posted Thu, 10/27/2011 - 09:39
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So whats out there that my fiance can take for extra drive in bed? Shes in good shape, doesnt train a bit, lol. Good genes though. Not looking for a steroid, just wondering whats out there that she can take that works. Thanks.
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AnonOk, Why don't you try touching her? As in you hold her hand when you are out... as in petting her hair, massage, or cuddling on the couch. Touching releases oxytocin, and lack of oxytocin for prolonged periods of time result in physical and emotional withdrawal and LACK of LIBIDO.. Oxytocin release can be also be triggered through looks and the sound of your voice. Oxytocin released in the bloodstream increases testosterone production which in turn increases sex drive. Additionally, oxytocin helps relieve stress and guess what?? YOU DON'T HAVE to TAKE a PILL to get some..
I have recently tried PT141. I thought it worked well. It doesn't automatically get you in the mood but makes it easier to be aroused once started. I have a couple of kids myself that drain all my physical and mental energy. I highly recommend PT141!
AnonOmg.. with kids and having them at you all day- it's a nightmare.
Give her time- for insistence: You help w/ the kids homework, let her go take a shower and relax...Without them barging in and needing help. Clean the kitchen,do the dishes- this will make her panties wet.♥
Now, if you fold the laundry-hell I'll jump all over you,baby..HELP HER!!!
xox,Barbie
AnonIs she the one asking? Do you have some more info about her ? ie age, is she healthy? has she gone to a doc for this etc?
BostonIm the one asking. I want it all the time, need it all the time rather lol. She will put out pretty much whenever, but only because i ask. She is 33, pretty healthy girl. Has 3 children. Smokes 5-7 cigs per day. She simply cant hang with me. The drive and enthusiasm isnt there. She doesnt understand how i could possibly want it 2-3 times a day. I wish she was horny on a more frequent occasion. I have been blessed with a good size package so thats not the problem. And she is a very busy girl having 3 kids so it's very hard for her to ever hit the gym. Is there anything we can do? I appreciate your help.
Anonit is possible that her estrogen levels are low but the real issue is probably that she has more stuff on her mind...and unfortunately, a woman with stuff on her mind just isn't that into having sex. She may ramp it up in a few years when she hits her peak but there are so many other factors that affect women. If she thinks it is an issue have her go to the docs and talk to them about. There are cases where testosterone therapy is administered but given her age I think that is unlikely.
Overall, I'd say this is more about her thoughts and feelings about sex in general.
BostonI hate to admit it but I'd say you nailed it. You're right. Way too much going on in her life right now. Thanks again. Oh and so...when is this peak supposed to happen that you speak of? : )
Anonaverage is about 35yo and gets better from there given that she can get a handle on the mental stuff.. have you tried doing different things to change it up and make it fun, ie.. go to the adult bookstore..??
BostonBusted out some baby oil for a pregame massage the other day..hadnt done that in a while and it was fuckin great. This weekend i'm gonna give her a big ole painpill and see what happens! Last time she was killer lol
OMG...the adult bookstore changed everything for us. That was a huge turning point.
BostonHell yeah man. I'm all for it but she's so bashful dude. I'll really keep the heat on her on this one and see if i cant get her to crack.
Take her there to buy her some sexy clothes or insense...That's where is starts. Once she begins to look around by the second trip, she'll start to get curious. Let her pick out a movie...something stupid with a plot and romance. Eventually you can work her into the gangbang and lesbian videos and she's all yours.
this does help, i have taken my girl over the years. it started with a pair of play cuffs. we only used once but then it was sex clothes, then little toys and oils etc. last time we went she aasked to go and i got a tickler penis wrap. she loved it and is a little more open to fantasy talk and stuff like that and is ALWAYS more comfortable doing it when we are out of town. just talk to her and plant little seeds and then water them and watch them grow.
"Tickler penis wrap"????? That sounds like a new product from Taco Bell.
yea, thats where i got it, you got one too. a little place in gatlenburg its like a thick condom with a tickler head on it and ribbed shaft. drove her fuckin nuts. we had a little old railroad car that was turned into a hotel room and had her screeming like a foo but i always tell her i dont give a crap cause we will never see anyone around here again so it helps let the sparks fly. when there is no worries thiers no hangups.
BostonYes sir!!
pt141
a bigger dick always seems to turn the women on but if we cant come up with that exercise does help with men and women. if you are looking for suppliments i have seen some on the market but couldn't tell you if they work or not never used (had her) them. hrdbdygrrl may be able to help you.