enough chicks you WANT that girl to come around. I got lucky. My girls cool as fuck, can be a pain in the ass sometimes but hey so can I, and has no problem gettin down 4x a day. And she's pretty damn hot I think too. Tx might got me though his wife is hot like fiyahhh
jordan555i just like to wake up in the morning and serve my girl whoever it maybe ;) some good old roided home cooked home served chorizo:)
juiceinatorLol. That's why I'm engaged ;)
jordan555lol yea sometimes i jus liked to get fucked up and wake up with diff girls everynight jus doing gods deed and spreadin ma seed ;)
juiceinatorGet a few more years of that under your belt if you do it right it gets old.
jordan555lol nice
agreed, enough said..... :-*
AnonIf this is going to turn into a woman bashing thread I ll lock it up tighter than a ball-twisting vice clamp ;-)
Speaking as you see fit! I like that girl :-*
No bullshitting! <- Can I say that?
jordan555omg u know i like it rough that s&m shit lolololool jk
Anonrule of thumb: if you say something followed by "jk" what that really means is: I really mean what I said but I don;t want you to know I am a freak and so I ll write "jk" after it... nice try ;-)
jordan555yea i love it rough the biting the scratching hair pulling spanking ;) throwin em up against wall and saying I AM THE PENETRATOR PREPARE FOR TOTAL PENITRATION FUCK YEA
juiceinatorLmfao.
I would have to agree with you on that decision. There are women out there that support and encourage the bodybuilding lifestyle and make a solid part of the team in doing so. Hopefully these guys realize that and find their female partner that does so if the choose. I can tell you, its not all fun and games but I believe in my man and I stand beside him 100%
You are a sweety :-)
That's so nice to hear!
;) .......Thank you and love you to hun,...... but you still have to do cardio! Nice try though lol!!!!!
tread-mShe's smooth as silk huh? Good eye brother and great instincts! Lol..you 2 did wel brother.
Thanks lol... I know her motives... lol shes a sneaky little thing! Shes definately slicker than a minnows peter! Yeah when you get to breaking it down its uncann how wellwe fit each other. It helps big time too! EVerything round here runs like a well oiled machine. Teamwork rules!!!!
tread-mNice moves brother, of course we know all that means "she's hot" but hell , theres no reason she can't think all that shit, what did you call it, oh yeah teamwork, is the reason...I LIKE IT! LOL...Its kinda this for me some people are parsites and most parasites will kill the host! If yo are someone that is attracted to parasites you will spend your life bitching about how bad they suck and keep bringing home the same damn type people you bitch about. 1 giiver and 1 taker is hard to make work but 2 takers is certainly doomed and will fail. You 2 seem to both be givers and that rarely fails. Good people!
Thanks for the kind words bro!
That's exactly it...teamwork. one day it'll pay off when you are up on the Arnold or Olympia stage living out your dream
and ill be right there in the front of the crowd cheering the loudest!
tread-mI kinda pictured you on stage and shrap with pom poms down front row yelling "gimme a G, gimme an I, gimme an R.....lol, he's adorable!
Lmao!
You know if girlrila keeps up all her hard work she will hit the stage before me!!!
tread-mHell the woman wears a weighted vest to workout, makes yo feel like you're just kinda goofin off I bet! Lol