posted Sun, 12/09/2012 - 19:28
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hey guys so i have a problem my current girlfriend tells me that porn is cheating and checks my browser history constantly i am a porn addict admited i could have sex 3 f4 times in one day and still watch porn at the end of the night for a quick jetrk i have a prob;em in know but does anyone think that i=this is considered cvheating
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she sounds crazy, would dump her just based off of this alone.
95% of the women I've been with, LOVE porn!!! Ease her into it... can make for creative bedroom sessions...LOL If that doesn't work, me and IRISH can come over and give you a private show.......... WHAT NOW????
AnonAsk her if she has ever dreamed on anyone else kissing her while you have been dating? Perhaps a steamy dream with a bare chested Brad Pit ?
If she says yes then tell her you feel cheated on. Although dreaming is subconcious and watching porn is concious, its all part of our fantasy world.
Anonhaha! IMO, cheating would be any action that would cause your partner to feel betrayed. If you have to lie about it, it's most likely a form of cheating. In my relationship, my girl knows I watch porn. It's become a bit of an inside joke at times between the two of us. So, she's cool with it.
In fact, Eroids is eating into my porn time on a regular basis...
AnonI must respectfully disagree. Just because she feels betrayed by this does not make it cheating. At least in my household cheating happens after the pants are off. If my wife flurts with a guy, or I flirt with a woman, it usually only served to spice things up. Last night I watched porn while my wife was in the shower, and when she came out I pretended I was Peter North.
Her reaction to porn as cheating is a problem she has within her self, and no one is going to change that except her. She needs to realize she has not been betrayed, she has not been cheated on.
AnonThis topic is always a matter of personal opinions, I believe.
AnonAbsolutely ! Which is why although I am in disagreement I give my full respect to your opinion.
After reading many of the posts below its clear that what people consider cheating or not is not a fact. The boundaries are opinion based and set by the people in the relationship. Some people have open relationships and don't consider it cheating as long as they are honest about it. That makes no sense to me... So they can fuck someone else as long as they tell you about it but if their day goes bad and they forget to mention it, they cheated. My point is that you have to sit down and explain your point of view. Set boundaries with each other and if she doesn't accept your porn "hobby" it will not work out. She will never trust you. Sounds like she has some baggage with trust issues to begin with. You need to have a serious talk with this woman or move on bro.
Anonnailed that
mr127superdeedefinetly
Get out of the relationship. Long and painful road ahead that will end miserably. She should be watching it with you if your that into it. She obviously doesn't know what boundaries are. She will go through your phone records, receipts, facebook account, phone and anything else that will leave a trail. There obviously is no respect in this relationship. Get out now before you guys destroy one another.
mr127superdeewow spoken like a true poet i think your right about this one now shes furious cause i had a couple drinks last nigh without telling her
Hell to the mother fckn no thats not cheating!!I fit affects her and u love her then take a look at your part of it and see what u can do to be there for her but dont let her guilt trip u into thinking its cheating.
bro, its not cheating but ur mentally cheating. but fuck that bro do wat u want it a forearm workout
mr127superdeemaybe thats why i got veins poppin out there all the time lol
Clear your browser or do a private browsing. Don't forget to paint your nails so you can visualize it's a girls
hand.
56tooBro i I painted my nails and looked down there I would immediately lose my wood cz tht wld have to be a nightmare of a chick LMAO
mr127superdeeyes i gotta figuere out all these tricks including the painting of the nails
I think it's cheating :/ and yes I AM a guy... I guess I'm a bit different.. Lol in no regards am I the saint though ;P Fuck.. I just stole my bestfriends girlfriend LOL!
But.. I do think watching another girl for pleasure is cheating.. sorry.
Nooo way its not cheating at all! Well maybe in our minds for those couple minutes i guess? LOL!!! haha eh but luckily i dont have that problem since my girl gets so into it watching it with me.;) lol
1jakd_hipyTime to move on bro. She obviously has some serious jealousy issues
mr127superdeeword
It keeps us loyal men from straying. Just tell her u have workout "all" muscles if you wanna compete someday....that should do the trick!
I watch a lot of porn too and my girlfriend of 7 yrs is the same way. She has said that it was cheating but she kinda backed off that idea. I tried watching it with her and she wouldn't shut the fuck up long enough to enjoy it, kept sayin "ewww grose" "you like this?" which is weird becuase she's a total freak in bed at times. I told her that when I watch porn Im learning new moves to try on her and what actually gets me off is I imagine us fucking while watching it.
Sound to me like you need a new girlfriend bro.
Hell no it's not there is not a red blooded male that doesn't have a great stash doesn't mean anything!!!!!! Cheating stop it please.....
Porn. Hmm. You're not out bangin hookers or doing lewd n nasty things....so I'd say it's not cheating. My Gf likes watching with me.
mr127superdeeexactly i try to tell her its just a way to spress urges
I will definitely stop her in her tracks.fuck that. My porn is sacred. A mans treasure.women don't understt
no no no
She should watch with you. Sharing is caring.
and can have so many benefits on your sex drive
watching porn is a source of creativity
NO
TronFunny! I was just having this conversation with my girl about 30 minutes ago! She has a friend that caught her man watching porn and says she is like "break up" mad at him! MY girl is cool as shit though. She put it like this.... If a guy is watching porn he is simply fantasizing. You can fantasize all day and that is healthy as long as it's not an obsession that conflicts with your current relationship. It's when you actually perform the act or get to thinking you are going to perform the act when you actually have a problem. But just watching porn is not cheating!!!
just tell ur girl ur learning new moves! LOL
good point
AquaManis it cheating ?
you should talk and find out what's really bothering her.
is watching girls crossing the street cheating too ?
is this on or off cycle?
THAT is fucking funny... lmfao!! Oh man.. literally tearing up...
mr127superdeeoff cycle of course lol
AquaManloool
mr127superdeei think i have a pronbplem with alchohal to bit thats a fdifferent story for a different day