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Friend Requests From???

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I've been getting some friend requests from members I've never spoken to, or even seen for that matter. Sometimes, I don't respond for a few days, only to find that person has been banned. Something weird going on. I don't know why these people want to be friends, but I'm sure it has nothing to do with my charm and good looks.

If you legitimately want someone to approve a friend request, post a reply to one of their comments saying you're sending a FR. At least that way, the person accepting will have some idea what's going on.

If i'm sent a FR out of the blue, the first thing I do is go to that person's profile and investigate. How long has that person been a member? Who else are they friends with? Have we been in any of the same SI's or forum discussions? I then "track" their activity. If that person just joined yesterday, and has posted one comment, or one pic, and we have ZERO common forum activity, I'm suspicious.

I encourage other members to do the same. I'm not sure what harm can come from accepting a strange FR, but I'm also not sure why some of the people sending the FR are banned after 24 hours.

zeb0312's picture

Sometimes it's just new members and they see you are very active on the forums and send you fr and then again you could be right on some of them and I think alot of them are banned member's joining again....hell who knows who anyone is really here....

zeb0312's picture

It's probably a previous banned member bro.

I know exactly what you mean I get them to and I'm like wtf so I stream them see where there been posting or see how active they are for a couple days.

Pump_14's picture

You know.. the same thing will happen on fb if you think about it man, and in no way am I trying to undermine what you're saying. I really get suspicious on fb because those requests are out of the blue, and ya don't really know the people. On a sight like this though isn't it a little different??? I mean, it's a specialized group and most of us haven't grown up having or knowing 876 "bodybuilders" (who may or may not juice) in our pasts who we'll see on the streets and say to them, "hey, friend me on eroids".... does that make any sense.. I tried to explain it the best way I know how.

vhman's picture

STRANGER DANGER!!!

juicer1165's picture

I think sometimes Its a post, a comment or thread you started that may have impressed them and they want to be able to message you directly if I'm the future about something. But I agree with what someone said. That if you FR someone it's a good idea to reply to one of their posts and let them know your sending a FR. This way it doesn't leave the person wondering where you came from.

I usually will check out the persons profile first before accepting a FR. We have to stay safe and be pretty certain that it's a "real" mber. And not LE trying to gradually gain your trust untill slip and say or do something that could reveal your true identity.

Makwa's picture

I declined a few of them the other day. Brand new members that signed up and didn't have any posts. I waited a few days so see if they were posting anything and nothing, so I declined them.

NoWeakAces's picture

I'm just getting to you now.

Oh wait, where did you go?

KMC's picture

Some members don't last long enough to even check their profile. LOL

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juicer1165's picture

Good idea x2 on that

NoWeakAces's picture

Maybe... Do you know how to make pancakes?

NoWeakAces's picture

Well see, the thing is, I'm already in a committed relationship with honey bunches of o's.

Pale's picture

I used to look them over really well but now with the tag we pretty much accept them all, even if most of the time it is just to complain about me flagging their review. Smile

zeb0312's picture

Have to keep it interesting bro.......lol

NoWeakAces's picture

I suspected I wasn't the only one dealing with this issue. I'm curious as to what these people hope to gain by sending the FR. It's not like it allows them any more access to me, I think. I appreciate everyone's comments.

mmallday's picture

I just sent you a FR

Reason: same source

NoWeakAces's picture

Gotcha

rolltide3's picture

iv had a higher than normal level sending friend request to me and I haven't seen them one time on here

NoWeakAces's picture

Nah, these guys have way better self pics than you.

win3200's picture

Smart man

win3200's picture

Considering what we do is illegal, what not be extra cautious. I have some very distinctive tattoos that I can't cover which is why I have no,photos in my,profile.