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Dealing with significant others

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How do you guys deal with spouses/fiancees/gfs that disapprove of anabolic substances?

I've talked to my fiancee about me using steroids before, and she flat out told me no. Of course, I didn't tell her I'd already just started trying out anavar for the first time, and she never found out. Been sticking to orals only because they're easy to throw into a supplement bottle, but I don't know how to dive into injectibles without vast amounts of drama. I could try to fly under the radar, but if she ever found out...

Anyway, anyone with experience in this?

buster2011's picture

When i did my first cycle a few years ago i didnt tell my other half. I came home from the gym and went to go for a shower and she nearly had an orgasm just by seeing the pump i had (muscular pump!!) Then for three more weeks she saw me getting bigger nearly everytime i came home and my god she loved me so much lol. I was in my last week when i told her that i was on a cycle ......she's anti drugs .......but we had a chat and i explained the gear to her and she was totally for it. My confidence boosted my libido BOOSTED and i was looking "fucking hot" as she put it. Now im looking to do another cycle and she is encouraging me all the way down the line ....and is looking forward to me stacking up again.....ive lost a lot of wieght and size due to illness over last couple of years and she hates it......so im going to do a pure test E cycle to start then in a few months do another cycle. She wont pin me or anything but is fully behind me 100% too do it.......i think its more for her than me hahahaha.

I think a lot of people that arent in the know just go by all the stories in the tabloids ...ie:buncer on steroids, roid rage....all that crap which means they have an automatic negative attitude towards aas. I didnt notice a change mentally except whilst in the gym ...i was bouncing during my cycle and no one noticed a difference .....i think the roid-rage is in the mind of the user not the drugs IMHO ....if you got that sort of mentality then its in your mindset anyway and you gonna think your invincible ....but everyone is different. Once i explained the gear to my missus and she even said after i finnished the cycle that when she first found out i was using she was worried about my temper becuase of what she had "heard" about the stuff....but after seeing how it didnt change my moods she wasnt worried and isnt worried about me doing another cycle.

Be honest explain why you want to do it, the effects of it, the safety aspects your going to be doing PCT and stuff and give as much info as you can to a partner .....then let them decide. Some people are just scared of the unknown and need educating. Good luck

diablomeister's picture

MY woman doesn't like it, but she knows it is something I am going to do because I want to, and I am not selfish but this is the one thing I want to do for myself, if I were to have any serious health issues I would stop for her and my family, and just go natty......if I can lol.

I did not tell her at first and it was a huge mistake, but now I am totally honest, I just did not want her to worry, she has a lot of preconceived notions about juice.

bigdaddy1690's picture

take her out for a nice romantic meal and treat her like a lady seduce her then once you have her in the bedroom room let the test etc do the work and give her a good old seeing to then when she comes back down to earth she will be begging you to stay on cycle all year round that worked for me

gbc23's picture

Truth and explanation of facts will work in your favor. The truth shall set you free. Just be honest up front because if she finds out later it will be a whole lot worse.

TGENOVESE's picture

Get juiced dump her, and fuck all her friends

th3joker's picture

I seriously considered not telling my wife, she's pretty anti illegal substances. But I always told her when I was doing illicit stuff in my younger days, she didn't like it but she'd rather know than not so I told her, then I asked her to pin me and she told me to go fuck myself but said she'd help me z the shot, she holds the skin back I poke it in ;-)
Works well, I cramp sometimes so with her holding the skin the needle doesn't move to a funny angle if I let go.
I haven't mastered pinning my glute though, if I could just persuade her to do that my quads could take a break.

Werold's picture

My lady's afraid of needles so I don't think she'll pin me. I suppose I could ask a bro, but it's awkward presenting my hairy ass to a dude telling him to "hurry up and stick it in".

7gothic's picture

Just drink a few shots of Jack, then watch some training vids of jay Cutler on You Tube, and you'll be ready to inject your fucking eyeball.

Werold's picture

But what if my eyeballs get gyno?

7gothic's picture

Just put some mascara and eye shadow on them. It's what's known as "bitch eyes".

Werold's picture

But what if my eyeballs get gyno?

7gothic's picture

She knows better...but she said if I'm ever caught with you, I'm gettin' fucked up. (she's wierd that way).
Nice benching the other night by the way. Was that 145 for 5 respd I saw? You're going to have Deb blown away soon.

7gothic's picture

Damn Bro. The temple... I hearby take every bad thing I've ever said about you (which I think is everything), and bow down to your buff brain.

Dafreezeman's picture

Ive been with my wife aloooooong time (24 yrs.) yeah i know "i must be an old fuck" lol.. anyway after being together so long..I do pretty much what ever I want (no exepct that)haha. When it comes to aas she almost encourages it. She even wants to try a cycle. She sees the benefit it has on both of us..I trim, buff up and look pretty good for my age..she in return gets plowed on demand...its a win win situation...lol

Freeze

Dafreezeman's picture

Thats pretty cool... I might surprise her with a little something. Got to do a little more research on female's cycle. what was ur first cycle like?

freeze

Dafreezeman's picture

lol..u got me...took me a min. but i got it

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DoWork's picture

I agree with that, can't stand those skinny chicks. I'm guessing they're all bitchy because they're hungry because they starve themselves. , lol

kwabby6's picture

I know im on the young side of this one so I dont really have much say in this one but I've never had that problem with women and you shouldn't either. Let her know who is the man in the house or she'll continue. Based on my experience with women, If you give them space to control you, they will JUMP to the opportunity. Im not saying you should go up to her and say "THIS IS WHAT IM DOING AND IDC IF YOU DISAGREE" but put it in softer words. Let her know that this is your decision, you've planned and mapped out the safest possible route, and you're going thru with it cause its something you enjoy. If she really loves you she'll understand and respect you as a man for standing firm with your decision.

7gothic's picture

kwabby, you've got the right idea about "if she really loves you she'll understand and respect you .." but the rest is well idealistic thinking..we respect people for so much more than standing firm with a decision...
and just because you are young, I'll let you in on a little secret.. women are the men in the house ..;-)

popeboy1's picture

wow remind me to take my laptop with me when I leave the house

7gothic's picture

Sorry guys...my wife made that last comment...not me. I must have left for the gym and not signed off.

There ain't NO bitch gonna tell me what I can do or can't do.

(holy fuck...I hope she doesn't see this).

kwabby6's picture

wait...are you being srs? hahaha did she really write that?! haha log off next time! I was thinking the clomid was getting to your head.

7gothic's picture

I swear to God dude... She thinks that shit is funny. It's gonna make me look like a pussy and I'm going to lose rep points.
Somebody down-vote that shit...;)
D

kwabby6's picture

haha wow

HllwdBdBoy's picture

I don't know goth... i'm the king of MY castle! (and damn glad she let's me!)

kwabby6's picture

God damn. I suppose I just wont get married then lol. Besides, the divorce rates scare me.

Werold's picture

I firmly believe that divorce rates are related to the decline of manliness over the years. Popular men in the media are all so... girly.

Werold's picture

Be a pimp.

popeboy1's picture

well said K6, you deffinatly need to let her know its your decision, and explain to her that this isnt heroin or coke, this is something your doing to better yourself. I have just started back 2 1/2 months ago and it has helped me do something i have been struggling with all my life and thats gain weight. Everyday my wife tells me how much bigger im gettin not that she had any problems before with me be skinny but i definatly dnt here know complaints. I do like the smile I get when she rubs my chest when were layin in bed at night. every relationship is different and every woman is different, but the best thing to do in my eyes is get all the useful info you you can before you have the "come to jesus talk"

kwabby6's picture

haha "come to jesus talk" definitely agree bro. I think its just the stigma behind the word "steroids". Its like if you call them steroids she'll automatically associate them with "big douchebag, muscles popping out of everywhere, cheating, baseball, pimples, roid rage, small dick (not true), small balls. but then when you simply explain to her that you're just replacing your testosterone for a greater amount for 3 months out of the year....then it doesn't seem so bad ;)

popeboy1's picture

I have problems with testosterone deficiency and am suppose to be on androgel but due to our lovly economy wanting to charge nearly $400 USd's there will be no way I purchase test legally. lol I agree thats bullshit thatsthe 1st thing people (not just women) think of when they here steroids. I really am so thankful that we have eroids to help us find sources it has changed my life and my wife sees it to. Dnt get me wrong my wife is completely anti-drugs and im very lucky she went along with this I really didnt know how she was gonna react but yet again she surprised me. I would have done it anyways but im thankful shes been sooo supportive

kwabby6's picture

sounds like you got a good one bro. Good luck. Also I was wondering: Say you got prescribed Testosterone but you obviously dont want to pay the ridiculously high prices they pharmacy wants to charge you. Can you get your stuff online and if you get caught with it say that it doesn't matter cause have a prescription or is it still illegal cause you went thru an illegal way of obtaining them? also im talking strictly pharma grade as i supposed a federal officer will be able to tell the difference between a UGL and pharm grade based on the labels.

popeboy1's picture

I assume its still illegal due purchasing it illegally, It would be nice to think it would cover me if I was to get get caught up but what since I was prescribed androgel and not the injections I would say I was just SOL ya know. When I was 1st prescribed test they had me on a patch but I dnt really remember the name of it, all I do remember of it was it caused my arms to go completly numb while I was sleeping and wakin up feelin like I had slinky arms, I was only taking that for a week or two before they put be on androgel. I am not about to pay $400 usd for a script of something I could get on here for 1/4 of the price lol.