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Do you guys feel it is important to tell your significant others and or family about your steroid use?

I've told two, now ex girlfriends(thanks tren), about my use as it was relevant to my sexual performance for a little while and I was getting excessive nose bleeds and thought it was better to come clean then for them to think I was on cocaine, but now I feel like I've told 2 unnecessary people who are quite likely to spread rumours as ex's do.

With family the dilemma is different. I have 2 younger brothers who look up to me and I don't want them to think it's okay, as although I started quite young(27) I don't think they should as in hindsight I probably could have gained a few more lbs naturally.

What do you guys think? Tell loved ones or risk them finding out the hard way?

shaun1's picture

It all comes out in the wash. What's done in the dark will come to light.. Its always best to be completely honest with say a wife or husband they tend to think well if you'll lie about this what else will you lie about,but no need in really telling a mother or a father unless you really have a very open relationship with them.

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Jackson76's picture

Always best to keep personal biz close to your vest. In the end it's a personal decision and folks feel differently. But unless you don't care if the world knows, I wouldn't divulge it.

Ward223's picture

Dont have this issue with my gf. Since shes running them too...lol. but my family knows, they just put two and two together to get steroids. No other way to explain the weight gain.

Bearded_muscle's picture

All the more reason to build what you can natty. I built up to about 240-245 natural. Which I can still hit today but it’s a very different 245 lol, closer to 10% not the 22% it was as a natty lifter

ashop's picture

Depending on what parts of the world,I wouldn't tell anyone myself. No ones business but your own.

Keepmovingforward's picture

It’s not worth it to say anything unless you absolutely have to. With all the bad that surrounds steroid use I just keep it to myself. You may think you trust a woman you’re dating until her crazy side comes out. Some women will do anything to fuck your life up. When your brothers get old enough to talk about it you’ll know when the time is right.

necromega's picture

Both my gal and myself juice. That being said my ex-wife didn't create until we got divorced. Spread all sorts of bogus lies and crazy shit about me.

I would say if no one asks it's a non issue.

No one else in my close family knows.
A few friends.

The less who know the better.

Bearded_muscle's picture

Chances are they know already, I don’t see how you could keep that hidden from a significant other.

mobman702's picture

Funny shit here is I hid it from my wife for over a year when we first married. When I decided to tell her, she said, " I knew it" lol, But I couldnt find it. She said she looked everywhere possible to try and find them but never could so she kept it to herself. I actually had them all hidden in my Golf Bag in my closet which was the one thing she never checked.. Lol. Now she pins me all the time and its alot easier now for me..

mlr2199's picture

The good ole golf bag! Everything incriminating was in that bag at one time. They look everywhere else.

fusebox's picture

Mob my wife knew four weeks in to my first one. She's like why are your balls getting smaller. Are you taking steroids. Busted. No point in lieing. Then she wanted to see them. Like right now. And yeah she pins my left glute when the time comes. Just not that nimble anymore.

mobman702's picture

Lol.. Well she said she had a good feeling bc I was growing fast BUT never knew for sure so she never asked. So once I came clean bc I was sick and tired of sneaking around trying to pin myself in the bathroom with her home, she just went with it and said, if thats what you wanna do, I support you.. Never been a problem since fuser..

fusebox's picture

Pretty sure she only noticed because she was digging for loose change in her purse.

Gymfoam86's picture

Learning how to properly use hormones has changed my life only for the better, using moderate responsible dosages to improve your health, confidence, and outlook on life has lead to anybody in my life being fully supportive. My gf parents and friends who know have never tried to sway me away cause i am fully honest about all decisions. Do you compete professionally? Cause why would you use tren to the point you ruin a relationship? And if your ru ining relationships with the side effects i can assure you your family probably knows whats goin on. On healthy doses of test deca eq and primo ive never seen anybody i know who uses aas ruin relationships

I would say you should re asses your hormones, dosages, and reasons for using them, make that relationship healthy, and then be honest, and use that same honesty when explaining your decision for using them

Dr.BroScience's picture

This is strictly a personal decision. Why is it anyones business what you do in the privacy of your own home? Much like sexual preference (no homo), it is no ones business except yours.

You seem to feel guilty about your use. Perhaps that is something you have to look in the mirror about. But the end of the day, if you are responsible with your doses, not raging out on 1000mg of Tren a week, and living a healthy lifestyle then what does it matter? And as for telling women. If youre not married to your true best friend. My advice , dont mention it unless you have hoes lined up in different area codes ready to fill the void.

Sam I Am's picture

Honesty is the best policy. Remember time on equals time off. If you don’t compete why even use Tren? Bad moods, sexual problems, hepatoxic...risk vs reward. If you are a serious competitor that’s different.

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GrowMore's picture

Come clean to yourself bro, you're an abuser not a user.

Nose bleeds during sex, I would recommend getting a blood test and taking to a doctor.

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Thebully's picture

I was actually getting nose bleeds from the accutane I was using drying out my nose, but yes it did bleed at some inconvenient times.

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GrowMore's picture

Why blame steroids for the side effects of accutane?

Ozninjaguy's picture

Equally - why blame Tren for two now ex-girlfriends?

KMC's picture

Why blame steroids for the side effects of accutane

Well without it, he would lose The TROLL effect.

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Sam I Am's picture

Good point.

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