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Sex drive to much for girlfriend, causing problem

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Anybody have this problem?
I'm being serious here. It has kinda started to put a serious strain on out relationship, sex is kinda touchy subject for her( big into religion)
Our biggest problem is I find her to attractive and want sex more often
In her eyes 1 a week is more than enough.
In mine I need to cum at least once a day if not eod. I can see where that maybe to much for her but 1 a week is outrageous to me.

I really don't wanna masterbate more than have sex, I mean what would be the point?(granted other than the partnership part of relationship, which is 100% amazing it's just the sex part)

The thing is compromise isn't attractive to me, I don't want her to have to compromise to have sex with me more often.

When we do have sex it's amazing, I just want it to be more often

Anybody else have an issue like this or similar with significant other?

Ps please don't rub it in by posting how much you and your girl fuck or etc. I would like some legit advice from ppl who have been in relationship or married a while.

konig's picture

100% agree

Bigs251's picture

A lot of woman just aren't that sexual.. It sucks but it's the truth. That's one reason I broke up with my gf of 3 years we would fight all the time about not having sex and sometimes we would just go without it for a month. so i eventually cheated on her(I don't suggest that) but long story short enjoy what you can or find a new one

MusicMan's picture

From what I know women all love the D. If you hit right she will come back crawling. Im just saying guys, this has been my experience

flacidego's picture

Maybe she has problems with her body image and is a bit prude due to that. If you can make her cum 2 or 3 times before you get your nut she should have no qualms about having sex. If you're not sexually compatible, it's been less than a year, and you have no kids? Drop her. You'll regret it later in life if you don't, possibly.

Bigman111's picture

Sorry your having a rough time brother, my wife and I are thankfully on the same page, for the most part in that department now. For a little while though she went through a dry spell I guess and our sex life took a hit, almost to the point where I questioned weather or not she was happy with me still or if something else was going on, we were having some other issues also at the time, had no reason to think anything like that but you know how it is.. Anyway finally we had a nice long talk about everything and all the other stuff aside I told her exactly how I felt about what was going on in our sex life and asked what/how she thought/felt and what we can do to both be happy. Basically in a nut she'll we agreed that I needed to lighten up a bit and she needed to put a little more into it. I understand what you are saying about the compromise thing, but sometimes especially in a marriage or long running relationship these talks or compromises are needed. It's a two way street and both parties involved need to understand that and be willing to bend for one another. So if once a week is not enough for you, it wouldn't be for me either, and ed eod is to much for her then find a happy middle ground, 3 times a week. But approach it in a way that takes her feelings about it into consideration while making sure yours are made known as well. Sorry for rambling a bit and I hope this helps bro

kodiakGRRL's picture

where is my friend Dark when he is needed?

TheFlash85's picture

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bigjrock's picture

Obviously if she doesnt want to have sex with you shes not that attracted to you to much no more or shes getting it somewhere else. Get rid of her

bigjrock's picture

You told me you find her unatractive with her eating habbits and unhealthy lifestyle. So whats the real deal here?

WINNING's picture

I have the same shit bruh, I'm on test sooo...I fuck like a rabbit. My wife is less sexual than me, but I'm a beast I can have sex 6 times daily. Check out xvideos.com, or get her tipsy. I dunno. :/