I found out that last year when i was in jail for 90 days my girlfriend cheated on me. Now we been together for almost five year I just found this out because one of her friends got mad at her and ratted her out to me. When i confronted her she came partially clean she still lies about some of it(like how many time)so I had to drag most of the truth out a little at a time but im sure i still dont know the whole truth. I had no idea this happened so for the last six months we have been planning our wedding which is next month 10/26/2012. The invitations have been sent and nearly everything has been paid for but i dont know what to do. Im crushed over this I am still in love with her but I do not look at her the same way any more and dont know if i ever will again. So my question is what would you do Be embarrassed and call everything off or go thru with it and see if we can work things out.