posted Mon, 02/08/2016 - 16:12
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How did you tell your significant other about gear?
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Simple enough question. Im sure there are some significantly different Experiences from person to person. Was it easy? Was it hard? What were their responses? How did you handle it?
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Last chick thought I was physio when I told her and I went on rid rages. The one I'm with now knew I took them but dosnt know I still am ;)
I'm a no bs kind of guy. I straight up told her I use. I keep it put away. We have long talks about the health implications. I share my bw work with her. She has become my partner, she helps me stay focused, she also helps me from abusing steroids as she is invested in my well being, she keeps me inline. I honestly couldn't imagine being in a serious relationship and hiding something like AAS use.
I finally told my wife that I was self administering TRT about a month after I started. I was nervous, but it had to be done. She's my rock in life, and my use of AAS is so I can be a better, healthier version of ME for HER and our kids.
She got nervous since we have two young children at home. Then I asked her, "have you seen a needle anywhere? Have you seen any vials of testosterone just lying about?" Her answer was NO. "Yup, and you won't, cuz even though our kids are curious, they won't find needles or vials anywhere, and neither will you. And if you ever are questioned by law enforcement, you can honestly answer that you've never seen me do ANYTHING steroid related."
Her biggest question was, "where are you buying testosterone?" I answered, "from a pharmacy in Europe, and it costs me HALF of what it would cost me if I bought it at a pharmacy in the States with a prescription." She asked to see it, so I showed her. It looks just like a vial that you'd buy in an American pharmacy, but it was obviously all in a different language than English (I'm being vague here cuz there's NO SOURCE TALK IN THE FORUMS).
Since it looked like "legit medicine," I think that put her fears at ease.
Then I started to go off on a rant about how our medical system is a total racket (I'm a very liberty minded American, so I can be an asshole when "others" tell me what to do with my life). She politely listened, then said, "be safe, honey."
She hasn't brought it up again, but she did mention, "you're really starting to look good. Testosterone works!" I smiled and replied, "I'm low dose, baby. You don't wanna see this Greek Mexican on a full cycle. It'd eat the neighborhood."
If anyone reads this comment and wants to chat about this "strategy" for telling your lady about your AAS use, feel free to PM me and I'm an open book if I can help you.
AnonIf she is truly your significant one then balls up and tell her if not...loose her. If your pationate about the lifestyle it will be a constant uphill bitchfest if she thinks your shady or doing it and not telling her. Trust me hanging onto someone who doesn't except it will get old and eventually wedge between y'all.
It's really a crazy story, I she came home one day and I told her, HEY WOMAN!!!! , I will be starting using steroids, then she told me....... OK lol ,I really put my foot down
Lol
AnonLol.... Real smooth
Yeah you see how good that worked out for me lol
She said its me or the juice! So I started filling the syringe!
I told my wife straight up. She wasn't happy at first, but mostly because she was afraid of all the over-exaggerations that fly around about temper, mood and personality changes. After a few weeks, it was no big deal. I even get my mother-in-law to pin my ass for me now (she's an RN). I think they appreciate the honesty. Once they get over the fear of you becoming a rage-filled junky, you might be suprised how supportive the people you trust become.
I would say avoid having to ever tell them, most folks will not understand.
Most folks do not understand drug use of any kind with out a script.
That being said get a script for low T?
I forgot to lock the bathroom door and she walked in while I had a pin in my ass!!! Nothing much to say after that!
I was super emberassed to tell my ole lady I was on trt when we first started dating, and when I told her I needed to tell her some thing she was just like "is that all I thought u were going to say u wanted to see other people" both if us have lived some crazy life's before we settled down with each other so she doesn't really see it as that big of deal, as long as I'm responsible about it.
danariI told her by taking a jab to the delt and pissing blood all over her pretty white dress which then had to come off,then i began telling her something else a gentleman doesnt discuss
I know I'm only a low level member on here but i just got my wife on it to that way there war two people raging in the house hahaha
Now we go to the gym together 5 nights a week for the last 4 years so it worked for me
Two black eyes.
rofl lmao
Unless you've been married 20 years I would advise against telling her at all. As soon as things go south she'll try to use it against you. Seen it many times on here.
I told her what I was doing, then raised my pimp hand up and asked her if it was a problem.. Then she made me a sammich.
this is kind of funny ... because we know it was a knuckle sammich ;-)
If it was true, that would also be true,lol
I'm now thinking the man cave might have been a better place for this topic.
Get er done
Ace Venturahttp://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pmj0_dvE320
Bahahaha "Bitch let it roll off your tongue, Sammiches!"
I normally cannot stand that dude, but that was pretty funny,lol
StevebDo you at least like his Chevy commercials?
Ace VenturaI actually like that mofo. Do you just not like how he looks?
I honestly only listened to a couple minutes of his rants and disagreed with him. I can appreciate that he thinks he is right or enlightened but his idea of common sense is in the spectrum of simplistic,self serving and bigoted.
Ace VenturaOh, I see. Did Tony get fired? I haven't seen him in a hot second.
The guy has a bad attitude, always fighting with the other mods and making fun of their shortcomings. He is also a rabid christian fundamentalist. I think he is trying to start a doomsday cult like heavens gate..
He's already got a compound in Oregon. He's starting another just outside of Salt Lake City... the Mormons are pissed.
See, it is even worse than I knew..
Ace VenturaNot surprising.
Blew egg on my lap with that shit lol!
you let food escape from your mouth????
Whats messed up is it used a tunnel like El Chapo! The mouth was on lockdown nevertheless the egg slung it's way to freedom out my nose...Darth Chapo'd me! Dick lol
oh my ....... nothing to say to that ...lmao..
Should we banish him?
i m waiting to hear how he handled the situation ;-)
I got on TRT and she was cool with it then about a year later is when I did my first cycle and I hid it from her for about the first 4 weeks and I felt terrible for lying to her so I told her she was pissed for about ten min and then she did research and she makes my blood work appointments for me and pins my gluets she just says now if ima do it ima make sure you do it the safest way possible. I wouldn't say she likes it but she deals with it outta love. and she likes me being in shape she doesn't care much for the sex drive thou.
I said "listen here little lady", (getting that "little" patronising comment in is vital here), "I'mthe man in this house and I'll do whatever I want. Now crack on with washing my clothes and preparing my next meal". (That told her").
Several days later my bruises are just starting to go down and I've well and truly learnt my lesson
Haha like balancing on a tightrope over an alligator pit!
Lol cat you copied and pasted this from the old thread I just read didn't you ;)
Honestly no, but my jokes are all old and recycled. I'm also hoping one day, just once I'll get to wear them trousers again....
One day my man... I'm sure you will
LoL
She seen me fixing my shot and offered to cook my eggs and oatmeal. She's a keeper. I did my relationship all backwards. We were room mates before we dated so I was honest and said hey I got a sharps container and just answered al the questions that followed honestly.
Nice bro. That's definitely different
bigmurphI don't lie to my girl about anything I even think it sounds crazy but I would rather be honest with my wife then have to deal with her finding out about something after I did it. If she knows from the beginning she might get mad but what can she do I told her about it if I kept it a secret I would be doing my own laundry and dishes and other household chores for awhile myself. Instead of her taking care of it.