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be thankful for what you got because it can all be stripped from you

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I become a member here close to three years, I've went from a bony lil bastard to a sexy ads head turner. I found a new confidence in myself, but I did stay humble along the way. My wife decided she wanted to get in on the action so I started training her and helping her with a diet that would be productive for her, she started running var and Clen, the more fit she got,the more attention she got to the point of her forgetting the marital status. As some of you know I have been dealing with my mother fighting the aftermath of cancers devastation on her body, I lost my mom a few months ago due to a massive blood clot, my wife also decided to put me out a few days prior. Since then I had to move into a extended stay in which I have been at for a short period of time. Nearly a week ago I went to pay my rent too find out my debit card was declined, any thing that could have possible went wrong has gone wrong, I watched all my family turn their backs to me thinking I caused my marriage to fail. Every friend I had took sides with my wife, the only person I have left is my pit banner who was been my main homey, the moral of this story is, what the fuck is wrong with people these days, I look better than I have my entire life and am a good fucking man who raises his kids and handles his business, so I guess I am going to be out of commission till I get out this rutt.

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vhman's picture

I am truly sorry this has happened to you. Just realize that this will pass and things will improve. Also know that there are those who wish you nothing but the very best and know that you will be back on top soon enough.

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Thanks for all the comments, mutt eroids family is all I got these days so much love and respect for taking time out to hollar at me, these days I'll take my online family over any of the people I've had my life. Just me,my son and and my k9 kid banner.

popeboy1's picture

Just replied, ty

UgtaBkdNme's picture

Keep your head up, the truth always finds its way to the surface.

RonMexico's picture

I have not seen you post in a long time...for obvious reasons. What you have to do at this point is ask yourself 2 things..Am I going to be a champ?.....or am i going to be a chump? Time for crying in your beer is over. Valuable time is wasting away. Decide accordingly. Rebuild your life into a better one than you had before. Persistence and Patience are the keys to success.

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Yeah this is my partner in crime
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WINNING's picture

Links not working for me big homie.:(

popeboy1's picture

Yeah stupid smart phone lol

WINNING's picture

I love dogs these are my family.
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Pale's picture

He looks excited to see you bro. Smile

PIN_CUSHION's picture

Bahaha! Just noticed that! Priceless. W must got him on that juice.

WINNING's picture

I have that affect on dogs and even humans unfortunately. ;)

Bill6191's picture

Hey brother, sorry to hear you are down on your luck, similar thing happened to me, my first wife decided to go and get an abortion of our first child and then shortly after run off with another guy and in the process of that she cleanedmy bank out, just around that same time my grandma who raised me came done with terminal cancer. I lost my shit, got in a real bad way and everyone turned their back on me... But don't let that get the best of you, I ended up almost losing my life and finally realized I has to get my shit together and live for me. Now I'm happier than ever and life is good, just know as bad as it seems it always gets better, and when you are at rock bottom there is only one way out and that's up...

irongame427's picture

Bro you're 25, how you already had a first wife lol. Biut damn what a cunt.

Bill6191's picture

Yea dude, I started young haha...I learned the hard way hahaha....a buddy of mine who is a year younger is on his 3rd wife... I think it was what I was being in the military that made me get married so young, seems like every fucker did it just to get paid more.... Didn't help that she was a stripper

Pauly B Train's picture

Keep your chin up champ, you will get through it all, sorry about your mum I'm sure she would be proud of you mate. "Per Aspera Ad Astra"

kodiakGRRL's picture

Pope.. I m glad to see you back even under these circumstances... keep your head up .. you've got a great heart and you have an understanding of what it is to be a man.. I m very sorry to hear about your mom. I know how that is.. be strong. There is something good out there for you

popeboy1's picture

Thanks grrrl, we go way back and you've always been a good friend to me, thanks for being there not to many people in this world cares any more, I have always been the person to go thru whatever to help when I could. It's nice to have people check on me.

pege's picture

Been there bro so sorry about your mom I , watched my father go only to have my wife at that time more or less do the same thing , its hard , at least your talking about it , I took it to another level and self medicated to the point of costing me many years in the pen , so stay strong it happened , right now be strong for the kids , because if you keep your head at least they will still have dad kwim??? I didnt do that I only thought about poor me !! And you are a good bro , the world is cruel I know , friends I have none and this is the reason why my friends are on site , but trust me the most important thing is them kids right now , you will bounce back, and have the most important thing in this world with you , the kids , keep your head bro , and stay strong need anything a voice to vent to hollor , pege

fusebox's picture

Condolences on the passing of your mom. I lost my old man about 4 yrs ago but his passing was sudden. Unfortunately you had to watch her go. I don't know if I could handle that. All I can say is keepyour head up. Nose to the grindstone and you WILL get through this. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Keep fighting the good fight.

tonytulo's picture

damn bro I feel your pain my life has not been a sweet ride myself being young, making bad decisions and being in and out of court rooms , jails an prisons , being broke , out of work, family gone I know the thoughts that you've been having. don't let things hold you down I understand they've brought you down but do not let it hold you down and snowball into more hell. some women are true and genuine and others try and just live the life and what society thinks is the dream, they live that way with their companion for awhile then wake up and say this isn't what I want and their partner gets hurt in the separation sometimes really fucking hurt. hold it together and go back to what you know and truly love, what got you to the high points in your life, and before you know it, after some determination and falling down then getting back again and again eventually youll brush yourself off and walk away like a boss. keep your head straight my friend and I wish you the best.

irongame427's picture

God damn man that shit pisses me off. Some people dont know anything about loyalty integrity and respect. This the type of shit that makes me never wanna get married. Keep your head up bro, a good person like yourself will do well in life and that bitch ex of yours will get whats coming to her. Im a firm believer in the saying everything happens for a reason, and sometimes it takes a while to figure out why something happened but at some point you will say wow my life is so much better now thank god that happened. Stay up brother.

popeboy1's picture

Yeah makes me wish I never got married, I can pretend to be hard with this but the truth is man it tore out my soul, now in sitting in my car at a truck stop, no money,no food, no gas, but I'll figure out something. Just sucks being my age and starting over from scratch. Ready for my break in life ya know

irongame427's picture

I can imagine bro, when me and my ex broke up it was probably the hardest thing i ever went tho, and that was just 3 years of dating, no kids or nothing. So I can only imagine. But man you not old, you're 33. Imagine if you were 45-50 and this happened. At your age your still one sexy young motherfucker. Go get yourself a nice 27 year old. Fuck your old wife that ungrateful bitch. You so young right now man alot of people aren't even married yet at that age. You have plenty of time to set up a very normal and great life. Life sucks sometimes I know, just stay positive and things will fall into place.

Catalyst's picture

Sorry for the shit you're going through. Most importantly keep your chin up and I hope things improve for you real soon.

Pale's picture

Damn brother. I am so sorry to hear of all the trials that have befallen you. My condolences to you over the loss of your mother. I lost my dad almost five years ago now, I know your pain. On the wife front, that scares the hell out of me. I have followed a very similar path as you, especially with her. I truly believe she is strong and the most loyal woman I have ever met but your tale is one of a cautionary nature that I will listen to.

Keep your head up brother, the sun will shine again, I promise.

popeboy1's picture

Not to make you worry but I trusted my wife with my life, thought we had a strong relationship, but then life completely changed, I've been stuck in this car with out a dime to my name, been at pretty low points in my life but this is my all time low. But I am not going to let this beat me, I knew I could at least turn to you guys for encouragement.

Pale's picture

You will get through this. I cannot even fathom how hurt you must be, yea I know us muscled up behemoths don't talk much about feeling but we damn sure have them. And yes, I have seen relationships I thought were unbreakable crumble and it rocks me to my core every time...

popeboy1's picture

Thanks man, I'm definitely in need of a good spotter

woodsman's picture

They're all the same.
red pill, MGTOW

popeboy1's picture

Trust me brother, I'm better off by myself, I will be on my feet soon enough, sucks that I'm out of work but I'm sure I'll find my way back to the top

Wildcats358's picture

Hang in there brother. I'm sorry you are going through all this, but remember when one door closes another opens. A good guy that is in shape and looks great has a new world of opportunities right at your feet. Life is what you make of it brother...

popeboy1's picture

Thanks partner, I'm trying look on the brighter side of things, hopefully things will stay looking up