When my wife 1st found out she was pissed off. But after about a year and she noticed the changes and that our sex life went through the roof she calmed down. Only problem she has now is my addiction for more gear eating away at my money lol.

Unless you're beating the shit out of her every time you cycle I don't see her having a real reason to tell you to stop.. if her excuse is she doesn't like you getting attention that's on her completely..
Now I get it that it can be annoying when random sluts come up and hit on you right in front of your wife or gf.. but when this happens I just get some pop corn and watch my gf put them in their place.. It's never been an issue because she trusts me and I have no problem with her being territorial in fact it's pretty damn hot at times..
Have you tried explaining to her the health issues involved with your dropping trt too? She's putting your health at risk by asking you to come off for good.. I could maybe understand blasting but there is no need for you to drop trt and possibly suffer from low t

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Well im going to be quite quite honest bro, im in the same situation. As long as you dont get aggressive and smack on her or other people, she shouldn't be complaining much and the fact you get too much much attention isnt a valid reason either sounds more like jelously. What u must do is sit her down and explain how important, gear is to u compairing it to something she really likes. Try to work it out with her and be as polite as possible. Face it you dont want to give up eleven years of relationship for your gear. Negotiate till you turn blue in the face and if that doesn't work remember whats important to you and pick it with no regrets and let the other go and remember none of us can make your decision, only u know whats more important.God speed bro and good luck!

in a nut shell its like this partner, just don't let the juice run your life. Its easy to let hormones take control but just remember you have to keep them in check if you are wanting to keep her. Most of the time if a womans worried about all the extra attention your getting is because how your reacting to that attention. (im just using you as en example). my wife was really insecure when I first got back into juicing but that's because it was a big change for me and I was eating up all the attention, I knew I couldn't let that ruin our relationship. I would have been a moron to let this woman slip away. So I changed how I let my gear affect me, I started listening more to her opinion about how I looked and not so much about what everyone else thought. I know a lot of the married guys here have heard their wife say "why don't you listen to my opinion, I told you you've not lost your gains, why do you have to have someone elses opinion?" Believe me it makes the wheels in these womans heads start turning and really makes them feel insecure, im not in your house nor have I seen your relationship but the majority (not all) of woman are insecure in some way about another woman catching their mans eye, its on us to keep them secure ;)

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It comes down to happiness. Marriage is about learning how to make each other happy brother. Tell her fitness and gear make you happy and it should not be a choice that she should make you choose.

Tell her that you will not choose gear over her, but you will choose happiness over her. With that said gear makes you happy and tommorow it will be football, beer, etc she will be asking for you to give up.

Tell her you'll give up gear if she drops 50lbs. And that will end her venture.

Her concerns are understandable, especially if you are genetically predisposed to high blood pressure or stroke or cardiovascular disease or liver or kidney disease. That's probably the #1 reason steroid suddenly pass away, is because of sudden cardiovascular disease.

My suggestion is, go to a doctor to get a checkup on everything. Reassure her that you are still in complete health, and have a few more years of taking steroids left. Ensure her that you will go get tested by a doctor to make sure everything's alright. You are within the age range of medical problems arising, so give her some reassurance that there is nothing to worry about.

Wife no longer wants me on the juice...now what?

Time to find a new wife. Not trying to sound cold-blooded bro, but you say you're in decent shape and get lots of attention. Find someone who truly understands and accepts you as you are.

+1 for sharing something so personal and serious.

A friend of mine bought a whole bunch of gear and his wife found it and dumped it out. I was like What!!!! He ordered again and she found it once more and gave it to someone to hold. He finally told her that he was going to do it no matter what and she just ended up accepting it. When she discovered the secondary benefits of it "of a sexual nature" she really accepted it. I don't know what I would do if my wife asked me to give it up but i guess it is your decision ultimately. However if you have been on TRT for 5 years I would think it would take an awfully long time to recover. You may want to explain this to her. Good luck bro...

First, ultimatums are never productive...they're the equivalent of bullying....if someone told me to do this or else id tell the to go fuck themselves i wouldn't care who is was either. if a person has to demand that you make a choice then the decision made will not be genuine and from yr heart it will be from resentment....so you give up the gear, your wife is happy now? i doubt it...are you happy giving it up for the rest of yr life?
i have a question does she work out? you mentioned she doesn't like that you get attention...so does she want you to stop working out too bec im sure you will still get attention unless u turn into a fat bastard and even then there's gonna be some girl who likes fat guys....imo there's an element of control in play here and a lack of trust and mark my words you give up the gear unwillingly and yr marriage will sink into the abyss....unless its truly affecting your physical and emotional health or its causing true harm to your wife, not insecurity, its prob time to start taking a long hard look at the core of yr marriage and see how solid it really is

Mate. I can see reading through these posts, you have been given lots of advise steering you back into your wife's arms. There and only there will you find the advise you really need. She is the one who needs sitting down and speaking too. There is the answers to all your questions. Find out why she is asking this, but reading through, I thinks it's bloody obvious. You aren't happy with her? Or too full of yourself to notice her.
Sometimes gear CAN do this to you, BUT, you have to have that personality first, and the gear just accentuates these dormant feelings. I check other girls out, I look at younger girls in the gym. BUT, I'd never go anywhere else except my wife for anything, and that means anything! She pins me, she tells me off when she thinks I am taking too much, she tells me off when I look at other girls, but, she knows me deep down, and the disrespect I show from doing this when I am with her hurts me too, but, I have that personality, and gear brings out the worst in me. BUT, I keep my darkest personality buried, buried with the stronger feelings I have for my wife.

DROP the gear!, try your wife's idea, and see how you get on? If it doesn't work, then gear has been only one of your problems. But, give it a shot mate, your marriage is so much more important than anyone at the gym, than any AAS, than anything else.

All the very-very best bro'

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