Older Woman Younger Man
Since I turned 30 which was nearly 20 decades ago and was newly single again I have not seriously dated one man older than myself. Its not for lack of willingness or desire its just men my own age don't hit on me very often. In fact once I turned 40 I was never hit on by so many men in their 20's and early 30's even when I was in my 20's, and they appear to be getting younger and younger, for instance, two Sunday's ago I was shopping in Shop Rite minding my own business when this young guy in a very Russian accent says "excuse me... you are very beautiful" i'm like thank you that's very sweet of you.. I move along....we meet again in the detergent isle and he asks if he can take me out...i'm like serious??! how old are you 19? he's like NOOO i'm 21! so after running into him in several more isles I give him my # because all his friends were watching didn't wanna embarrass him I figure i'll just let him down easy privately...he texts me for a few days then asks if we can meet and I make an excuse he then says why doesn't he just come over to my house and we can workout and I can skip the gym? and I write back do you mean workout as in sex? and he says yes! i'm like huh what? serious You're 21! he writes back " I thought you wanted IT" I wrote back loose my number
This past Saturday i'm in a local park sunbathing as is everyone else laying on the lawn, once again, minding my own effing business...when I can feel someone looking at me...slowly i turn my head to see this 10 year old boy sitting uncomfortably close to me eating his corn chips when he says hi and I say hi in a pensive voice and he says "you have pretty legs" i'm like thanks I think WTF!! with that I get up to leave and for a moment I felt like that Mean Joe Green commercial. I wanted to turn around and say 'hey kid" and throw him my shorts....
Then there's the 25 year old who I am sleeping with who's kissing me passionately the other night and whispers to me "how turned on are you that i'm 25?" i'm like none at all...i'm only turned on cause you're hot and you seem to have the potential to be really good in bed his response is "i'm so turned on cause you're older than me" i'm like really cause i'm older than you? not because I rock your everlasting world or because you cannot contain yourself around me? no it's because of my numbers!
Even the 25 year old life guards were hitting on me a few weeks ago at the beach...there's no way I look 25 maybe 39 which still puts me at 14 years older than them... so I don't get it what is the obsession with older women and is it all older women or just certain older women...like Elizabeth Hurley is an older women but so is Ellen...i mean if its just about sex and men thinking an older women is more experienced idk if I agree, I have a friend who gives oral sex and her lips bleed...i leave that for you to figure out....
it all about sex or can a real relationship develop and truly sustain itself.
So I know you guys and girls have stories and opinions so please feel free to articulate.
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Im 22 and dating a band chick, she is 37 and kinda shy, wont go out for dinners and wont get over what people think. She was a drinker i was a blazer and that was the end of that.
next girl was a stripper in my home town who was ripped and she tanned way to much. she was 33 and i was 24. she tanned so much that her skin was showing the wear and tear, she had breast implants and was the most amazing sex i have had to date. she was ready to move in with in the first week. BUT she had drinking and coke habits that was a pretty penny lol so no not happy and moving on
NEXT was a lady i wanted to marry she was a newfy and had the most motherly personality of the 3
she was a moral person and loved kids, she could cook and was docile and horny. Like i said i wanted to marry this one, we both made over $100,000 that year and i was thinking it was time to start putting kids in each of the soon to be 5 bedroom. BUT then she dipped back east to her home town at random lol
I guess I just cant win lol
But yes I think its attractive and very realistic to sustain a great relationship regardless of age
hmmm very enlightening! thank you for sharing that Xo
supermansson11Some how I've always attracted lots of older women also and married women.don't know why but I always have .
older women are my focus
i hate barbie twigs
and i hate drama
mature with hard curves and a sexual instability is my kinda lady
if you cant hold an intellectual conversation and look sexy not naive, then moving on lol
Yah but lets just say you wanted to go out with me im so much older would you still wanna have a relationship with me?
supermansson11No reason not to wanna go out with a older women.when I was 22-23 dated a 39/yr.old for 2. & a half years.
At 24 didn't date next few years I hooked up with a 19/alote a few 40 something year olds
And a few chicks that were around my age.
Lately I've been seeing a 36 yr.old a 21 year old a 25 year old.a chick that was 29 and a few 23 year old chicks and a few dancers .older women are great especially when they are mature cause let's face it a women may be 25/30/40 but not always act.like it.quick example I was dating a gorgeous Brazilian who danced in carnival married one kid husband found out she kept telling him I was a friend which I was at first once I found out she was married cause she lied about that.but truth came out basically he called one morn.said we need to talk can u come over for breakfast I did he asked all these questions what was I doing to her made her want me so bad crazy like she said u were amazing in bed this and that I was like wow.I could never ask a guy this shit anyway.this last over a course of a week were I went over for 3 days to talk about there problems.I basically told him u let her alone to much she needs attention u don't sleep with her not even in same bed u need to last longer in bed going on a year now u haven't touched her what do u expect he cried said he was sorry to her in front of me they argued
Wine glass was thrown.he said he needed break from her I keep seeing her last year up until July 4th where u guessed I was there with the family and everybody and one of my daughters I was introduced as there friend cause he didn't was his family finding out.but funny thing was her friend at the party and the teachers that were her friends at the school where r daughters attended already knew we had been seeing each other for awhile.in the end.his mom who always suspected something found out major problems they started divorce stuff she wanted me to stay with her I couldn't she got a great job moved out ta state end of one of my crazy stories.but I love older women.no reason not to older women I ever hooked up with late 40s.
I really appreciate all yr input and yr sharing...def sheds light on what im looking to know.....so thank you ;0)
supermansson11First off of course good luck Fri.at end of the day id always rather have a older women someone responsible who can meet the FAM.my daughters and not some crazy drinker or smoker chick whos always wanting to partying or to a club every night.
your kidding right ???
Absolutely
I would want to be responsible and committed
Ok but what about kids and when yr 43 ill be 63 that wouldn't bother you? or yr 37 and im 57...
My Wifes uncle married a much older woman, at least 20 years maybe more. Anyhow now she is like 80 something and he is 60'ish and they are still together. It does happen. But realistically speaking I think the further the age gap the less likely it will work long term.
i know it happens guess depends on the people involved...well i have a date with a 47 year old this friday so i am trying to find someone my own age...wish me luck
AnonGet it girrrrlllll ;)
I've been gettin it alright just not from someone my age! my son is really routing for the 47 year old he's not very fond of me dating guys his age ;)
Good luck. I am sure he is out there waiting for you, maybe this guy is the one.
Thank you
I love my younger guy... However, he was born with an old soul. By that I mean he's on my level.. He's experienced more that I and he doesn't act like he's 5 years younger. I tried to use that as an excuse in the beginning... Now way I'm dating someone so much younger than me... 3 years later I am so very thankful I changed my mind.... Or better yet that he changed it for me. You've got to find what fits... What fits mentally, sexually, and emotionally... We complete one another. Regardless of the 5 years he's my other half..
Benny BlancoAh, eh-hem. You should see him over at my place when I dress him up in a diaper and bonnet. Give him a rattle and a pacifier and he acts like he's a lot more than five years younger!
AnonWhat an interesting post ;) Surprised I didn't see it until now. When I was 24 I had a fling with a 36 yr old woman and it was pretty awesome. A lot of it had to do with the fact that I knew it was temporary and also that this girl had a lot more sexual experience than me. One thing that I noticed as different (at the time) was that the libido of the 36 yr old was much higher than the previous 20 yr olds I was dating. There was less seriousness too (no talk about marriage, kids, etc). She taught me a lot about stuff in bed and we used to go at it a lot more than I was able to with my own age group at the time. I think another aspect was that the 36 yr old was very comfortable in her own body and with sex while the girls my own age were still hung up about feeling like sluts or other stuff. All in all it was a great experience for me dating older and I'd still do it again if given the chance. I'm 34 now so it's been awhile since I had this experience.
Lastly, not only is it a major turn on for a younger guy in his 20s to date an older woman (for reasons stated above), but you're also into fitness/bodybuilding and have a rare physique.
It's not a requirement for me but down the road I'd like to meet a girl that is into this lifestyle. Hard to find them these days (most are taken/married) at my age but I remain hopeful I can get lucky.
Dew
Thank you Dew i really appreciate your input. Thank you for sharing yr experience i really enjoyed reading it :0)
Its a man thing. The idea of an older woman is a turn on. Because of the sexual experience the woman will have to offer and so on, and if you look in great shape and catch the eye its a huge bonus (bone us haha). But note my key word there - "the idea". For example, Nigella. She looks like she'd do the works, but for all we know she could be just a trout who goes "Fuck me please", has 5 seconds then goes "Ok Im tired, bye".... sounds crap, but the idea is a different matter. Same as when we pass someone in the street. You see a medium built dark tall man with a beard, or a woman showing off her curves in a tight skirt - you think "I bet s/he could show me something"....
I did like your photos, your a bit like Rhonda Rowsey :-)
lol i like yr analogy
I never heard of Rhonda Rowsey so i googled her...she's pretty damn hot!
But a savage fighter hahaha
Raise your hand if you went immediately to alayna's profile and looked at all her pics. And if you didn't, you're missing out.
AnonAlready seen them.. but yea i did return to them lol
Same here lol
i can hear you guys lol
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lol well thank you ;)
mikeyg4321Man been looking at her pics. She's so gorgeous and her words on here make here look like a real catch. makes me wanna hop on the crotch rocket and take a road trip. I mean it's only like 8 hrs. Lol
Thanks Mikey thats very sweet of you to say :0)
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AnonIve always been attractef to older women just because they are plain sexy.. intellectual and wise and there aint no beatin around the bush... and they do know all the right things to do to take care of a man
Id bust my ass and bend over backwards sand do whatever a woman like that needs
Well thank you for your input ....as an older woman i can own your compliments....jeez if im not wise, sexy & intelligent by now ...there's no hope
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AnonLmao
I guess so
Here's my take on a younger guy.. and i have dated them .. I don't want to be having a discussion and then this guy brings up some stuff from high school and talks about it like it was just yesterday (because in his world it WAS just yesterday) ... I don't relate .. and if I don't relate on a an intellectual level then it doesn't matter how good the sex is.. (it isn't going to be great because I don't relate) .. it just leaves you feeling like there is some intangible missing from the relationship and that it will only make it to a certain point. After which it will die, because there isn't any room for growth. Great relationships are made, both people must be able to grow and change, both partners have to be able to deal with the others growth and i have yet to find any young guy that can deal with that. Also, I have children, I am their mother. I m not looking to be someone elses mom.
idk how to copy and paste but i busted out laughing when you said he brings up something from high school and talks like it was yesterday and it was! lol
i've dated a lot of men that are younger than me maybe 2, 5, 10 years and 3 that were more than 18 those are the ones i quantify as young....37 isnt a younger guy by my standards....however i, as well as a few of my friends get hit in a lot by the younger ones and i am compelled to find out what makes them see us as sooooo desirable...many of the men here have given some good insight ...listen im very grateful and flattered and im not gonna deny that but its just something i wanted to better understand from a man's perspective...but i totally get what you're sayin
thank you for yr input you know i have mad respect for you
Older females are less games, period. A majority of them have their shit together and know what direction, they are going in life. An older woman most likely could take care of a young man both sexually and financially, better than a younger woman. It's just sexy to be with an older woman, I dunno maybe it's reminds males subconsciously of their mother. I personally like to learn things about life, different parts of the world and sexually, an older woman could teach this. Finally, an Older woman will help a younger male, to push him in a direction of education, career ect. This is hard to find with younger woman, a majority don't have their shit together. Most don't have an education and its like pulling teeth to get them out in the world, to get a career and make their own money. There is something very sex about a woman that doesn't need me for anything.
Wow that was very insightful and so beautifully worded...thank you :0)
You'd make me feel 25 years younger. Which would make me 30. Still older than your current beau. ;-)
Oh Greg i would t wanna change one thing about you...i wish there were more men where i live who were like you in personality and character and who were as dedicated to health and fitness as you then i would finally settle down again
AnonFirst, I've seen your pictures.. You're beautiful. Second, (and I could be wrong, but doubtful) I imagine you exude a level of confidence that is attractive to many people. I think a relationship could be sustained by an older woman/younger man, as long as they are compatible. Sounds like the two you mentioned are turned on by the age difference- but who am I to judge what turns someone else on? Live it up, mama. I hope I have 21 year olds hitting on me when I'm your age. You cougar, you ;)
Oh Iron Blonde i've seen yr pics too and you have one luscious booty and very strong sexy curves so i have no doubt that you currently have 21 year olds drooling over you as well as 31, 41, 51, etc. and you will when you reach the best time of yr life your 40's.
Thank you for the lovely compliments ..i so appreciate them from the women ;)
AnonAwh thank you lovey! ;) and you are quite deserving of the compliments. Keep being awesome.
Give them a vote if you find it helpful.PermalinkWell im younger 30's and my girlfriend is 48
She didnt want to give me a chance at first but when we finally went out IT JUST WORKS. Sometimes you just have to give it a shot
Hmmmm so can i ask you this what about having kids?
Aaah sorry!..... i thought it said sustanon :(
AnonLmao
Yea ill back on oout too
PMSL fuck me that made me laugh