posted Fri, 05/17/2019 - 10:13
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Breakups-they suck
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My career was progressing, training was going very well, I was super motivated to become the best man I can be-well Then this shit happens, my relationship of 3 years ends. We were planning to get married, I was super close to her, maybe too close. what a damn punch in the stomach, what a damn disappointment. I don't know how to describe how i feel know, I just feel very uncomfortable, like the road ahead of me just fell into the ocean. can only hope I will feel better again soon.
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Its all a mind game. The one who is happier about the break up is the one who holds the power. And right now that's her. Take this time to do the things only a single man can do. Bang hot women, stay out late, not having to answer to anyone, live life for yourself. Make sure she somehow knows you're smiling and happy. It will change her whole attitude, and then, you have to decide if you really want her back.
If it ended like that it must not have been everything you thought it was or you two would have learned to compromise through it all. I've been with my chick many years now and there are still times I wish I could be a single man again. Maybe you should enjoy it. Good luck.
Never allow your happiness and sanity to be in the hands of anyone. Breakup is always though but hope u learned some valuable lessons moving forward
Have you sat back and asked yourself what you did wrong or what you could have done better... was she just a girl or the woman of your dreams. Cause let me tell you this--- ive never seen a woman that was happy CHEAT ON HER MAN... you must have missed signs you must have gotten lazy or to comfortable in the realationship.. when you do find the woman of your dreams. Its amazing how the biggest part of your life is showing her everyday how lucky you are to have her. EVERYDAY. dont get lazy, cause someone is always willing to sneak on in and sweep her off her feet..
Must not been throwing her enough meat, cuz trust me she’s definitely getting it from somebody!
Do you really think this is appropriate given how he is feeling?
In order to get over the last one, you have to get under a new one
Got to thank everyone for the supportive replies, you guys are top shelf. much appreciated.
I could get into the whole story, but its so long and complicated. There are family issues involved, differences in our views, extremely rough arguments (because of those differences in views) and so forth. But I can tell as fact: I never cheated on her, I was honest and I never acted abusive towards her. I even offered myself to support one of her close family members financially. Its possible I got blinded and saw her as a better person than she really was. Im still on the young side of life, and Im hoping for the best for my future.
The time right after it ended was the toughest part, I felt physically ill honestly. I think these things get harder as you get older, cause I can't remember having this reaction in my more young and wild days.
On the bright side though, I was saving up for marriage and other things, and well, money not spent is money saved ;)
Time heals everything. She will gonfrom girlfirend to someone you used to know.. dont get caught in the depression and drinking. Use this as time to DO YOU!!
get you right, work wise , money wise, GYM WISE..
The right one will come around knock you off your feet and you will be a better man for it. Goodluck man
Why are you just assuming im drinking? hehe jk. On a serious note though, a positive side of this bodybuilding lifestyle is that it keeps me away from drinking, cause I obviously want to keep my physique in condition, And rec drugs is just not my thing. but thank you, ill do my best
Couple pieces of advice:
You won’t have emotions after this.
Lol just hope your mail order bride doesnt have a dick ahaha
jayiskthat costs extra..lol
Your better off flying over to pick out the right one anyways.
jayiskWhat you mean the pictures they send me may not be the real person?...lol
Well, typically the picture is not that far off. However, if you’re going there to meet/buy a 25-year-old and then you get there and find out that she’s 35 and she’s been a prostitute the last 20 years.... That means you’re buying a rental car instead of a new vehicle. So it pays to fly over and investigate lol
jayiskOh, so she/he would be titled "pre-owned"
love how the car salesman changed used car to pre-owned to make it sound better.
but yes a meet/buy and fly home with would be a must. could always pull a last minute switch. or worst case you wake up in a bathtub full of ice, with a phone near you, and you are missing an organ. good black market for human organs.
I love this site... I learn so much from other people's personal experiences.
Should I post a picture of me and my Filipina wife? Lol
Gave her parents $200 (10,500 Filipino peso) and a case of Maxwell House instant coffee (mocha). All in all she was a great investment.
TrenLiverMy advice from having gone through it just recently is to just go through all the motions. Cry if u want. Bitch if u want. Whatever u want and need to to do. Take as much time as u need and focus on you and no one else. Time is the only thing that’s gonna help.
Get used to her not being around and doing things solo. DO NOT STAY HOME ON THE COUCH MISERABLE THINKING ABOUT HER! that’s gonna make it horrible and that much longer to get over. HMU if u need to talk or vent. I know what you’re going through
If this is the first time you got broken it is going to hurt and for a good while. But you will learn from it if you have half a brain. Then the best revenge is to go out and be that better man and meet an even better girl.
Wsup Pale??? How ya been?
If she wants a break. Give her that break. And go out and kick some ass in the gym and better yourself in everyway. Your gona make it with or without her. Remmember if you treated her right---- it her loss!!!!!
Exactly. Throw her out like a boomerang and she will come back.
Stay tore up and it's done. That's how it is with women.
They like assholes. That's why Sam has a trophy wife who's almost 14 years younger.
Or just give her you credit card and tell her to go shopping. That's what I do..
First, if you are using tren -stop.
Same thing happened to me when my girlfriend and I started to think about getting married. She got cold feet and just suddenly pulled away without much explanation. I was dumbfounded and distracted; I ran 20 red lights in her honor.
I upped my game and won her back. We've been married for about as long as you've been alive.
If you're not willing or able to figure it out, perhaps she wasn't worth marrying to begin with.
fastest way to get over somebody, is to get under somebody.
StevebLike a power bottom?
r4zor_reloadedlmaooo
Lmao!
LMAO
Just keep eating...
Time will heal it.
I'm sad too. Grumpy cat died. :(
7years old
jayiskR.I.P..., Grumpy cat.., died so young..
Now get it stuffed and keep making money off it.
Dude can you believe that cat made its owner $100 million?!!
That's what being born with dwarfism and an underbite can do for you....
Oh snap. Maybe I can make some money off Rusty??!!!!
jayiskthats why i would have had him stuffed and never admitted it was dead. and just keep posting and selling shit with the cats pic on it.
Crumpy cat wasnt crumpy enough.
I'm going to give my mom's get some Tren A and then have a proper grumpy cat.
Pussy's are hostile enough - can you imagine one on trenbolone? Lol
jayiskwonder what would happen if someones girl took their tren and thought it was test p..,
guess that would be PMS on steroids...lol
Achilles412Pretty young for a cat to kick the bucket
Bro a woman that leaves you when your at your best has some deep seeded issues , just keep focused and be patient life is setting you up for something better.
Don't stop being the best man you can be for yourself. Sorry for your lost and the pain. We have all been there. Keep your head up.
Dude look at the positive. Now you can fuck as many hot girls as you want. Matter of fact fuck some of her friends if you can.
Best friend at that!!!!
Word!
Ull be good bro. Dating is easier then ever now. Have fun with them, nothing serious.
StevebYou got to start following her around at night and make sure shes not seeing anyone else, chicks love that shit.
Lmfao... that's a great advice! What exactly is the penalty for stalking?
A PFA. Lol.
Get back in the gym and kill that shit. There is a path forward.
Im sure you feel that way because your future plans had her involved all the way. If you broke up it means she wasnt worthy of you and your future plans you had for you and her . Move to the next
I think the best thing to do after a breakup is find a bunch of hookers, not high end, the kind that will hang with you for a few hours, rent a van, and take them out in the woods and ya know...
Make sure you do a good job hiding the bodies.
Nothing helps you forget about a breakup like a bunch of screaming meth whores.
jayiska tire iron to the soft spot on top of the skull stops the meth whores from screaming..,allegedly of course.