be thankful for what you got because it can all be stripped from you
I become a member here close to three years, I've went from a bony lil bastard to a sexy ads head turner. I found a new confidence in myself, but I did stay humble along the way. My wife decided she wanted to get in on the action so I started training her and helping her with a diet that would be productive for her, she started running var and Clen, the more fit she got,the more attention she got to the point of her forgetting the marital status. As some of you know I have been dealing with my mother fighting the aftermath of cancers devastation on her body, I lost my mom a few months ago due to a massive blood clot, my wife also decided to put me out a few days prior. Since then I had to move into a extended stay in which I have been at for a short period of time. Nearly a week ago I went to pay my rent too find out my debit card was declined, any thing that could have possible went wrong has gone wrong, I watched all my family turn their backs to me thinking I caused my marriage to fail. Every friend I had took sides with my wife, the only person I have left is my pit banner who was been my main homey, the moral of this story is, what the fuck is wrong with people these days, I look better than I have my entire life and am a good fucking man who raises his kids and handles his business, so I guess I am going to be out of commission till I get out this rutt.
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I've been to the bottom, still had my head held high,thanks to a friend or two, I'm still getting by,(that rhymed ha ha). Will be glad to get back on cycle, hopefully soon the funds will be there. Just goes to show can't not nothing hold the Popeboy down!
hope things are getting a little better at least, you will get through it bro!
It's getting a lil better,I'm not sleeping in my car no more, still a struggle but thanks to a new friend I got thru it a little easier.
AnonThats so good to hear you got out of that car
Yes sir, my back couldn't take much more
Sorry to hear that Pope. Hang in there, I hope everything works out for you in the end.
It will I'm sure of it
AnonI have been there brother so I completely relate to you. My ex left me 4 years ago and it has taken me many years to recover from it. I helped my ex get into the best body she ever had and it went to her head. She cheated on me and eventually left me for another dirtbag that ultimately used her for money, sex, and left her ass broke on the side of the road. I heard the other day she just recently filed bankruptcy, got evicted, had her car repossessed, and the list goes on and on (she's pushing 35 too). Can't say I feel too bad for her due to the financial and emotional hell she put me through. I don't wish anyone to go through bad stuff in life, but gosh i treated her so well and she just threw away 10 years. Watched her whole family and even some of my good friends take her side -- funny how some of them are apologizing to me now after watching the trainwreck of a life she's lived the past 4 years..
Oh and to top it all off, I crashed my motorcycle into a tree last year and was out of commission due to some injuries (which i've recovered from).
Long story short brother, I'm recovered from all this shit, over my stupid ex and back in the gym again. Things are looking up and getting better everyday. Just like with gains, I made small bits of progress each day and finally after some years climbed out of the hole. It gets better.
I've been neck deep in shit myself and I relate, just keep going brother. You got my full support.
Knew it was just a matter of time before she had my cell phone suspended, fuck if its not one thing,it's another. Gotta love my life, but hey I'm still big as fuck
AnonThat bitch
I know right, karma is a mother though
Had a pretty good birthday yesterday thanks to a few of my eroids brothers. Special thanks you guys
I hope everything is working out for you brother.
It's going,out could be better but out could always be worse
hope its all working out for you man.
Things will work out I'm sure , they always do, this is just a brief pause in my life, the come up is coming and when I do come up ima show all these lame ass fake ass bitch ass people that was suppose to be my friends and family especially the one who decided to run out on me and my son that there's aside of me that feeds on challenges and as if I wasn't strong before, they going to see a fucking beast this time, because can't nobody hold me down, oh no, I got to keep on moving (couldn't resist lol)
Hey buddy. I can't be bothered to work out the time difference so.....HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Have a good one mate and give yourself a break from worrying about all this shit.
thanks brother I have definitely seen better birthdays
I've always been a nice guy helped people in need. Never been a dick to anyone. And guess what now that i'm down on my luck no one is there for me. Everyone is kicking my while i'm down. aas is my only outlet to become completely self reliant and rely on no one.
Cheap MotelsFR sent shoot me pm if you get a chance
You never know who's real or not in your life until the shit hits the fans
AnonThats true
How are you
Doing ok, my b-days tomorrow so I'm going to try and make the best of it
Cheap MotelsAround 14 years ago I ended up getting a divorce. I lost everything. because of my depression I lost my job and found myself homeless. At that point I really just did not care. The loss of my kids because of a bunch of lies made me feel the world was just against me. My mother even thought I was a monster. I am a guy that will do anything for anyone. I could not figure out how people I have helped in the past believed the bullshit. It took a long time but the truth came out. I now have sole custody and my ex wife can not even see my kids. It took a lot of work and even more money. Matter of fact I am still paying for it but now I am getting a little back in the form of child support. One day karma will come around. If you do not give up you will end up with a way better life then you started.
AnonI know what u mean similar situation happen to me 12 yr ago
Its a great feeling when you turn it around isnt it? I also ended up with primary custody of my son, after my ex dragged me through the courts for years trying to paint me as the bad guy and do everything she could to take my son and burn me. Took my son out of the country and wouldnt return him, had to goto another country with a court order from where i am and fight her in a foreign court to get him back in my country.... Now i have custody and she cant even see him unless its supervised visits... KARMA can be a great thing. although i dont take child support from her because i rather just not have to deal with her and have another headache.
StevebDamn it is really hard to take custody from a woman in the US. They usually have to not want custody or they were really bad mothers. Congratulations on getting child support.
Cheap MotelsThank you.
Thanks for the Advice partner, you sound like your life was exactly how mine it's now,
Cheap MotelsI was at a low and I think what really got me down was I did not deserve it. The truth will come out. Head up and keep driving on.
Trust me,I know all about not deserving it
Cheap MotelsThis song ran through my head for years. I am here to say that it is very sweet. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fb0sbmZVT8k
Thanks,now Waylon will be stuck in my head for years lol
Once again I appreciate you guys support, means allot to me. I don't have to many good people in my life so it's nice to know my fellow eroiders gots my back
Just valleys and peaks bro. Just don't stop breathin
Never partner,life's too dam short to give up, I am just racking my brain how to get out of this mess
Day by day bud. Don't think too much
ya we all feel your pain bro. last year my 10 year marriage ended. I was so depressed at being homeless and not having anyone to go home to at night and not seeing my kid. that i started missing workouts and eating crap because i didnt have a kitchen. body fat ballooned up to 25%. in time things will start looking up and youll recover. shortly after i found a place to live got back in the gym training clean. got back down to 14% BF found a new kick ass girl. and life is ok again. Hang in there be tough and come out stronger on the other side. its a tough road but worth it in the end. Good luck
Thanks partner,trust m me I know all about eating crap, I've eat so many of those krispy kreme pies that I can hear myself getting fatter lol
Life's a bitch at times, it's like you can't catch a break. I've been in your situation before, fortunately under different circumstances . It's not a happy place and I definitely feel for you, starting over is no easy task!
I genuinely hope things fall into place for you, and if I was to give you any advice it would be to stay 100% legal, shit can get tempting when your down on your luck but it's just one more thing that can set you back even further, I'm speaking from experience lol.
Wishing you the best, and make sure you get some test n proviron off Goth, that'll have you feeling better in no time!
It's hard to be 100% legit when you ain't got food to eat, unfortunately it's had me to the place a few times of snatching food, I'm not someone who would normality steal anything but when you hungry their allot that goes thru your head.
I am sure most of us can relate.. We've all been in situations that left us feeling less of a person. I found myself in your shoes some years ago.. After 10 years it ended.. I was broken, alone, no money and a 9 year old to take care of.. Had to move from my home.. And two weeks later I lost an amazing job I'd had for 8 years... I was devastated! I wanted to crawl in a hole and stay there... However, I knew that wouldn't help, I had to pick my ass up and make shit happen. I refused to be broken by circumstances.. I refused to allow someone that control. Was it easy?? Hell no! It was the hardest thing I've ever done.. Had my car repossessed, lost the house I was buying because I had no job... So what did I do? I found another job.. Got another car... another house and found my strength! I took my frustration out on the weight and three years later I have an even greater job, more money, an amazing man. I also have the knowledge that even when it seems bad... Someone else has it worse. Keep fighting!
Trust me, giving up isn't an option, I have a beautiful son who will be 3in Sept., I have 3 more sons from my 1st marriage but I don't have any issues with their mom, my 3yo I see on a daily basis. My wife thinks she's beaten because she knows I don't have anyone. Luckily for me I do have my eroids family and have been very supportive of me, no homo but you guys are the closet thing I have to having a family and as bad as it is you guys support has really showed me that there are still REAL people out there
AnonFeel your pain..I have children that are put on the chopping block if it doesnt go her way..its only a matter of time till shit ends as this aint love..
I know there is some goid girls out there and guys out there you should thank your lucky star..but my fuck theres some real POS out there that mess up many peoples lives all for nothing..pope head up, stay positive-wont kill you make you stronger is what your looking for here!
Same happened to me bud. Dark days. All I can say is it all worked out in the end, got a smoking new wife and have since had 2 more beautiful kids. Chin up mate, there's light at the end of this tunnel. You just can't see it just yet.
Don't think too long term. Go day by day a throw yourself at your training. Positive focus helps
AnonYoull have a brighter day
Yes I did thanks to you bro, good looking out brother
AnonYes sir
You and I have been here since almost the beginning pope... We've kicked it for years and and you KNOW me well.
PM me and tell me what you need... I'll take care of any gear needs you have... NO CHARGE.
PM ME SOON!!!!!!
That's awesome Goth, you're a stand up dude.